daddydom. all i have written here, to the last letter, reflects the real ME and my growth of experience and ability to live what i am, lived already or am 100% sure i can do responsibly. no wishful thinking. anything i'm not convinced of, i have left out. all pictures are out of my life and girls in my life. no pathetic downloads. i love the advantage i have from my age and culture to have been able to learn what i like & can do (grew up in BERLIN, by far the coolest, most liberal & exciting capital in europe)

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(excerpts below are out of a recent intercourse with a real woman, we can't come together but it may give you an insight into my understanding of the m/f & d/s issue)

the full exchange is in the journal below, only for girls, but the guys will drop out anyhow due to many men's limited attention span lol

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stefango@ymail.com: the more you submit and obey sexually, the more i adore and respect you as woman

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stefango@ymail.com: because i feel then you accept and celebrate your femininity & want me to have it, you offer it to me to control and love

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stefango@ymail.com: a man wanting to dominate the woman sexually is expressing his need and love for her

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stefango@ymail.com: otherwise, why is he interested in doing that?

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stefango@ymail.com: it shows he wants to mark her and own her - that is primitive love in the core

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stefango@ymail.com: if he is indifferent to the woman she may as well be on the same level sexually but if he really needs and wants her he wants to dominate and own her as fuckmeat and his cunt to impregnate and ensure she stays

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stefango@ymail.com: i love that, expressing the purity of that to you as a mature woman - you are intelligent enough to feel that this is not a lowering of woman

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stefango@ymail.com: man & woman are so complementary the dom|sub elements are ying & yang on equal level

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stefango@ymail.com: sub does not mean less...it is just a dynamic that needs & makes dom possible

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stefango@ymail.com: it is also feminine power to encourage the right man to dominate & subjugate her sexually...to encourage him to get to that point

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if you're the womangirl reading this with a guilty/dreamy/self-conscious look on your face, contact me now!

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1) i'm looking for my long term lover or my true subwife. the one i want to be with for the rest of our lives. i'd think this 1st point speaks for itself and is clear enough, but those who can't grasp that, just move on

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2) we can have a 1-on-1 hetero partnership. if you're bisexual we can have a poly household. but first: just time for us. i still want 1-2 kids. it sounds crazy? c'est la vie! doms are used to true responsibility

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3) or: a sub/sub or cuckold couple living with me. he looks on as i dominate his wife as the alpha male. another triangle within live's vast gamut of emotional depths

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i love showing my total attachment to my girl, verbally affectionate, lots of physical closeness at home or in public, caresses, hugs, touches in passing, cuddles, stroking your hair, kisses etc. if you're the sort of sub needing to be "kept in her place" in a constantly harsh environment, we won't fit. but you get appropriately firm reminders in tone & deed.

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feminine petite slender obedient subwoman - you travel overseas with me 1-2x per year, but still hold/get a job here in adelaide with me or externally. i will not be pure sugar daddy. i love the contrast of you as my beautiful self assured girl using your brains, living your (other) equality outside, but as soon as you enter our home you revert back to being mentally on your knees, becoming obedient submissive wife|subcunt again.

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my girl seeking long term should sexually obey me 24|7, out of her own inner connection to me. my dom thing is mostly sexual, i need an ever ready 3hole subslutgirl to abuse sexually but mostly cuddle and hug the rest of the time. and even in sex i often just like slow adoring affectionate lovemaking. strange dom. but you'll see, i don't need a black leather & latex scene to put you in your feminine place.

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i like to use it slow use it hard i give you time to adapt i ram it into you with no heed i like to hold it inside you with just the slightest moves i slide my mushroom head through your labia i stir the base at your entrance while deep inside you i love you with it and batter my subcunt with it i keep it in you when we fall asleep feeling you milking it coz you're my girl

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this cock owns you: measured betw. 16-18 cm / 6.3-7.1 inches girth and 17-19 cm / 6.7-7.5 inches length on different occasions, of course girth is much more important - you also see in my pics that i have a flared thick mushroom head you'll really feel at entry & against your g-spot

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you'll always be ready to get into main display positions, standing with hands behind back or head, bald cunt forward for groping; or bent low holding ankles or pulling ass cheeks / pussy lips apart; or on all fours with arse up, back arched; or on couch edge, legs splayed open, offering all of your self to your owner. always thinking to be my alluring fuckdoll, my delicious fuckmeat with no qualms about it. you are not passive about being enticingly accessible

