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Pan Female Switch, 50,  Pennsylvania
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crystalsighs - , Pennsylvania

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I am here for friendly chat with like minded people in the hopes of having great times with good friends! Thanks! Be respectful or you will get no response.











 Female Switch


 5' 3"

 290 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Museums (Expert)



 Romance Novels

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Web Surfing




 Intellectual Discourse



 Eighties Music

 Nineties Music

 Punk Rock Music




 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Fine Dining

 Garage Sales

 Movies (Expert)

 Musical Theater

 Shopping (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)



 Breast Play

 Local BDSM Community

 Hair Pulling



 Board Games

 Historical Shows

 Online Chatrooms

 Role Playing Games (Expert)


 Candle Making









 Alternative Music


 Classical Music

 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave


 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes



 Bar Hopping

 Beachcombing (Expert)

 Clubbing (Expert)

 Flea Markets (Beginner)

 Gambling (Beginner)

 Camping (Expert)

 Hiking (Beginner)

 Sailing (Beginner)

 Anal Play

 Corner Time


 Housework Service

 Massage (Getting)


 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies

 Puzzle Games

 Simulation Games

 Sitcoms (Expert)

 True Crime

 TV News

 Alternative Medicine


 Art Collecting

 Body Art







 Soap Making





 Libertarian Politics





 1950s Household

 Female Supremacy

 Goth Lifestyle



 EMO Music



 Pop Music













 Horseback Riding (Beginner)


 Orgasm Denial

 Role Playing


 Arcade Games

 Chess (Beginner)

 Cybering (Beginner)



 Conservative Politics


 Blue Grass

 Country Music

 Opera Music



 Feng Shui


 Curious About:

 Bird Watching

 Going to the Opera (Beginner)

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)



 Martial Arts









 Canes and Crops



 Electrical Play


 Fire Play


 Knife Play


 Medical Play

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training


 Sensory Deprivation



 Speech Restrictions


 Wax play








 Lifestyle BDSM

 Victorian Household




 Skate Boarding

 Wind Surfing


 Maid/Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage


 TV Sports

 Liberal Politics




 Surf Boarding

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Domestic Service



 Masks (On Partner)

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Rubber Fetish

 Low Carb


 Hard Limits:




 Gas Masks

 Needle Play

 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play

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Journal Entries:
4/4/2018 2:11:41 PM
Well that will learn me.  LMAO 

3/30/2018 11:20:20 AM
Changing your profile?  Seriously? How pathetic can a person be?  I didn't want to talk to you in a previous incarnation so you decide to try with a new profile?  The answer is still NO.  Did you think I was stupid and wouldn't notice?  It only takes a few messages to notice continued mistakes in grammar and spelling and phrases in speech that are familiar.  Just go away.  Find someone else to bother.  Hell find someone that wants you.  It isn't me. 

3/14/2018 1:19:40 AM
So you message me and have the nerve to insult me because of something in my profile.  Ok sure maybe you don't think I'm cute.  So be it.  But if you are going to do that at least have the balls to have a profile that is filled out and post your ugly mug on it too.  So at least I know who is passing judgement on me.  If you can't take the time to fill out a profile and have the guts to show yourself then don't insult me because I did.  Just move along to someone who you find attractive and leave me alone.  :)  Thanks. 

2/8/2018 2:14:20 AM
And crazy strikes again...  The saga continues.  I had someone contact me and say HE would like to get to know me.  HIS profile stated HE was a couple looking but a Dominant Male.  Do people believe that if a couple isn't getting much attention a Dominant Male profile then filled out with couple information is going to be more attractive?  But the couple thing wasn't the real craziness.  HE was located at a considerable distance so when he brought up relocation I told him he should have read my profile.  HE did at my request and then told me I should use less words so that he could find that out more easily.  I told him perhaps next time he shouldn't just stop paying attention when he sees tits.  It's my fault he doesn't like to read???  LOL 

10/24/2017 12:55:09 PM
Not at all a two way street.

9/25/2017 5:50:14 PM
People don't read/listen. I was just asked my a man to block him.  We've been exchanging pleasantries for months.  I thought that since I stated I wasn't looking for online that he understood that and was just talking with me occasionally to pass the time.  I've listened to him complain about various women blocking him and being mean to him.  Also about the problems he has at home.  I assumed I was being a friend.  Then today he asks if I would let him dom me, I asked how considering the distance between us.  He wanted to send me sound files.  I replied with no thanks, not into that.  Then he asked if I would block him.  Block you?  I replied.  Yes you fat bitch. was his response.  Wow.  People are crazy. He's blocked now.  But don't know why he just didn't block me.  Is there a limit on how many blocks you can have?  LOL 

8/26/2017 2:47:59 AM
An empty profile speaks volumes.  But the reverse is true as well.  Sometimes a filled out profile is so difficult to read or comprehend that I just have to stop reading.  I understand we all have our kinks and that is why we are all here but when you explain your kink and in no way to waver from the telling of YOUR kink you are doing yourself more harm than good.  A profile should be filled out and it's best to hit the high points and then stop.  Give those who stop by a taste and hope the send a message to find out more.  Just an opinion. 

8/17/2017 1:12:38 PM
and here is another.  Just because I don't want to do things the way he wants to do them.  No phone.  He didn't bother to ask me why I don't want to phone but said he longer wanted to talk to me.  I replied with sorry that he wanted to rush things.  I didn't.  This is the reply I got: 

That's the biggest load of crap I've heard today. Yours just playing games now and it's offensive. I asked to talk. I was verybresoec to you and up till now had genuine interest in you. Just because you've been butt hurt and are too afraid to take another chance with someone doesn't mean their bad. It's you tats your own worst enemy. It's you that prevents you from finding happiness. You had a sincere man standing right in front of you simolybwanting to get to know you and to take a chance and you pushed him away out of pure stupidity.  Nothing else. That shows your character.  And as I said I will t settle. So save the martyr speach and how I don't know you. There's nothing to know other than you've already shown your character and mindset and that's enough for me to know you're not what I seek or respect. Now again good day. 

6/25/2017 9:07:06 PM
I love it when a condescending asshole sends a message when you send them on their way and then block you so you can't respond.  Nothing like striking out at someone because they don't want what you want.  Good riddance to this rubbish: 

Yes bye. I have a future and just wanted to see about you in real life.

I going to bet you will be online for years and alone.


Online is just not the real world too many use it to escape it.


Not sure yoru escaping or in so much pain you cannot come back to ?

5/23/2017 6:48:00 AM
I get a lot messages complaining about fakes and phonies on this site.  I agree there are a lot of them.  Bu the people that complain the most about that seem to also be the ones that if they don't get the answer they want, they get upset and storm off never to be heard from again.  I am on this site to EVENTUALLY meet a man who would like to meet in real time.  A man, not a little boy who gets cranky and storms off with his toys because he gets told no. 

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