Corinna617


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	About Corinna617 Now that I've gotten a good idea about the ways of this site and understand the reality that regardless of what I write here, most of you aren't going to bother to read it anyway and of the few who bother to, most of those will just ignore whats been written. So why bother? Who knows? Glutton for punishment i guess. So here's what you need to know about me, first and foremost, I AM COLLARED, HAPPILY COLLARED, BLISSFULLY EVEN, AND HAVE BEEN SO FOR THE LAST 3 YEARS. MY SIR AND I SHARE A HOME, SHARE A BUSINESS SHARE A LIFE AND I'M NOT HERE TO CHANGE THAT IN ANY WAY WHATSOEVER. pheew ok that up front enough for some of you? So why am i here? Couple reasons, first off, my Sir and I enjoy attending lifestyle events, and the CollarMe message boards are a great resource for event info. Second, my Sir and I run a business together that is somewhat oriented toward the fetish community, and the message boards and networking oppertunities are here for us. I'm not here looking for a partner, or partners, nor am i here to help out lonely men coming to Boston for business. I'm not lost, i know full well why i am here. Friends are cool, and very welcome, if your a Dominant, have some respect, my Sir does not treat me as a doormat, what makes some of you think i'm going to let you do it? Submissives, feel free to write if you want to talk about the lifestyle, events or fetish fashions, but if your trolling for new partners for your Dominant, don't bother trying here.

I got this message today:

"Wow such a nice ho hum attitude will surely get you far. So basically you find a website which people use to hook up online, and then you come in here and start saying, how you are not interested in finding anyone, and trolling the honest hard working folk who want to contact some sexy little sub sluts, to relax after work like a real American, and live their American dream. This is the greatest country in the world, and I can tell you right now, we sure don't need sexy little sluts like you coming in and disrespecting our American way."

I responded with this:

"Wow, you are out of touch on soooooo many levels that I truely don't know where to begin.

A - this isnt a hook up site and BDSM is never a hook up activity and anyone who treats it as one is either stupid or just plain dangerous.

B - Anyone who refers to the female submissives out here as "sexy little sub sluts" doesn't have the maturity level to even consider themself a Dominant, let alone having the intelligence to call themself a Dominant.

C - Im not here trolling anyone. Ive wrote in my profile about myself and my life honestly, Ive spoke my mind in my blogs and 99% of the feedback Ive gotten about what Ive said has been positive. The 1% that isnt positive comes from people who have seen themself in what Ive said and didn't like it, thats not my problem, its theirs.

D - How the hell do I know how hard working you are? Or why the hell would I even care. All that is, is words coming from you. its talk, its hot air. For all I know your some slacker who spends 12 hours a day playing video games in your parents basement. All I have is your word on that, and your word doesnt mean shit online. Hell I can go around saying that Im a duck, but just cause I said it doesnt mean that its true. Talk is cheap online, its actions that speak volumes, and all I can tell from your actions is that the only thing you work hard at is being a asshole.

E - What kind of right wing jackoff are you to go spouting off about the American Way and in the same sentance condem me for speaking my mind. Your right that this is the greatest country in the world because I have the liberty to speak my mind. But you know who censors people and judges them about what they believe? Who subjugates women and treats them as lesser beings? Who uses an idea as a cover for their own bad behavior? We are fighting them right now in Iraq and Afganastan. We are doing that to keep their bullshit away from our country because we aren't like that. But looks like some of us are. Keep your American Way to yourself cause i really have no idea what your talking about. Try talking a civics class because your way of thought is so skewed that its out of the bounds of reality.

You want to know one of the reasons why I come here? Its to school people online about people like you. If I can get to a newbie and give them an idea about whats right and whats wrong in the lifestyle, especially out here on the internet, before people like you get to them. then I've done my job because assholes like you are dangerous and don't belong in the lifestyle.

Go fuck yourself douchebag cause you can't hang here and you don't want a piece of this."

Am I wrong here?

OK, all I have to say is EEWWWW THATS JUST NASTY. When did CollarMe relax the photo approval thing for this site? I really didn't need to see that.

5 Things I Think Have Been Played Out and We Can Do Without In 2010

#5 ? Tattoo?s ? At one time I suppose tattoos were hip and cool and made people feel all edgy and hard. Now they are just so common and everyday that they have lost the impact they may have once had. When a fad gets to the point where 40 year old soccer moms are getting them regularly its not edgy anymore, its just sheep following the herd mentality. What?s edgy to me now are people who respect their body as a temple and choose to not follow the pack and defile their body with a tramp/stud stamp.

#4 ? Piercing ? This goes along the same lines as the whole tattoo fad, its just gotten old and played out. At one time I suppose it was shocking to walk around looking like a human tackle box, but too much of it has diluted its impact and turns people who do it into caricatures.

#3 ? People whose sexual identity is all wrapped up in their mind. ? These are people who spend WAY too much time online playing out their sexual fantasies to the point that they convince themselves that those fantasies translate into their reality. These are people whose active fantasy lives have overshadowed their real life. They see themselves as highly sexual beings yet they?ve never actually had the courage to bring that fantasy into their everyday lives. People who identify as a Dominant, yet who have never owned or used a flogger or those who identify as sexy subs yet who have never even put on a g-string or owned a cute set of heels. Try having the courage to become who you think you are, instead of just kidding yourself that you are.

