With the start of this new year I will be looking for; People of like mind and interests, Friends, Play partners, Good conversationalists with similar interests, People in my area (Oceanside, Ca)/ whom visit the area frequent enough, and more possibly to come. What I'm NOT looking for; 24/7 relationships outside of friendship, drama, cyber sex, relocating, ownership, phone sex, daddy/mommy dominants/ people twice my age, online relationships, etc. Some things to keep in mind if you want me to respond to your message(s); Firstly, this isn't grade school, meaning we don't say hi and we're suddenly best friends.. Don't be rude/disrespectful/vulgar/demanding. Don't send repeated messages just because I don't respond right away, I will respond asap and repeating messages will only delay my response even more. Try not to send insanely long messages/responses, it takes forever to read and respond.. Understand that my face will not be revealed to you prior to meeting for my safety and my job. I do not give out my e-mail address/messenger sn/phone number to people I do not know, no exceptions anymore. I don't want anyone talking about the 'right guy/girl' for me, especially if you don't know me! And more importantly, please don't feel intimidated or shy, I don't bite.. hard.. enough to draw blood.. XD Just be yourself and please don't start off asking/demanding bdsm related information from me, after all, there is so much more to me than that as I'm sure there is to you.
Now that all thats out of the way, some topics of interest to me that you might enjoy just as much as well as a lil bit about myself.. I suppose I'll start off with my absolute favorite thing to do above all else; Cleaning (and no, that does NOT mean I offer such services to anyone!). Second favorite thing would have to be walking and running, I greatly enjoy how freeing and relaxing it feels to just take off for a bit, especially when I'm feeling cooped up and anxious at the end of a long day. Another great passion of mine is giving massages, I'm told that I'm pretty good and am working to get certified for it. Something I've recently started to do and so far enjoy is curling up under covers with a good book every now and then or getting together with others to watch a movie. Also I am a bit of a geek with a love for anime, manga, rps, and magic the gathering.. they aren't an all the time thing depending on whom I'm hanging around though. And finally I've developed an interest in certain cars (FD, Sil80, and third gen. firebirds), so I'm looking to learn more about them (mechanical wise) and perhaps some day own at least one of each. ^_^ The sil80 particularly I want to learn how to build and maintain myself and think it'll be the first out of the three that I'll be working on getting. I'll stop there for now, hope it's enough to start up some conversations with you. Thanks for reading this far and good luck with your searches.
~ Yume
Currently have a desire to watch a sub/slave/switch (male and female) perform domestic services around a household (mine or a good friends), possibly with restrictions to make things more complicated and interesting as well as at least some, if not plenty of humiliation likely to be involved if not more..
Okay everyone, this is how I handle messages; First I read all new messages, sometimes glancing at profiles out of particular interest and/or curiousity. Next I start to respond, starting from least recently received to recently received. However, sometimes if there are a lot of messages to respond to I skip over the longer messages to come back to when I have more time. Just another tidbit to keep in mind when messaging me I suppose.
