non kink - http://www.cheekychefuk.tumblr.com kink - http://www.domchefuk.tumblr.com
*Pretty much an open book, but there may be a few pages stuck together...* A confident (former) Chef type hailing from the original middle earth (Midlands UK) which means I'm often mistaken for a Northerner - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northern_England simply because I'm from north of the M25. For a better understanding of the North/South divide, the Doms who hail from the south, particularly London, usually look like this chap - http://pumpkinfm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/lesliephillips.jpg and those from up North tend to look like these guys - http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_KJKyqWeVDHw/SMHyxZH18hI/AAAAAAAAAzA/bHEaVeFUAtw/s400/Inbred.jpg, so if you can imagine something in the middle and you're half way to me..
At the age 30 I moved to Canada on whim after a week long vacation during which time I went from Cheffing, to DJ'ing (which I'd done for ten years before) to running open mic comedy shows. Occasionally I went on stage and still do every now and then, but the focus then was giving new comics various platforms to practice their material spread out over 4 different shows, the last of which ended this year after 9 years due to the building being demolished. I travel to Canada often and visiting places around the world is never a problem for me I'm generally a pretty funny guy and always seem to be able to make people laugh, or cringe and as my flat mate - https://.com/users/927627 keeps saying, 'you may be a cunt, but you're a funny fucker' and I tend to agree and can often be seen round a table packed with chest thumpers at the odd munch making an ass of myself but maybe getting a laugh anyway.
To a degree I don't take life seriously, it's too short and, like many, having come into the lifestyle later in life meant at first I was playing a lot of catch up with a certain amount of 'Dom frenzy - http://www.thecollaredsheep.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Printing-Makes-You-Crazy.jpg' shortly after the Canadians - http://files.coloribus.com/files/adsarchive/part_330/3300605/file/the-canadian-embargo-crazy-bitches-small-46606.jpg turned me into a pervert - http://media1.break.com/dnet/media/2008/9/97%20Pervert%20Bear.jpg before deporting me back to Blighty - http://uktv.co.uk/images/homepage/8028120396725.jpg
From those early days with my first sub - http://cdn1.iofferphoto.com/img/item/112/409/053/AbZKJiIndsBC0lt.jpg I, like many new to the lifestyle, did struggle with knowing what I wanted - http://www.all4humor.com/images/files/Pervert%20Kid.jpg], finding out who I was and being ever confused about what women wanted - http://i2.listal.com/image/1045087/500full.jpg. After a long time trying to be what I thought I should be from how I perceived the scene, I slowly worked my way through what I am and what I want from this. Ten years on, I have a better sense of me and instead of trying to fit to a label, I simply go with the flow and do what feels right for me at the time, which is of course is complimented by who I am with. If I identify with any label I would say 'top' and it appears inherent in me to take charge and recently I have come accept that within that dynamic where I am myself completely with another, it opens up many possibilities that I wouldn't have previously considered meaning I am more than happy to had over control of my pleasure to a partner who understands my body and my desires completely, they just don't involve most of the activities associated with D/s (impact play, pain, CP etc) its more the sex/sensual side of things. Life in London has been good to me, I have met many friends on and off the scene from attending the odd munch, hosting parties and working where I work, at the Big Apple. I have my own business that involves making vinyl records, brokering for bands, artists and producers around the world when they want to put their work on good old fashioned vinyl. If you have no clue what I'm talking about, ask your parent. To know how vinyl is made,
I spend time writing, some of which I share on my wall here, so if you do enjoy, please feel free to comment. I'm always looking for friends and can often be found at the Barnet Social][https://.com/groups/40466 or the Lamb Munch - https://.com/groups/63715 where there is only one rule - whenever a new member joins us at a munch, we all chant One Of Us! - over and over, the Camden Crunch - http://www.camdencrunch.org (apologies in advance as I'm usually drunk at this one) and sometimes the Under 35's mid week drinks events and can occasionally seen around dark and seedy places in North London with this - https://.com/users/1145757 being dragged along on a leash.
#### That's about it for now, so you can bugger off.
