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DomCplnTulsa

Dominant Couple, 50, Milford, Connecticut
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About DomCplnTulsa

READ THE ENTIRE PROFILE!!!

After all, We worked hard on it.

We are real and serious and expect you to be, too. However, given the number of fakes on this site, We will unfortunately have to presume that you are fake until We determine otherwise. Sorry about that.


About Us: We are a Dominant caucasian couple. We are kinky, attractive (yes, honestly!!), very discreet, experienced, very well-educated, HWP, employed professionally, stable, clean, disease free, neat, and dangerously intelligent. We are also scrupulously honest. We have a pretty good collection of nasty toys that range from the vicious to the sublime, and are always adding to the collection. We have had two female subs and one pre-op male-to-female TS sub in the past.

What We seek: We are looking for the rare and elusive submissive/masochist or slave bi or bi curious female; ideally for a long term relationship. We would have no problem with a pre or post operative male to female transexual, *provided*, that you are completely feminine in appearance and actions. If you look like subsissyemily on this site, We will almost certainly be interested. Whether you were born female or subsequently constructed into one, you should weigh less than 200 pounds. We repeat, We are are seriously looking for a female for a long term polyamorous relationship. That does not, at this time, mean live-in 24/7. Due to family obligations, We cannot do that at this time. So you would stay in your own place most of the time. That is just the way it has to be for now.

Any race, color, or creed. Straight girls who want or like to be forced to perform some lesbian acts are also welcome. Single preferred, but couples with a sub female will always be seriously considered for recreational play. Sub male-to-female TS applicants, who are on hormones and can pass, will also be considered (inasmuch as we have experience with a pre-op TS sub, we will not be freaked out at all) for recreational play. Inexperienced novices and seasoned veterans equally welcome. Sub-curious females who would like to try subbing in order to see if it clicks for them are also welcome.
We know that this search may be a long one. We are patient.

Boilerplate: Of course, every long term relationship starts out short-term and builds from there. We understand that completely, and expect such a thing to take some time.

We usually do not treat potential subs and slaves with anything other than polite, respectful discourse. It is Our view that Masters and Mistresses do not generally have the right to make demands on subs and slaves that do not belong to them. There are, of course, exceptions to every rule.

We are all about open communication. If you contact Us, you will receive a courteous reply. If We have contacted you, please reply. We are big people and you will not hurt Our feelings if you tell Us you are not interested.


That being said, know up front that We are not newbies. We have been there, done that, got the scars to prove it, OK? We know that a subbie is never Yours until you have her in Your ropes and under Your whip. We will not participate in a lot of detailed e-mail talk about what We will do to you. Get your porn ideas or masturbatory fantasies from someone else. We are willing to talk a lot about reality, the problems that have arisen while living this lifestyle and how We dealt with them, about logistics, and about Us and you as people.


What We like: Rather than list all the various BDSM interests We have and the things We have done, and the list is extensive, We will just say that all types of BDSM play are open for discussion. Tell Us what you are into (or want to be!), and We will let you know if We are into it. Chances are good that We are. It will give you some idea of Our likes and dislikes for you to know that the BDSM art of Bernard Montorgueil is probably Our all time favorite.

How it customarily works with Us is that Dom handles the rough stuff, while Domme is more personal service oriented. Domme also likes to watch and provide encouragement during, and comfort and consolation toward the end, of a scene. So if you are concerned about being overwhelmed by the demands of two Dominants at the same time, that generally is not how We operate a scene.

While We are eager to tie you up and do unspeakable things to you...We will never disrespect you or treat you as less than human. Of course, if you *want* to be treated as less than human, feel free to open those negotiations. We are fully capable of nearly merciless torture...if you want to try it.

Now, as much as We enjoy BDSM, it is not Our entire life. We also have dozens of non-sexual interests and are always looking for adult oriented friendships. If you want to know about all the other stuff We do, just ask!

We do play recreationally, but We have found that it is uncommon, even rare, for all the participants to "click" enough to make casual play a reality. Still, meeting new people is fun too, right?

