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Male Submissive, 39, Raleigh, North Carolina
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Male Dominant, 39
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Dominant Couple, 47, Cape Coral, Florida
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About Deanstyle
Friendly greetings to everyone.
I'm James. I have been into this lifestyle now since my late teens. I have been on Fetlife and Collarme/Collarspace for close to 10 years now. Though I haven't been to as many public venues (like the TNG munches in Toronto) and other BDSM associative gathers in quite a few years, I am still very much into this lifestyle.
Just prior to my mini-bio, I will say that internet dating is risky but there are ways to do it safely. If anybody needs advice how to go about, contact me for some tips to deeply lower the volatility risk. Most people on this site are fairly sincere decent people, but there are bad apples, and of course no good trolls/scammers. This is probably not the best place to look for love in your life, but if you're fully dedicated to this lifestyle, finding the right person is fairly important to keep happy in life. Quite often you can learn more about somebody over the internet than you can in real life. It's all about chemical compatibility. All the best to everybody.
My dedication is very genuine. Having a vanilla relationship just isn't for me. I am willing to talk to anybody really, even if it's just exclusive online flirting and I also do believe in monogamy. I am heterosexual with a strong dominant mind; never been arrested/jailed. I enjoy the idea of dominating/controlling a female primarily through bondage. All activities must be mutual/consensual with a partner (obviously); it's like sharing the enjoyment. I am not particularly into the S/M aspect of this lifestyle, but willing to participate in it based on circumstances. I am a strong believer in trying to enhance the best out of everything, so I am keen on giving oral sex, but you absolutely must be STD free, like myself. This lifestyle is pretty fantasy directed for most people. I do run a fairly normal/decent life as well working two jobs and getting by quite well. I am fairly laid back, choosing to avoid frustration in life even at the worst moments.
Drop me a line if I sound like somebody you'd interested in chatting with, regardless of location. :) |
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