cumdumpster39

Role

Submissive

About Me

I’m a trans feminine submissive in the Portland area seeking a lifestyle Dominant woman interested in a real, intentional D/s relationship.

I’m actively transitioning (HRT and hair removal for two years) and feminization is an important part of how I understand myself and my submission. For me, this is about identity, growth, and consistency — not fantasy or scenes-only play.

I’m shy at first, creative, emotionally steady, and responsive to calm confidence. I value communication, patience, and trust, and I prefer dynamics that develop gradually and naturally.

Outside of D/s, I enjoy travel, photography, music, astronomy, and live events.

What I’m Looking For

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  A long-term lifestyle D/s relationship
  



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  Structure, guidance, and clear expectations
  



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  Feminization as lived experience, not roleplay
  



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  Discipline with purpose
  



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  A slow-build connection based on compatibility
  



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  Open to poly within a clear and respectful structure
  

Experience

I have prior long-term D/s experience, including a feminization-focused dynamic. I understand negotiation, consent, and the importance of emotional safety.

What I Respond To

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  Confident, composed authority
  



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  Guidance and shaping over time
  



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  Rituals, routines, and expectations
  



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  Warmth paired with firmness
  

Boundaries

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  No transactional domination
  



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  No toilet play
  

Everything else begins with conversation, consent, and mutual fit.

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