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you enjoy expressing your affection and love for me in a soft & warm feminine way that reminds you why being a woman is so beautiful for you. and i love responding in kind

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my 11yo daughter lives with me one week every second week. she means everything to me. i literally gave up my home so she still has her father. but she's not a spoiled brat. you & i will be discreet around her until she reaches the sexual maturity to understand

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first contact possibilities:

y-m chat: stefango@ymail.com

e-mail: shelterq@hotmail.com

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that's it. if you are now seriously considering to apply, what follows is the "fine print" for me to point to in your moments of unwarranted hesitation and some relevant history

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i want a woman/girl who is able to be my sublovercunt, but also the sweet big sister and friend or second mom for my daughter who is with me second weeks. i won't in any way let her be exposed to what is the adult dynamic connecting her father with you (yet).

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messages which do not relate in some way to my profile and show you have not read it and thought about it will be instantly deleted.

you should have a mind i admire. in everyday life i am a very loving & tender man with my collared subwoman/girl in the knowledge that she knows her place. i'm free spirited & sorta funny if you're a good girl. i live in adelaide, australia, and at times 2-4 weeks in berlin, germany - and i expect my girl to be flexible, presentable, witty and pleasant company.

two important distinctions in our sex life : using your pet name or other endearments when your presence makes me want to make tender affectionate adoring love to you with warmth, consideration, oral sex also from me, supporting your orgasm actively, sweet talk, hugging and kissing, much caressing, undressing you slowly, gently, with time and appreciation ~X~ using calm, but distinctly sterner commanding voice, calling you by function names such as fuckmeat, subcunt, fuckdoll etc will signal you to convert to pliant obedient submission mode. you may even have been taught to use a certain tone of voice to signal your subcunt awareness to me.

you will get down to kneel or crawl or offer yourself in "alluring" poses, sometimes be tied up as the fuckmeat you are and/or be disciplined by slapping/smacking with bare hand or beaten with implements. my aim will be to leave mere welts or bruises, break you for the moment, make you more pliant, not harm you. i maintain and husband my property, not run it down. you will be used as i see fit, as my cock desires, as girl property to subjugate, mark and sperm. your orgasm is of no concern to me then. i may even forbid you to have one if i am in such mood. my body language tells you my dom or soft mood for you to adapt to.

despite my lingo, ironically i have somewhat leftist/green sympathies, so if you may turn out during any of our political discussions to have leanings toward lib/nat (austr.), cdu/csu (germany), republ. (usa), front nat. (france), tory (uk), your caning or any other punishment will be immediate, very much more severe than sexual and will probably NOT be followed by intensely possessive fuckviolation.

i need you to be interesting culturally and politically as well as being a soothing presence at home to confide in, to hold and caress and just veg out with. spontaneous sexual use is always possible, as you always keep yourself easily accessible in your dress code.

ownership of a collared woman/girl means pride and care for one's exquisite valued property. the mutual erotic journey is primarily one of the mind, our main sex organ, from which everything else follows. this is my premise. i want a woman/girl as my friend and lover (and wife too?), also beyond the 'mere' sexual, as my equal but submissive obedient long term relationship.

over time, i have found myself tolerating bitching women less and less in my life & also expressing this in the way i discipline them & take sexual possession of them. i still believe in the equal rights of women on an everyday level - as long as mine knows when to unambiguously obey me privately or in symbolically important public situations.

my sexual dominant urges have been there since my boyhood masturbation fantasies at 9-11 years. this developed on within me since the seed really took hold when i was between 19-22, but at that time, maybe too young to realize the french girl i loved and was together with for over 3 years was actually yearning to be my slavegirl.

i revel in my lover sexually expressing her true self proactively and then adapting when she has to. what makes you as woman/girl really feminine is - for me - when you know your place and submit at all times to the man who wants and needs you. in sex, you are to be my malleable 3hole subslut - it is the natural order.

from young to quite mature, i value any age, the thrill is the mindfuck between both acting out total intimacy. your age and experiences offer me individual components of the clay to mold. i will also insist on disciplining you physically to remind you of your girly place whenever i deem it appropriate.

i adore both 'mature/ripe' females and young ones for different reasons, as long as you are petite and very feminine. i am still looking for the one where the click between our minds is final! where the search ends!

your message should contain several visual impressions of you, or be ignored.

~X~