Danver

Ok, so these spaces are hateful to fill and fail miserably to do what they are designed to do - that is to provide an insight.... but seeing as I can't invite you all out for a coffee to chat.... here goes!

Who am I?
Big guy (and no - not just in that way!), strong silent type. In play I like to mix things up, although I have a sadistic edge this can sometimes show itself by teasing and controlling the reactions! I live to explore new things and experiment but there's also another side for me that likes to be able to talk and listen.... yes there's a physical side to everything but without the mental aspect there is little to sustain things. Getting past defences and discovering weaknesses can be just as enjoyable as raising some nice, defined crop marks in your partners flesh!

What do I like in others?
I'm drawn to people who are intelligent and aren't a push-over - a person who knows their own mind and yet isn't afraid to allow themselves to be vulnerable. A person who isn't afraid to test their boundaries both sexually and intellectually. People who know their weaknesses and desires and who aren't afraid to indulge them, someone who isn't afraid of saying what they want - asking for it, demanding it, begging for it..... but still are able to wait until......

What don't I like?
People who are weak - seriously what's the point in gaining submission from one you desire if there's no struggle and submission is given to any and all? One sided relationships - it needs to be give and take (and no - I don't mean switching - EVER). Psychos..... seriously find a shrink!!!

I dislike being put in a box (figuratively or actually!) and prefer to find things out about a person by talking to them.

So any questions then please contact me.