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Demoivre - Male Dominant, Ventura California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About Demoivre

I am a sadist, with a voyeur’s heart and a non-romantic sensualist’s mind.
Although I tend to have a dominant personality, under most circumstances I prefer a top/bottom relationship over a strict Dom/sub relationship--this varies from person to person, however.
My Number One fetish, hands down, is knife/sword play. In the right scene, I find that I can spend hours in a seemingly Zen-like state, focused solely on the erotic connection between the blade and the bottom.
I am an applied mathematician, a novelist (my work tends toward magic realism), a visual artist, and, for the record, an extreme introvert.
I am looking for female masochists. Although I am in a poly relationship, I am not necessarily looking for other relationships, although I am open to the possibility.

I am a Civilized Monster.

I am greatly amused by your pain. I am also greatly amused by your pleasure. When you scream, gasp, moan, sigh, I am happy.

I will gladly restrain you because that keeps your squirming to a minimum (and since I'm so incredibly fond of knives, this is practical as well as hilarious).

I mentioned knives? Well, yes indeed, knives will happen. All types of knives. Swords even. Blood will not necessarily happen, because that's were I drawn the line--a thin red line, granted, but a line nonetheless.

I will flog you, cane you. I will twist, pull, scrape, scratch, and bite. I will poke, prod, torture, study, and learn. I will most definitely laugh.

I will give you multiple orgasms, if possible. But, when you are gasping and screaming, I will turn the Hitachi off and say, "I'm sorry, I couldn't hear you over the sound of the Hitachi. Were you about to come?"

And yes, I will gladly fuck you. Fuck you with things. Odd-shaped things, big things, small things, most likely very cold things. Actual dildos and penises are negotiable.

I will cuddle with you, pet you, hold you, try to make you feel safe. Yes, I realize that I didn't add 'afterward' to that last sentence. Cuddles, safety, and pain are not, in my mind, mutually exclusive.

When I tell you to ask permission to orgasm, it is because I am a control freak. I want to know exactly what is happening, when, where, and why. Think of it as if I were writing the definitive work on the subject.

But, if you beg, you will only amuse me. If you call me 'sir,' I will probably mock you. If you try to make me mad, to use my anger in your favor, I will chain you in a corner and go sit in another room, ignoring you completely. If you try to top from the bottom, I will do exactly what you don't want. If you lie or are incapable of knowing yourself well enough to know when you are lying, I will never scene with you again.

I am not interested in your submission. I am not interested in controlling your life. I will not take responsibility for you outside of a scene.

I am not your Dominant. I am not your Master. I am not your Daddy. I am most definitely not some sort of leather-wrapped Superman who can read your mind and dominate you the way your want, when you want, no discussion necessary.

I am simply a Civilized Monster.

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