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Male Dominant, 50, Cincinnati, Ohio
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About DoctorDark
Hello,
In the Vanilla world, I sometimes get called a dirty old man. When I say I'm into watersports, people think I'm talking about snorkling. Other things that set me apart from the Vanilla beans are an interest in fisting, knowing that spanking and other forms of "beating" a partner can be fun and not a violence, and thinking that Home Depo can be an erotic toy store.
I'm not what you'd normally consider a dom, but I lean that way slightly. Some things I like might be considered sub. I'm not too concerned about labels. I am looking for a woman to play with and learn with. Life is to short to wonder what might have been. Lets play.
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Another Fetishcon has come and gone. I'm still not working as hard as I could at the event. I'm still not being as agressive as I could about booking shoots. On the other hand, four of the five formal shoots I did were excellent and the fifth was ok. I'd rather do good work with people who want to work with me than blah stuff with people who don't care.
This is a fetish site and you don't really care that much about my photography, so I'll share a little kink with you. I am slipping father into the life all the time. I bought 60 ft of pretty rope from Rainbow Rope and tired it out with the last model I worked with. I'm still a novice at rope bondage, but the simple ties I did looked good and held well. I've talked with a local rigger about some hands on training.
The biggest revelation for me came late Sunday night. The party was pretty much over and people were heading to the pool or room parties. I put away my camera and took a look in the dungeon space. Lew Rubens and Sabrina Fox were in there playing with some friends. It's hard to put into words, but the sensual bondage play that they were having fun with registered with me in a way that other things haven't. I'm still largely an anthropologist doing intensive participant observation in the BDSM world. Watching Lew and Sabrina play pushed me a lot closer to "going native."
More than ever before, I want to find someone who I can explore with. |
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Wal-Mart Shopping list
60 feet of chain.
50 feet of girly pink rope
12 chain fasteners
3 locks
Fetishcon is almost here. If all goes well, I'm going to do a chain bondage shoot in a wooded area. |
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I am what I am. What I am is primarily a photographer and a former social scientist. In my younger days, I documented things like the punk rock scene and the emergence of the body modification cult. If I'd written for Rolling Stone instead of some academic journals, I might be famous now.
But that's beside the point.
My point is that my main connection to the lifestyle is documenting aspects of it in digital images. To that end, I'd love to meet people of all shades who would like to have their lives documented.
I am not totally vanilla. Maybe more like a fidge ripple or something of that nature. I do have my kinks. My biggest is watersports. I can't try to pretend to be something I'm not. I can play at being dom somewhat successfully. I can play sub a little bit, but ...
So that's my confession. The lights are set up and the battery is charged in the camera. |
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