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	About DarkMagister I am focused, meticulous and driven. I am calculating and detail-oriented. I like control for its own sake. I am vocal in play, harsh, demanding. I love subs who are well trained, and know how to please. What I like: ~Restraints: handcuffs, ropes, tape ~Caning/Spanking/Whipping ~Giving a sub direction and purpose; taking her deep into subspace ~Intelligence and sophistication What I prefer: ~Honesty & straightforwardness; a sub who knows what she wants and is clear about it ~Someone who embraces the process of submission; a true believer ~Lengthy, ritualistic sessions What I look for: ~Someone worthy of trust ~Someone who likes/needs strict rules ~A fresh, engaging personality ~Someone with healthy life habits and a positive attitude I don't like interminable chat sessions. I prefer to meet in public over coffee or a glass of wine. Life is short not to be enjoyed to the fullest...

So many fakes and idiots.

So hard to find someone who embraces the darkness, and truly wishes to surrender.

Aahhh. 2011.

New Year. New beginnings.

"Your body is the church where Nature asks to be reverenced."

~Marquis de Sade

I want to hurt you just to hear you screaming my name.

~Alice Cooper, "Poison"

"The purpose of a flogging is to inflict pleasure."

~Mitch Kessler

Reward

She is radiant underneath the crystal chandeliers, her admirers forming a tight circle around her. They lavish her with compliments; women line up to shake her hand; a few beg for the indulgence of a picture with her. I watch from afar, and notice her eyes searching for me through the crowd.

A waiter drifts by with a tray and I snatch two champagne glasses. I make my way over, prodding past tuxedoed CEO's and their middle-aged wives. Appearing at her side, I hand her a glass; she squeezes my arm in silent thanks, smiles while idle chatter resumes around us. She wears a black satin gown, classic and tasteful, in accordance with the solemn occasion. Someone around us jokes that I ought to be jealous of the attention she is getting; my hand traces the curve of her back and I hold her close.

Nonsense, I say. This is her special night.

Later comes the lengthy introduction, followed by summons to the podium where she is given the coveted award. Philanthropists break out in unrestrained cheers and applause. Every woman is on her feet, saluting her leadership and devotion to the cause they all cherish. She makes an impassioned speech, thanks her staff, and calls for renewed efforts in the ongoing struggle.

She is an inspiration to them all.

We spend another hour at the party before finally retiring to our hotel suite. Alone in the elevator, we can finally breathe easier. She cradles the award in the crook of her arm, rests a tired head on my shoulder, exhausted, happy, in love.

We enter our suite. As I close the door behind us, she leaves the award on a table, slips off her heels and panties, and goes down on her knees. I walk to the side of the bed, pull open a drawer, reach for things.

I bind her wrists tight with a strip of leather and fasten the slave-collar around her neck. She moans approvingly as I run my hand through her long auburn hair, grip it tightly, and force her back on her feet. I take her to the bedpost, rope her wrists around it so she can't move. She trembles with lust while my hand once again traces the curve of her back; this time I reach underneath; my fingers thrust hard into her wet folds.

She moans, says she wants me to fuck her, but I don?t answer. I get the flogger instead, come back to her, pull up her dress to expose her ass. I begin to whip her, hard. The leather strips kiss her flesh and leave red marks; her agony is pure bliss.

She thanks me for every stroke. Begs me to fuck her and use her.

Of course I will.

After all, this is her special night.

I'm reminded once again that purity of doctrine costs you nothing. It has the virtue of sorting the wheat from the chaff.

The two best teachers are love and pain.?

~Andrea Haskell

Mind slavery and thought reform

The conscientious Master will be mindful, as he contemplates the slave's training, not merely to bind her and punish her physically, but to insure her ongoing devotion by applying basic precepts of thought reform. By the use of certain methods, the Master insures that his slave becomes even more obedient to him, embracing her position as servant and slut while striving to become the ideal slave. The ultimate aim of thought reform is not merely to? control the sub physically, but fully erase her former identity, to gift her with a slave-mind so that she will think only to? serve, pleasure and obey.

