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Male Dominant, 39, Aiken, South Carolina
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About Dombro4whtsub
If you are a male Dom,male submissive,why in the hell are you viewing my profile? This is for LADIES only go away fast! sub and slaves if you're not into r/t don't waste your time or mine. Do not contact me if you are curious or ''thinking about'' experiencing Black. I prefer a woman who already knows what she wants and ready for action. Do not have your hubby or bf contact me I will not respond. I'm not interested in endless emails and chat that leads to nothing. I'm seeking open-minded white submissive women who are secure in who and what they are, ready, willing, and able to explore, expand on, and experience the pleasures and pain found in serving a Dominant. I want a woman who crave complete sexual and mental control, obedience, humiliation, bondage, whips, and other implements of erotic pleasure. Those rare women who truly understand that it is only in chains they find their freedom...the freedom to be the playthings they were meant to be. Don't waste my time and I won't waste yours. |
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A true Dom does not have the ''player'' mentality. In fact you may end up meeting so many of the wrong Doms, that you start to think ALL Doms are the same. This is where STRONG comes in. If you as a sub or slave allow yourself to become too jaded,you will carry around too much negativity,too much defensiveness,which may be great for preventing getting abused by the wrong Dom,but with?that kind of baggage will also?discourage the RIGHT one. So be careful there.?A true Dom?should never lie,manipulate or be mean-spirited before you can even get thru a conversation with him.?Those kinda men can and will?cause you?all kinds of psychological anguish. Don't indulge or waste time with that. We all make mistakes but?when someone is constantly having excuses for mistreating you,there is a problem. |
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| I find it way to common these days that women think a little spanking and dirty talk constitutes a Dom/sub relationship.(laughable) A Dom doesnt walk around giving you orders to follow. Youre not in the military. A Dom is one that makes you feel sexy,loved,desired but yet vulnerable. One that uses his sexuality,masculinity,confidence and expressive eyes- giving you that burning desire to make you submit. It's not uncommon that women want a Dom without even knowing what that is. Is there spankings and forcefulness involved in a D/s relationship? You bet. Will you get tied,gagged,and ravished? Absolutely. Theres a misconception out there that a sub gets beat down and degraded constantly. I couldnt disagree more. | |
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You have submissive desires and an unmistakable need to find a Dominant man to control you.You want a man who can make you feel weak in the knees, but one who doesn't have to throw you down to force you to do things. Instead, you want a man who is strong enough to make you WANT to serve him..one who can use his mind to make you submit. You want a man that is sensitive, intelligent, and creative, but is also the sort of man that will cuff you, restrain you, pull your pants off and pull you onto his lap, punish you, and tease and arouse you until HE decides it is time for you to have relief, making you earn your pleasure. |
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I've been asked on more than one occassion why submissive women are attractive to Dom men. Well there's several reasons but I will attempt to enlighten you on one. It's true women subconsciously prefer the aroma of Dominant men when they are at the most fertile stage of the menstrual cycle. I,myself have been picked out of a crowd of more than 20 men because of my ability to ''not'' display a behavior of neediness or desperation. Have you ever felt yourself get sexually aroused for no reason at all? It's called Pheromones. Aroma is the true guidance to a woman's sexual drive. Women can smell Dominance in a man's mannerisms,attitude,masculinity and his overall appearance. Dominant men tend to be more charming towards women, while less dominant men seem to think that women are more influenced by bullying, or perhaps the less dominant males just react with fear to bright, dominant women. Maybe it's not that dominant males smell better, but that less socially competent men carry a fear stink with them, which women react against. Emotions also play a role. See,our minds are driven more by EMOTION than by logic because EMOTION is more likely to ENSURE you follow it. If you had to think about the fact that eating was necessary to survive, you'd probably die of hunger without knowing it. But by feeling hunger, you make sure to eat. Make sense? |
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If you aren't part of the solution you're part of the problem. Dom/sub are suppose to be one. Although you are two separate bodies,your minds work on the same wavelength. Subs should be attentive to their Dom's needs. Doms should lend a sympathetic ear to his sub's feelings. Use your heart rather than your head and show passion,understanding and patience. Stay focused on accomplishing tasks and avoid wallowing in self-pity. There are so many ppl with so many different opinions,don't allow yourself to be undermined and swayed from what you believe in. Stick to what you know. Its ok to accept gifts and give gifts but when will ppl learn that money cant buy love-it never has never will. Time is money too and sometimes it seems I never have enough of either. But I don't like wasting my time with endless emails and chat that leads to frustration and high blood pressure. I see a lot of cute faces on here but I have to keep in mind just because you want something doesn't make it good for you. I wear my Dominate demeanor like a suit of armor but I'm still kind,considerate and polite to the right sub. There are times to put on the mean face and times not to. Possession is nine-tenths of the law. Possessiveness,however can cause nine-tenths the stress in a relationship. Poor communication can stir up a cloud of uncertainty so don't peek through keyholes unless you're ready to see something you'd rather not. I think we all should listen to good advice, even if we decide not to take it. |
