Desiray

Hello this is a message to guys who aren't willing to return an offering to a Mistress or Domme. What is the reason you seek a Domme or Mistress ?

How do you think they attained their status? It costs them a lot of time and money to be who they are. They paid their dues for years.  Its their business to know how to handle your emotions and your mind. Hot to use and abuse you just enough to give you the satisfaction you desire.  If you want  a plain girl or a sub that has no experience then that's what you should look for. Even they want to be taken care of , That's the exchange what ever you both decide. Some one gives and someone pays.

It would be wise to open your mind.  Women are not fools. Men who think women should do all this at no cost to them . For you to feel you have truly lived out your fantasy their needs to be an energy exchange . Women with skills deserve to be compensated just like any other profession or business. Everything has some cost to it.

This is an emotional response to a profile I read by an guy who says he is interested in the life style and doesnt understand why Mistresses expect to be paid .

I want to update my profile with a little more about me.

More of a dominant in most cases. I have my own business and don't have a lot of time

for meeting people  in the life when I have time. I already have a master. My life is more private that is why I dont

write to you all here . Thanks for you comments.