Our contribution to the good of Society: Now, and this is important, if you are a single young female whose life is, to be blunt, all fucked up and out of control, write Us. We are not all fucked up and out of control and never have been. If you seem to be helplessly drawn to men who are are no good, irresponsible, losers; We can help. We specialize in mentoring young women and teaching them crucial life and decision making skills. We will not *just* use you for Our own gratification. you will learn and grow in your relationship with Us. This activity is among Our favorite, and most fulfilling, things to do. Think of Us as therapists with riding crops, people doing their bit for the good of society. Of course, if your life is not all fucked up and out of control, We would still be interested.


What We do not want: We are not looking for submissive men. We have no time for people who do not know what they want; being apprehensive is appropriate and acceptable, being indecisive is not. We have no interest in people who will not follow through with what they say they will do. No overly fat people. No dirty people. No skanky people. No drugs. No felons. No game players. No cyber flirts.

What We will not tolerate: Absolutely no liars or attempts to break Us up will be tolerated. Period. Been there, done that, hated it. you will not get any money from Us. Any violation of these rules will almost certainly result in immediately dismissal and banishment.


Geography and Logistics: We will probably not be interested if you are not relatively local. However, there are exceptions to every rule!

Other: Men: if one of your fantasies is to watch your women get put through the ropes, let Us know. We may be interested in recreational play, particularly if your woman is stunningly beautiful and you cannot bring yourself to punish her. Always interested in meeting kinky couples and singles, even if we never play. In this lifestyle...sometimes an audience is necessary. :)

Specific Details: Dom only penetrates recreational subbies anally and orally. Domme will do some vaginal penetration with one of Her strap-ons. Please note that the honor and privilege of vaginal intercourse with Dom is a real possibility for the female who joins Us in a long term, committed relationship. Both Dom and Domme will require oral servitude, including but not limited to cunnilingus and fellatio, as well. The fact is, though, that Domme is more of a natural voyeur. She loves to watch and tell subbies what to do more than she enjoys a lot of active participation. And, of course, there are all kinds of inanimate objects that We will undoubtedly stick inside *all* of your orifices. We also like to have subs perform personal, intimate services such as bathing Us, assisting Us in shaving our sexual areas, massages, manicures, etc. We are friends with other open minded, clean, attractive, discreet, well educated, and professionally employed people who are available for group servitude fantasy fulfillment.

Safe, sane, and consensual. Limits *will* be respected. Stretching limits will be discussed. Safe words and safe sex are standard operating procedure...with the exception that consuming Dom's ejaculate and on occasion Domme's vaginal secretions will, of course, be a required duty. Other bodily fluid exchanges can be discussed. In order to prove that you read and comprehended Our entire profile, an application to serve Us must close with your name underlined. If you are unable to follow the simplest instructions and pay attention to detail, you will be of no use to Us.

We can go fast and we can go slow, until you contact Us you'll never know.

Now, if We have contacted you regarding service and submission to Us, and you have read this profile and are *not* interested, please respond with a simple "no" or "not interested." It is the polite and respectful thing to do, OK? Courtesy and respect should be hallmarks of the BDSM world. We do Our part; please do yours.

You can run riverwillow, and delete your profile. But remember...we know who you are. And we know who he is. And he is a friend of ours.

We?have taken the bull by the horns and declared?war?on the fakers and players! The following profiles are people that We?have actually met face to face and therefore?know to?represent "for real" people: jadeliath, TulsaNightLife, SirLanceNKnotz, Spreadem, Sensualdomme, Ivyonne, Aeslyn, and Blkmaster4u2000. Feel free to write them and ask about Us. We recommend that everyone else on this site take the time to list in their journals the profiles representing people they have met real time. Also, if We have sent you a message, at least have the?decency to respond.

Also, liltattletail has started a list of profiles that she has identified as scammers.? Might be worth a look to save you some time and trouble.? And her pic is really hot, too.
Having received a few of them, please be advised that We will not accept chat requests from most foreign countries.
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