Robert Lifton's theory of thought reform identifies 8 methods to achieve permanent mind-change. Such methods have direct applications in the training of a slave :

~Milieu Control, whereby the Dom governs the sub's environment;

~Mystical manipulation, whereby orchestrated events are imprinted in the mind of the sub as a Truth that must be followed;

~Demand for purity, whereby the sub's core ideology is molded to reflect the need for? absolute and unconditional devotion to her Master;

~Confession, whereby the sub avows and expunges all non-submissive thoughts, in an effort to embrace her true nature;

~Sacred Science, whereby the Teachings of the Master are the cornerstone of the sub's way of life, the source of all Knowledge and Wisdom in her life;

~Loading the language, whereby the very modes of expression of the sub are modified to reflect and reinforce her status as slave and slut

~Doctrine over person, whereby Teachings of the Master supersede all former experiences and beliefs, effectively subjugating the sub's identity

~Dispensing of existence, whereby the former life of the sub is extinguished, allowing the slave to exist as a new person, wholly dependent upon the will and whims of the Master.

The comprehensive implementation of these methods, in concert with a strict bondage/sexual training program, will insure successful brainwashing. Results are especially impressive in subjects who already demonstrate noted submissive tendencies.

Book of Rituals (1) - Confession

Frequency:Once or twice a month; subject to increase should the Master desire it so.

Length: 20 minutes to several hours.

Ritual:

In accordance with formalized tradition, the slave must share a secret with her Master, something personal and meaningful about her life, a source of humiliation or embarrassment. Often, the slave will confess to wrongdoing while she was left unattended (having touched herself without permission, falling behind in her assigned duties, etc.). She may confess to lustful thoughts and desires she has not yet revealed to her Master, or may recount a noteworthy event of her day (feeling aroused after being ogled by someone at work; fantasizing about sex with another man/woman while flipping through a magazine). She may reveal something about her past... a transgression she committed long ago, and has kept to herself. The Master listens calmly to his slave's confession, and decides what the Penance will entail.

The "sin" of the slave is not the act that is confessed of course. Submissives are slutty by nature, and require constant discipline. The act of withholding is the true sin -- not telling her Master right away, and thus keeping the truth from him.

As she undergoes the ritual, the slave surrenders a part of herself; she redeems herself by being forthcoming, trusting and obedient once again. The Master in turn honors the slave's trust with complete secrecy, and renews the bond of submission by imposing Penance, Contrition and Absolution.

Penance reflects the gravity of the secret confessed, and takes into account any dereliction or transgression on the part of the slave. The Master chastises with a firm and loving hand, inflicting harsh punishments? without hesitation when they are deserved. In concert with Penance comes the Act of Contrition, as the slave gives voice to her desire to submit anew to her Master, and begs forgiveness for her sin of omission.

The ritual ends with Absolution, as the Master takes his pleasure as he wishes, and the slave atones by pleasuring him in all the ways he deems fit. Thus is the slave fulfilled, finding renewed Purpose at the feet of the one whom she serves.

Note to scammers:

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Submission begins with Ritual.

This statement may puzzle some, but to me it is one of the key components of D/s. It is not something that always occurs in a one-off session, or in the midst of casual play, but to my mind it becomes integral once the Master has chosen the slave and the slave has chosen her Master. Ritual is not merely a symbolic? reflection of the submissive's physical surrender; it expresses the aspiration to a deeper, more complete domination of her self.

Ritual offers a clear path towards reverence. It epitomizes the sub's goal of serving her Master. It is an expression of devotion and love, a plea for her to be led deep into subspace. Rituals both simple and complex enshrine the bond between the Dominant and the dominated. They task her with duties that please her Master. They allow the sexual needs of the sub to be fulfilled in more passionate, meaningful ways.

Once rituals become innate, the sub truly begins to be molded into whatever her Master wishes. her thoughts take on a new shape as she kneels at his feet, filled with the bliss of being faithful and obedient.

A little about myself...

~ I'm a professional working in Montreal. I have a position that entails responsibility, and I take it seriously; it means long hours at the office. When I have time to play, I play without reservation.

~ In the "real" world, I am considered steadfast, responsible, selfless, honest. I have a good sense of humor.

~ In the "fetish" world, I embrace my darker nature. Society being what it is -- intolerant of anything that does not conform -- it took me some time to to come to terms with the truth: I am controlling, demanding and sadistic.

~ I embrace all styles of dominance equally -- the objective for me is to control. A submissive's weaknesses -- her dark fantasies, fears or lusts -- must be explored and used, in and out of play. The most interesting task I undertake, beyond sessions in which I controls my subject, is the planning of a submissive's downfall... the careful thought that goes into implementing her complete mental and physical subjugation. It is the most erotic of chess games...

~ The sub/slave has value. The sub/slave has worth. Just as she must be controlled and disciplined harshly, she is the prized jewel. Noblesse Oblige.

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