is there a filter that allows me to search beautiful ladies who fancy humiliation? i know i can go through the profile however that seems to let them know.

Been off for quite some time (actually my personal laptop was broken and I was lazy to get it fixed cause I can do almost everything on office laptop except probably CM). Anyways coming back to scene now.

Had a good experience in the last month talking to a couple who were both secretly present on CM. It just turned out that I was talking to the lady and gave her few advises to help check if her hubby was into it. They are now not only happier couple but also complimenting nicely. Cheers fellas!

A female profile with just one male friend always turns out to be of that male!!!

And wanted to note another observation (or rather experience) - people with no profile pictures turned out to be more genuine than those with enticing ones! Yes, it is true a pic speaks thousand words but it's just not the only truth.

Cheer up people not having your pic up in the profile. It is okay to be safe than sorry.

The more I talk to mature women, the better it turns out. Love speaking to women above 38-40 who have seen descent amount of life and really understand what they are seeking. Looking fwd to talking to all of you there above 38-40 years of age.

A problem with lot of newbie subs/slaves - they are not sure what exactly they are seeking vs. their actual interests! And they get bored when they are asked questions. Fine, I take it as your loss as you would find lot of jerks all around, if that's what you're seeking!

Just realized, I am pretty good at writing erotic content involving kink (avoiding the word  BDSM here). And the credit to discover this goes to my fav sub. She was requesting me for detailed tasks and the outcome was a description of task that was so detailed that she confessed she had gone weak just reading the email containing task.

Came across a couple (both switch) and struck an interesting conversation! It worked pretty well for us; with my work I can't afford to start a RT but need an exhaust for my alt feelings. So we stuck a deal.

While online, I would have them play small games (min. to win it types) and the winner would get to dominate the loser for the session. While we were hundreds of miles apart, I would ask them as to what exactly should be done. In the process, topping both and getting it working for them too.

Fun it was indeed and going strong so far.

One of the best quotes or saying from a very good submissive I met:-

When one is asked to do something that s/he would hate doing otherwise, most call it a limit. I call that as an opportunity to prove my worth.

Seriously, if you just want others to do things that you like, are you really being submissive? I understand limits but then, huh!

its been more than a week that I have received any mature email on here. what is happening CM?

Is CM getting boring and predictable?

Most members I see here are same people browsing the site but do not really bother to read or respond to the emails sent (either positive or negative).

Hoping for a better weekend this time around!!!

It is irritating from CM that they put a SPAM label on your sent emails. I was in a good mood today and could see a lot of interesting characters here. So I kept writing back and forth. But now CM thinks I am spamming. Yuck!

I hope they get a better way of doing that. Neither of my msg's were less than 8-10 sentences.

It's been good few days of conversation with someone in the other end of the globe. Yes, happened to come across someone from India. She was a lady of 33, smart and working. Things worked well as our interests also matched. But she has other committments too; so the frequeny is not great. But it is good going still though. Cheers all!

Continuing to have few good conversation! Although haven't found a perfect sub, it is good to talk to few intellient creatures here and exchange information/ ideas. It's amazing to know how individuals have different fantacies! And they are as unique as the individuals.

While I was thinking that not having photo may not impact too much for people who are up for online plays (atleast they say so in their profile); but that does not seem to be the case.

Obviously, it is much of a pain to look out for women matching your interest; it is quite discouraging to find out later that the "interests" stated in the profile aren't their true interests.

All in all, my hopes are fading fast on CM although they are not yet extinguished as I found few individuals who did not match my interests but we had meaningful conversation!!!

Let us see how is goes further! Fingers crossed.

And while the work has been keeping me busy off late; I would say it worked in my favor  some ways. There were some who waited patiently for me to respond, assuming (correctly) that I might be busy with something! While there were few others who seemed little frustrated with the fact that I did not respond & sent a follow up. And there were few who preferred to remain silent!

Here is a piece of advice (or facts) for those who sent/will send me a msg:-

• I always respond to all messages (positive or negative); so be patient.
• I rarely take more than 2 weeks to respond.
• Being a male, I do not receive as many emails as some of our female friends might be receiving (natural, isn't it? laughs). So the above two facts need not appear too much to digest.

Remain honest to you and the world will be too!!!

Cheers!

I am glad to know that there still are some followers who do not consider absence of pic as a big deal.

Well...since I started off here and added detailed profile, I received good response, some really keen followers and wanting to remain honest but anonymous...and it is going well.

Offcourse, not everything clicks, but atleast things are moving in right directions.

Keep sharing ideas and keep communicating, it always helps.

cheers.