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Hetero Male Dominant, 58,  Seattle, Washington
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Connection is the most important thing. Spiritual...mental...physical. The journey is more important than the destination; mutual respect and love is more important than some "role".

I want to know...and I am looking for with whom I can "find out". Two parts to one and recieving becoming one expression.

I love art and artists, thinkers and doers, women of passion and fire and talent...whatever form that happens to take. 











Last Online:


 Dominant Male



 5' 11"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female


 Coffee Shops





 Anal Play

 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)


 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Enemas (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community

 Gags (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Masks (On Partner) (Expert)

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial (Expert)

 Role Playing




 Wax play


 Cooking (Expert)

 Meditation (Expert)

 Singing (Expert)

 Alternative Music


 Classical Music




 Rock Music

 Show Tunes


 Art Galleries


 Fine Dining


 Hoods (Expert)

 Medical Play

 Needle Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Sensory Deprivation

 Speech Restrictions



 Alternative Medicine

 Aromatherapy (Beginner)

 Art Collecting

 Tattoos (Beginner)

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Blue Grass

 Country Music

 Folk Music

 Industrial Music

 Pop Music


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Journal Entries:
10/14/2009 12:45:41 AM
Hi again...

I got away from CM for a while and I am back. I hope I can find the someone I am looking for...the smart, independent, adventurous woman who has done her duty for her family and is ready for the next set of adventures life offers. I believe in adventure...I believe in life itself, and love, and the unique opportunity this life has for the deepest spiritual connection...  

1/4/2009 12:05:56 PM
I have thought a lot about the spiritual place in D/s and BDSM. I know that sounds a little strange, but to me...I really must have a deep connection on some level with the other person for this to work. First of course there must be a great deal of trust...on both sides. Maybe the D/s relationship is not the participants primary (for social of legal reasons or whatever). But for me at least, I really need a strong connection of some kind with my partner. I want to know her through my fingers and mouth and the way she moves and responds the way we move together in the spell and the dance.

1/1/2009 3:16:39 PM
Hey Everybody...Happy New Year. 2008 was for the most part not the best year for me. Here's hoping 2009 is much more to each of our liking, whatever that is. Cheers!


12/31/2008 2:11:07 PM
This is soooo effing hard. It's so great to get hooked up with somebody and it's all fun and games until somebody gets hurt, and I am very very hurt. And what's worse is I did a lot of it to myself (I'll tell privately to persons who are interested). Oh the dark thoughts...and ohhhh, how I want to "act out" (any takers? w.e.g.)...crap this hurts. 

12/26/2008 1:40:05 PM're right, if you've been to my page here before...I AM jumping around a lot. The thing is...I am just getting out of a relationship I really liked and I'm just a little raw. I have always found the most understanding people in the  BDSM community...maybe because we are different to the rest of society and have a sort of understanding that a lot of more mainstream folks don't. So right now I think i better stick to meeting you all...getting to know this new community (at least I hope that's what it, that is).

12/26/2008 11:04:59 AM
What I like to know did your journey lead you here? I know for me I ALWAYS knew I had uhhh...tendencies. That I was "more than vanilla", and for the life of me I don't know where it all came from I just knew it was there and I fought it as hard as I could for the longest time. Funny how we get to where we are going huh? 

12/26/2008 9:42:28 AM
Once upon a time...after the sweet slut was blissfully spent...she snugggled back into her Master, safe in His arms and under the covers, thinking of how He worked his little slut into a state such that she would look up at Him and shake her head in disbelief at what was happening to her. He would tease her and finger her and spank her and tie her and generally get her helpless with lust. Just like she wanted...she'd get it, just like she wanted...hard and deep. Then the best part...the closeness and cuddling and soothing talk after...after Master and his sweet slut were blissfully spent. Nothing better than that...she was sure anyone would agree.
He's looking for a sweet little slut for tender (and NOT so tender) times now...know anybody?

12/25/2008 11:47:19 PM
yayy! This one took...I wish I had a better one tho...

12/25/2008 11:05:16 PM
Having a little glitchiness with my primary photo...I've got to try to take a new one, but though I would like to be discreet in public, for real photo requests will get you some nice ones. 

12/25/2008 10:14:44 AM
Merry XXXmas to all...ho, ho, ho.

I hope we are all rewarded for being appropriately and nicely naughty. This is a very difficult Holiday Season for me. I have much to be thankful for and I am dealing also with much sadness and loss and difficulty. I wish I could say that I didn't have a hand in it...but I can't say that for some of my challenges. So some of it is on me, some of it is just "what happens",  ALL of it is life on life's it goes. One day at a time.

Wow...I started out all jolly, what happened??? Shoot...Merry Christmas, Happy Hannukah...Kwanzaa...Winter Solstice...whatever you claim as your Holiday tradition...I wish it to be healing and peaceful for you and yours, and I wish for us all a wonderful New Year!  

12/24/2008 9:36:09 PM
Wow...can't believe I've got some stuff done on my profile, got to chat a littte last night, and found the Games section...Asteroids!!! Yessssss! (LOL) Nice. A home while I'm at home. Very Cool.

Speaking of "cool"...

...Cool Yule Everyone! 

12/24/2008 3:12:01 AM
Can't wait to get to know you all...seems like a fine group of perverted people, my favorite kind. 

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