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Male Dominant, 34, Winston-Salem, North Carolina
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Male Dominant, 35, Seattle, Washington
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About Dom4unow1960
I feel the need to add a few things. I enjoy owning, using, controlling, and humiliating my submissive pet
The most precious gift she has to give is herself, her surrender to her hedonistic self and the exploration of her wanton desire for pleasure. The desires she hides from society and herself. They need to be freed. "Nature has not got two voices, you know, one of them condemning all day what the other commands." I long to help you turn your back on what others find depraved but you can not stop thinking about. Free your body and your mind will be freed. Free your mind, let passions rule logic, and you will find bliss. "It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure."
"'Sex' is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be satisfied with as little restraint or false modesty as the other."
Freedom can only truly be found through submission. "Social order at the expense of liberty is hardly a bargain."
“When she's abandoned her moral center and teachings...when she's cast aside her facade of propriety and lady-like demeanor...when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure.....enticing from within this feral lioness...growling and scratching and biting...taking everything I dish out to her.....at that moment she is never more beautiful to me.” ~ Marquis De Sade
"The arms of a Dom should be the safest and warmest place imaginable. For all that a submissive gives, she deserves nothing less."
Hoping to help you find freedom and bliss through surrender
Sir - SINGLE
See: http://beeg.com/7975765 |
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His authority, her obedience, are key in a Dominant/submissive relationship. They care deeply. Practicing discernment, good judgment and kindness. Punishment and atonement also draw the couple together into an intense and passionate bond |
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I finally have a day off on Tuesday, so if anyone else is off. Lets get together and start something new! |
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What is the difference between maintenance and punishment
Maintenance discipline is a practice of giving your sub regular spankings to maintain her proper behavior and attitude. Maintenance spankings help to remind her to be on her best behavior and to help keep her attitude in the proper manner, letting her know that she is required to maintain her behavior and not slip into being careless and disrespectful to her Master.
When a woman has not been punished for some time, the memory of the painful spanking she received due to her bad behavior will start to fade and the subs attitude may change for the worse. With a regular maintenance spanking she is reminded of just how painful a punishment spanking is and that she is required at all times to act accordingly.
Another reason for the maintenance spankings is to re-establish the emotional and intimate connection of the submissive and the Master, bringing out the Masculine energy from the Master and the feminine energy from his submissive. All women crave this energy. This energy is what couples feel when they were still all flowers and sunsets.
A maintenance spanking will also give your submissive the much needed stress relief that has built up since her last punishment spanking, allowing her tears to flow hence relieving her stress.
Along with the stress release, a maintenance spanking will also benefit your Submissive by showing her you are committed to the M/S relationship.
Regular maintenance spankings also provide to your Submissive that you care enough for her, that she is worth the trouble of regular scheduling spankings, and remind her that you as her Master will enforce punishments when they warrant for her behavior and attitude. By spanking her on a regular basis will also serve as constant reminder of the love and commitment you have for her, allowing her to fully appreciate that you are the Master and are in charge.
Just as with a punishment spanking a maintenance spanking should be done long and hard enough to produce tears, allowing her to cry freely and release any stress she has built up, feeling the energy of your masculinity, and the love you both share for each other.
Most men tend to only spank for punishment, when I did this with others I found behavior and attitude to be worse
Punishment will be far worse and usually done with something other than my hand. MY belt, a wooden spoon (really stings), crop etc...
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