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| Hello lovely peeps :)
Me: Intelligent, giving, funny, occasionally moody, solvent, successful, no kids, own home. Love giving dinner parties, creating things and making people feel comfortable and happy. Owner of the "arse most in need of spanking", or so I'm told! You: Single, tall (5'10" plus), honest, sane where required in practical matters, funny, mentally quick on your feet, reasonably local, Dominant and multi dimensional. I have a preference for blokey men as partners and I like dressing elegantly to go out.
I'm not looking for one night stands, polygamous set ups or interested in anyone cheating on their partner - and my radar for this is now set pretty high. Please don't send me willy pictures unless they're asked for :). I'm not going to provide you with wank fodder, I keep my private parts private until a little confidence/trust is gained on either side and reserve the right to be highly sarcastic.
I do very occasionally top for fun but I am NOT a Domme or seeking a long term sub.
Essential Reading if you're looking for a Domme - http://www.jaggery.com/meetdomme.htm
Favourite quote of the moment "at the start of relationships, the trick is to hide the crazy".
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I got promoted today (no new title but new money - woo hoo). Things are looking good, it's going to be a nice weekend, I have dinner offers for Friday which I'm considering, and spring is almost upon us. And four days off will be total bliss :)
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It's my birthday today, I've spent it with my Mum as a combined birthday/mothers day thing. We've had roast duck and watched Stardust, and it's been lovely. And I did the going out meeting friends thing on Friday at the London Munch, which was a great night.
Just going to tidy up a bit now, and have a long soak and pamper and prepare for the week ahead.
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It's been a really tough few months, with lots of very bad news, things breaking down and life generally not being much fun.
But I think I'm starting to come out the other side now, went to the London Munch last week and had a great time, so beware world, I'm getting out there  |
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What a fantastic Easter weekend, perfect temperature, beautiful sunshine, spent with a friend doing fun things. Hope you all enjoyed your Easter eggs :) |
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Guys, I realise this process of finding someone can be a chore, that not everyone is who they say they are, that people don't always respond, that they wander off in the middle of conversations with no explanation, but a word to the wise. Whinging and whining about it won't change it, no matter how right you are and how wrong the situation is. Complaining about your lot is not the best advertising method, and isn't likely to make you more appealing to the opposite sex. Honest. Take the moral highground and think - clearly, they were the wrong person for you. |
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Happy valentines day everyone. I hope you took the opportunity to show your loved one you care, with a good old fashioned spanking, a nice meal, some flowers, or a combination thereof :) |
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I think haven given the personals websites a go it's time to get out there and munch. Bit nervous about the first one as it's been ages but know I'll get into my stride fairly quickly.
Watch out world... |
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It's been an interesting time, spent with Family up in Scotland, now just having a couple of days chilling doing laundry and getting over the 9 hours of driving.
I've discovered the joys of voyeurism in terms of 'art' films that have managed to pass the censors beady eyes to bring real sex but with good acting to the viewing public. Namely 9 Songs (recommended) and Intimacy (grittier, not quite as good IMHO). Much better than american women with fake tans and fake boobs faking orgasms. |
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Hmm, the sun is shining, my grass is almost knee deep but the ground is sodden, so I'm thwarted in my gardening duties. Have to say it's frustrating, it looks a mess but I'd rather not have to bother truth be told! So try again tomorrow to see if the ground is less marsh like. Or find a nice subby to beat into doing it, or a kindly Dom. Volunteers? There's at least tea and biscuits in it for you! |
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Apparently, I'm a bitch.
Yes it's true, even ever so politely declining some men's blunt offers makes me a bitch, in fact one charmer said given my pics I had no right to be fussy. Clearly I've been reading the wrong manuals on how to make friends and influence people....
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How Dom is your face? That's the subject indirectly of an article on the BBC's news website today, can't link to it but it's entitled "Fertility sparks 'male rivalry" and it talks about how woman notice more dominant male faces when they're at their most fertile.
