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Female Submissive, 50, Charlotte, North Carolina
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Female Submissive, 35
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Female Submissive, 28, Boston, Massachusetts
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About DepressedDom
Dominant who's lonely and searching for love.
Who would I admit that I'm lonely? Shouldn't I project an aura of confidence and security?
Well, yes, but that'd be a lie. I am saddened to have no cute little submissive in my life to come home to, take care of. To have her looking up at me with adoring eyes and a tender heart.
Why should I be depressed though? I have a good job, security, friends, places to go, things to do. It's not like I live at home exclusively.
Well, I find that you can have all that and still feel like the biggest piece of you is missing, and it most certainly is for me.
Mundane details:
Blue eyes, curly brown hair, a bit pudgy. Loves geeky things and staying in, or doing adventurous things in far off locals. Diving with sharks in the galapagos being the most adventurous, so far
A great lover of the intellectual side of life. INTP on the Myers-Briggs test.
Who I'm looking for:
First, I'm looking for someone to fall in love with. Given what I've written above, you'd expect me to have no standards whatsoever, but unfortunately I'm cursed with those too. I'd like someone reasonably intelligent, humorous, and caring. Not looking for perfection, but a personality I can enjoy sending time for.
Kinks - Well, I have quite a few, but I generally find these secondary. Kink is fun, in many many flavors. If you don't have one specific one my list, who cares.
I do prefer TPE though. I have owned one slave girl in my span as a Dom and was thrilled with every day of that.
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While this profile is serious - it is who I really am, it was also put together to point out a problem. When you're stuck being depressed about not having anyone, it tends to spiral. The problem is compounded by being a Dom, or at least, identifying as one.
The typical response I've seen to most Doms with any issue the sub doesn't particularly care for is "Well, if you aren't in control of your life, how can you expect to control mine?"
Good question! I actually think that it's a fallacy. While you don't want a Dom who's completely out of control, do you really want one who's not willing to admit they have feelings?
I found no particular trouble managing my ex's life when I was Dom. Partly because having someone pretty much wiped out any feelings of depression, it was easy to think "Hey, my pet loves me, what could be wrong in this world."
One nasty breakup later and that all changed, of course.
Anyway, if you feel like responding to this profile on either an intellectual or romantic level, feel free, it is a real person (me!) back here. I'm going to see if anyone does
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