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First, let me tell you something about my BDSM philosophy as a Dominant: “If I cannot make my submissive to serve me better, what kind of Dominant am I.”
Second, no games. If you are sincere, then we may talk. If your experience is rough sex, and online fantasy, don’t waste my time. That’s not to say I won’t have sex with you, but frankly, I get as much pleasure getting into your mind as getting into your panties. I have been in this lifestyle for over 15 years and I am very flexible, except for rough sex only partners. I play at the bottom’s level and never assume anything of anyone. Submission is a gift and should be respected. I play from mild to heavy and don’t say that to scare anyone. Everyone has their own limits and since I don’t read minds, I only play with safe words. I play in all realms of BDSM……the physical, emotional, psychological and mental. Protocols are essential to my style of play, without them a bottom cannot fully comprehend or appreciate her submission. My tool bag carries an arsenal of toys and implements….but my most intense toy is my voice and stature.
I am in search of submissive women who are looking for an experienced Dominant or a novice submissive looking for a Dominant who has the patience and experience to safely guide her through this lifestyle journey. I play only with people I know, at least a little bit. If you want a taste of what something feels like, feel free to ask. If you want to get to know me better, you are going to have to show me you understand the mental aspects of play, not just the physical. I play only with people who are capable of making an informed consent. Should we decide to meet, expect to do at least a half hour of negotiating with me, so I understand your desires and limitations -- play and sexual? I play with a limited number of submissives that I have developed a relationship with over the years. I am not looking for a long-term romantic relationship. Nothing against them, just don’t believe in them.
I seek playmates in all aspects of BDSM, especially:
- Flogging -- sensual to severe, Florentine, thuddy and stingy
- Single-Tails, Dragon Tails, Whips
- Spankings -- OTK, paddles, bare hand, belts, straps
- Bondage, gags, blindfolds
- Nipple play -- clamps, clothespins
- Toys – vaginal, anal
- Canes
Others:
- Wax play
- Electro play
- Public play
- Fisting
My Collarme fetishes highlight some of my interests. I’m sure I could have added more, but too numerous to mention here.
If you would like to get to know more about me, I welcome your interest. Don’t do web photographs either. If there’s genuine mutual interests, I would be willing to send some pictures.
Thanks for reading my profile.
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