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domestic14U

Dominant Couple, 31, Westlake, Tennessee
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About domestic14U

Hello. i am a submissive male, who loves to cross dress. i also have a career and a life outside my submissive interests. i have a variety of hobbies an interests in the "vanilla world;" quotes because i am hesitant to separate my submissive identity from the rest of my life. It is really just one world, one life, being submissive is part of who i am. But in reality, compartmentalizing is a necessary thing sometimes for us to stay sane. i am trying to embrace my submissive desires, and am seeking more of a balance to life.
i have been in the scene for about 15 years now, "cutting my teeth" at Hellfire back in the day in NYC. I've come a long way from there. i have many interests, and i like to be creative and diverse, but above all, i truly desire to serve. To exist for the use and pleasure of my Superior, no matter what She may require. i expect nothing in return, other than a chance to prove my worth as Her subservient.
i believe that limits are important, and communication is paramount, but i have come to understand the following about limits and punishment...
Any punishment, or any attention at all for that matter, given to the slave should be accepted as a gift that is to be shown gratitude for by pushing his limits for Her. he should never forget that the punishment is for Her pleasure, not his, even is he happens to be somewhat of a masochist. he should strive to go beyond his limits to please Her.
In addition, when a punishment is deemed necessary to correct behavior, in the case of a slave failing to meet the expectations of his Superior, the Mistress has every right to ignore limits and deal a harsh and severe punishment. This is so the slave suffers, and hopefully serves to prevent future failings.
In that sense, limits and safe words merely serve as a guide. When the slave submits, he is willingly submitting himself to Her, therefore he trusts Her to do what She deems necessary at any given time. A safe word simply communicates to Her that a limit is being approached or exceeded...it is always Her right to proceed as She sees fit.
I understand the above views may not be shared by all, and my expression of my own, are in no way a suggestion for anyone to exceed limits in a way they don't feel comfortable doing. I guess you can say it is a form of "edge play," but I never really considered slapping that label on it. For me, it is more of the submission, and sort of letting go. I guess it is tied to pain and punishment, but i am not a pain slut per say . i truly like to push myself FOR Her.
i will strive to push myself in other ways, if She requires, as well.
i am no longer simply looking to explore although i realize an exploration period may be necessary to achieve the overall goal of servitude. i have realized that my life will never be complete unless i am in the service of a strong Superior Woman. Existing at her pleasure, to do Her bidding, and make Her life easier in any way that i can. Please give me a chance.

I am desperate to serve. I am usually not seeking pro sessions because quite simply i cannot afford it. i have nothing against pros.  

 

However, i happen to have an extra $100 that i am offering for a half hour session. 

It is my hope that i meet a tall and or string woman who appreciates a small weak man.  i am only 5'4" but i can fight back if you wish, but ultimately i am weak and will submit. 

I seek to create a role play in which i am owned and i am having a hard time learning my protocol and a sever punishment is required to teach me. If that sounds like something you would actually enjoy, and 100 for 30 min is acceptable, please contact me. I am looking to meet tomorrow.  I cannot not host. 

 

His heart raced.  His breathing increased and sweat started to bead on his forehead.  He couldn't see anything through his hood, but he knew She was there, close by. She remained motionless, but he could hear her breathing; slow, methodical, controlled.  She stood just behind him, mere steps away, and reveled in his trembling.  He was on his knees, legs spread, back straight, ass just above his heels, palms up, hands on knees.  This was his usual position, unless instructed otherwise.  He knelt today, trembling a bit more than usual, because this was the third time this month that he faced judgement for his poor performance.  He failed to complete his chores in a timely manner and in his haste, he was sloppy on top of that.  Those two offenses, combined with this being the third time this month, meant that he was in for a brutal punishment for sure.  The last two times were bad enough, but he was genuinely scared at what lay in store for him.

 

She began to circle him, and he nearly jumped out of his skin when She took Her first step.  She smiled a little and just continued to circle him.  His leash dangled from his collar on the floor to his left.  Upon her second pass, She stepped on it, and held it taught.  His head was pulled down a little.  He struggled to maintain his posture. Then she bent down, still stepping on it, and took hold of the leash from the slack end.  She slowly pulled it more taught so that his head and neck were pulled lower and lower.  He hadn't been released from his position, so he continued to fight to remain upright.  She was too strong and She intended on him breaking position, and when She intended to do something, it happened.  She pulled him all the way down so that his head was mashed into her boot.  "Kiss." She instructed and he obeyed.  As he was licking, She recalled his offenses for him.  

"One: You failed to complete Your chores on time.  Two: You were sloppy in Your work. Three: This is the THIRD time this month we've had to address this....oh, and four: You broke position without permission, moments ago," and with that one, she smiled devilishly.  

In protest, he blurted, "No! That wasn't fa-," but was instantly jerked upward and silenced with a hard slap to his face.  

"You were saying?" She asked rhetorically.  he remained silent.

"That's what I thought." She returned his head to Her boot.

"So let's make that five: questioning my authority....where shall we begin...."

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