I have to say, I'm not at that point at the moment and I'd still go for the bloke on the left! Apparently submissiveness is uppermost in me all the time  |
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People are such complex, wonderful, evil, loving, giving, demanding, unyielding, empathic, hard, soft and everything else in between. In some ways it's amazing anyone ever gets together and a testament to the power of love, sex, the need for companionship and everything else in between. How did we get so varied? What magic is it that makes us what we are, the good and the bad? I suppose this is the question of sentience. What makes us aware? I'm not talking about the nature versus nurture debate, I'm talking about the step before that that gives us the ability know, and to reason. Seems I'm on a phillosophical bent this evening... I think what I'm trying to say is, finding a partner is hard, be open, be accepting of others differences and the fact that you're not everyone's cup of tea as much as they aren't yours. Be open to options you wouldn't necessarily have got down on your tick sheet. And before I get maudlin, I'm off :) |
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Dom's don't smile... I've noticed recently how many Dom's don't smile in their profile pics. Is this because they think it's unmanly, or undomly? I suppose this might be true for some, personally speaking I like a sense of humour and a glint in a mans eyes. Given, however that you can't see my eyes in my own picture perhaps I ought to rethink this. |
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Casual domming versus casual submission...
I can do one but not the other. I wonder if that's typical?
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I look down the list but it seems bereft of Essex doms. Or perhaps they all list as London? Who knows.. Perhaps in the interim it's time to buy a new corset :D |
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I have to confess it, I'm in love.
I'm in love with my new house, it's gorgeous, comforting, secure, attractive and mine.
Sadly, it doesn't have a willy. It doesn't hold me tight, spank/crop/flog me, cherish me or lick my bits. It's not witty, intelligent, sarcastic, tall or sexy. It doesn't want to own me. Not at all. Although, it also doesn't fib, cheat, disappear or turn over and fart after sex :D
So there's still room in my life for a bloke. Honest. |
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A quiet Christmas, but a busy January to come as I get ready to move house. I definately plan a spanking room in the new place (once my Mum has got bored of poking round) with an Ikea spanking horse and a cupboard full of toys. Can't wait! |
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It's my favourite time of year, a little sad as I'm single for the first time in a while and I miss having all those extra people to get presents and prepare for over the Christmas period. New house looms large on the horizon though, so that's a big something to look forward to. Hope you're all enjoying the party season and the run up, remember, enjoy those you love, don't take them for granted. xx |
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Ignorant and rude behaviour... there's no excuse for it and it sullies everyone touched by it, including the perpetrator. I believe in a more positive approach to people, tact, diplomacy until forced otherwise, tenderness and empathy rather than more negative approaches. On a more positive note it's a very chilly night tonight, makes me wish for a Dom to warm my bottom then take me in his arms to snuggle afterwards. |
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It's late (well for me anyway) and I head to bed, pondering the meaning of life, the universe and why 90% of men on alt think us girls want a pic of their willies. Basic marketing guys, know your target audience. Generally speaking women want to know you've GOT a willy, that it functions and is of reasonable proportion, but mostly they're interested primarily in the bloke it's attached to. Honest! And on that note.. I'm off x |
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Yay! The sale of my house and the purchase of the new place seems to be going well, touch wood. Can't wait to move, nice people can get a pic of my new BDSM love nest on request. Yes Gary, even you, not of course that you'd be reading this or would ever want to oooooh nnoooooooooo :P :) |
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"They" always say you find someone when you're not looking, not entirely sure who 'they' are but for any single, tall, intelligent and fun Doms, I'm not looking OK? I've turned my back, I've got my hands over my eyes and I'm singing, la la la I'm not listening. Stands back and waits for the tap on the shoulder.  |
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Evening all, the nights draw in, Halloween is tomorrow when all the vanilla weirdos come out dressed up as we do on a regular basis, and Guy Fawkes night is approaching. I have to say, Autumn is probably my favourite season, swiftly followed by Spring. I love the crisp nights, the smell in the morning after it's rained, the impending celebration of Christmas and all the preparation and the passing of overly hot days and nights, and the possibility of snuggling up with a loved one on the sofa watching a film, or playing in a bedroom lit with candles with the darkness outside like a blanket. |
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| Age: 40 |
| Hamden,
Connecticut |
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