demure

I'm a R/T submissive/maso seeking R/T dominant men (no women or switches please) who have interests that my own will compliment. Please understand that I am not your typical "text book" submissive who will bow and hang on your every command. Rather, I am a woman who has a strong proclivity to surrender control to those that have a true and real dominant nature and not one practiced by reading the Online BDSM Guide For Beginners. I'd like to meet someone that I can explore unknown territories with, someone that can push my limits safely beyond what I might think I can handle, someone that isn't looking for a doormat but instead will appreciate my individuality and my mind. Oh yeah, and someone that is corporal enough to help me stay within the parameters set forth between us! *grin*

I never got involved with this lifestyle to be a "me-me-me" submissive. It's not who I am. I suppose if it were all about my wants and my needs then I would likely have been on the other side of the fence. Simply put, I am happiest when experiencing the genuine joy that comes from being allowed to do things for someone I care about.

My S&M interests range vastly. As mentioned above, I am a masochist though that doesn't mean all I enjoy are the things that hurt. I have a major love of bullwhips, singletails, OTK, hairbrushings, bondage, cutting and straps. Just to name a few!

I wouldn't even know where to begin talking about my drive for the energetic and spiritual connection that comes with Power Exchange. It feeds my soul and I migrate naturally towards dominant men with whom I share that dynamic.

So, there you have it! That's a bit about me!