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Quick summation: sensuous, firm, funny, smart, experienced Dom. Professional, well-read, good in conversation as well as in the bedroom. Younger-looking than the age. Loves to teach the ways of submission; works more in the mind than with the whip. Seeks partner for whom service is fulfillment, erotic electricity is a way of life, regular D/s nutrition via communication is necessary. Very oral, imaginative, long-lasting and expecting a lot of a sub - especially her willingness to open her mind and reveal her dreams.

She thinks sexually all the time and enjoys her masturbation, visual stimulations and varied forms of sharing (phone, email, RT) but is looking for more than online and cyber. Married or otherwise is fine.

Philosophy: molding her submission is the means to bring her to a higher level, not lower; sexual expression is the battery that charges our lives; erotic punishment and lessons (in safety and with limits respected) can be vital but not as important as understanding her mind. No place here for the "kneel before me" nonsense on first mailing - to make it work, takes willingness to share and work.

Photo available to trade. Average build, above-average mind, intense erotic personality, demanding and compassionate. Enjoys varied tastes in music, film, politics, culture. Looking mostly in the NE Philly-Bucks area but open to ideas.

Yes, this search for a companion can be exhausting and has (and will) lead to players, users and who-knows-what. Can also lead to extreme fulfillment, and so I step into swirling waters again. Seeking one who reads, learns, doesn't smoke tobacco and is willing to reveal and learn - and be revealed in the process.