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| Experienced, articulate and sane dominant. I work in the real world and function in the real world quite well and normally. This is just one aspect of my personality. As such I am not here that often, it's sporadic and I dip in and out. It's not everything but it's an important part of the puzzle.
I find a Dom is often misunderstood or shall I say misrepresented. It's not about doing what you want and taking what you want. It is is about reading the situation and ticking the boxes that work for the sub vs just your own. In some perspective the Dom is there to please the sub, as his actions in her pleasure.
That's how I see it at least and that's how it's worked for me in the past. A strong mental connection is required and the same understanding of a dominant/submissive dynamic needs to be there for this to work. I enjoy creating a scenario, I enjoy taking the lead, enjoy surprising but ultimately enjoy the pleasure of the other person.
Things I like: Intelligence, being able to articulate what you like and what you don't, lust for life; travel, food, learning, passion, curiosity and open minds
Things I don't like: misplaced arrogance, vagueness and dishonesty
What I'm interested in: humiliation, king, bondage, verbal commands, strict rules, corner time, king with various implements, getting into a subs head and making her say please and thank you. I love, love, love etiquette and control. Like most Kinksters there are other elements and some I am still discovering. Part of an on-going Kink evolution.
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