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I recieved an email from a sub expressing her feelings about the lies,deceit and hurt she have encountered during her search. I took it as she was simply down in the dumps so if anyone else can relate to her I hope these small words of encouragement will help you along the way,my advice to her was as follows- Keep your head up and be who you are. A true submissive. Dont let negative individuals and empty promises break your spirits and dwelling on ''what could've been'' is jus plain depressing. Deep desires cannot be achieve quickly. Lighten things up and dont feel so pressured to find a Dom. Anything worth having is worth waiting for. |
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I understand that the gift of submission is
priceless and will cherish it always. I will honor, defend and guard my submissive at all times showing that my love for her will provide a safe harbor in times of adversity. When punishment is needed
it shall always be delivered with a tender and discerning hand and for a valid
reason. As a Dominant I'm rooted both in reality and in fantasy, yet I can easily
differentiate the two never allowing the fantasy world to overtake that of the
real world. In times of distress and hardship, I will shed the role of Dominant and provide for my submissive, a supportive partner and confidante. Nobody is perfect including me and I dont expect her to be either, however with patience,understanding and tolerance we can grow and nuture the bond that we have established thus allowing the test of time to take its course.
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Ignoring your problems wont make them go away.Its easier to jus chip away at them like a sculptor. Communication is paramount in any type of relationship whether it be vanilla or D/s. Alot of folks still fail to realize that. Sometimes talking to ppl online in general is like a cat chasing its tail,it can be alot of fun but nothing of significance is accomplished. Youde think the women who are on this site have their loose ends sewn up so that when opportunity knocks it would be greatly welcomed but from some convos I've had thats not the case. And Im sure the same applies to some guys. Dont get it twisted I'm not ranting or venting but rather sharing some thoughts. Naked truths are never a pretty sight and there are no such thing as a saint without a past and a sinner without a future. |
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Confident Blk Dom-You can't buy confidence. You can't download it for free from an internet site, or win it in a lottery. You cant steal it,borrow it or luck up and find it.
You can only develop it. You develop it best by performing in demanding situations. If that doesn't suffice, you try to develop it by simulating those demanding situations. And one thing is certain ? if you don't have it, you can't fake it. |
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Having a Dominant man in your life recharges you, makes you focus on serving and making him happy. And keeps your wonderful, amazing mind active with something to think about constantly.
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You want a forceful Dominate Blk Man,one who understands that an occasional spanking,verbal or other physical discipline might be necessary... but just telling you how disappointed he is in you, and not speaking to you for a few hours when you misbehave will be just as effective... one who understands the only way for you to feel complete is through serving him. Yeah, you would probably get by just fine without a Dominant man, but everyday you are alone you feel a little more empty, a little more bland, life is a little more boring, a little harder to deal with. |
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The Dom has to be respected by the sub. Respect is a quality that is earned by the Dom being right and issuing swift,correct justice and reward to the sub. The Dom is not there to inflict pain and degredation on the sub but to give the sub a goal and a direction as to how to love and please him. |
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Im primarily here to teach a submissive woman the lifestyle that she seeks by opening up that inner part of her that she has kept inside because what others might say or not understand .To place her on a pedestal and make her heart soar with passion and the tears that fall be tears of joy and tears of pain. To cradle her close to me, protect her , cherish her but uses her as I see fit physcially and sexually. Shower her with new challenges that to most are a mere dream or a fantasy that they will never live out and probably never find a man strong enough to take them over the edge or to the next level . Make her proud in every aspect but most of all make her feel truly owned and cared for. |
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Pain is sometimes pleasurable. |
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As a lover, the sub goes out of her way to please the Dom because she genuinely cares for his well being. The sub does this, not out of fear of pain or retribution, but
because she wants to give the Dom pleasure. The sub does not want the Dom to be disappointed with her. The sub takes pleasure from the fact that the Dom is pleased! |
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