#2 ? People who spend all their time wrapped up in online fantasy with NO intention of taking that fantasy further.. ? We all have met these people, the ones who want to spend months and months wrapped up in online relationships and cyber, yet have no intention of taking those relationships any further than their keyboard. You know the ones where if you push them to meet, they either block you or disappear all together. Many of them are fakes to begin with, the guys who post a downloaded picture of a cute girl in their profile and check off that they are bisexual or lesbian cause they think it will get more women to talk with them or gay men who do the same thing to get more men to talk with them. The online ?Mentors?, the long distance lovers, the ones who married badly and who are now addicted to cyber. With all honesty, there are so many of you out here that if you were just honest about what you were here for, you would find someone here for the same thing, instead of duping people into believing in you, only to let them down when they finally lose patience with you.

#1 ? The no photo or headless photo people. ? If you?re that ashamed of your sexual inclinations, or so afraid of them that you can?t identify yourself to someone you?re talking with, you really need to rethink if this is the right lifestyle for you. All you?re fear and shame is doing is telling the world that you feel this is something to be shameful of and forcing the whole community into the closet with you. The BDSM lifestyle isn?t something anyone should be ashamed of if it?s who you really are as a person. The excuse that you don?t put a photo up or share it with other people because you?re afraid someone you know is going to recognize you just doesn?t fly anymore, because anyone who?s going to recognize you here, is here for the same reasons you are. And posting a headless photo tells people nothing about you except that you have something to hide. Don?t drag us all into you're closet of shame just because you can?t handle who you are, some of us are proud of who we are and what we?re about

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Top 10 list of the Most Used One Liners here on CollarMe:

#10 - Gorgeous

#9 - Slut

#8 - Nice

#7 - Bitch

#6 - C*nt

#5 - Sup

#4 - Cute

#3 - Hot

#2 - Sexy

#1 - Hi

I've got to admit, part of the reason I come to CM is to get the comedy value from the people in this place, especially the fake profiles. They are an endless source of comic relief for me and they never stop, they just keep on getting better and better. I love the ones that use downloaded photos of well known pornstars, I mean really, as if someone on this site isn't going to recognize them, most everyone here is into porn in one way shape or form.

Another of my favorites are the Facebook photo people. These aren't so obviously fake, but they generally show up out of the blue, and in their profile they usually state that they are happily collared to Master So in So, who monitors all of their conversations here, and their only purpose for being here is to find sister slaves for their Master's stable and anyone who's interested should contact him directly. I admit its probably a nice way for a guy who doesn't get a lot of interest here to scrape the bottom of the barrel to get someone to talk to him, but its so pathetic that it makes me laugh every time I see it.

But my absolute FAVORITE CM fake has to be the person who cut and pastes some poor womans face onto all of these nudes and porn photos and tries to pass them off as for real. Its freakin hystarical, this poor woman with the exact same look and smile on her face, tacked onto these pornstar bodies like some kind of fetish bobblehead doll. If it wasn't so sad it would be art. I just hope this poor woman doesn't ever see these images, that kind of embarasment can kill a bitch.

In all honesty, keep it up guys, i doubt its gonna get you much play, but its funny as hell to watch.

I'm not sure what?s up with the sudden influx of "Pro-Dommes" that have been showing up on this site lately. You know the ones who show up out of the blue saying they have all this experience in the scene, yet those of us who have lived in the Mass scene have never seen or run across them before. The ones who demand "tribute" for their services but have no reputation beyond a questionable photo and a lot of talk to back up that claim. I have to ask why. I mean don't you understand the problems your asking to bring down on the Mass community who live this lifestyle? Or do you just not give a shit?

This is a community that's still not gotten out of the hole dug for us by Barbara Asher so called "Mistress Laura M", the Quincy Pro Domme who in 2000 let her client die of a heart attack, then got her bf to help her get rid of the body. We still have the police on our backs because of that and it happened 8 years ago.

This is the same community who's still reeling after the situation on the North Shore where some genius decided to would be a good thing to put on public, on stage floggings at a club up there that resulted in bringing down the whole scene in the 90's, something that we are still trying to rebuild the scene to get it back to what it was then.

This is a community that still remembers the whole Karina Holmer deal. You remember her, the 20 year old Swedish nanny who went out one night clubbing in Cambridge and was next found chopped up into little bits and stuffed inside a dumpster near ManRay. How long did the community have to deal with the fallout from that one, hell we still do, just ask those at ManRay. Oh you can?t CAUSE ITS NOT THERE ANYMORE!

Or we can talk more recently about the Dom who a couple years ago talked some English guy into flying over and living in the Dom's North Shore home in a dog kennel 24/7. That situation ended up very well for everyone involved, the English guy died of a blood clot because he was being kept kneeling in a kennel 24/7, the Dom freaked out and went on the run, leaving the dead guy in the kennel and ended up shooting himself in the head in some New Hampshire parking lot while the cops searched for him. That one when over real big with the police too.

The point is, we really don't need this crap, honestly, we don't. You?re coming into a community that's still trying to get rid of the black eye that all this stuff gave us. You?re playing right into the vanilla community and the law enforcement community's idea of us as a bunch of degenerates. This is Massachusetts, not Las Vegas, and though what you are doing may perhaps be put off as nonsexual and thus perfectly legal in a court of law, to the general public and most rank and file police officers all they see is prostitution and once they see that the old Puritan New England streak comes out and they group everyone in the same mold as you.

What you do, and what you advertise in public affects us all, it hurts us all, just so you can put a couple bucks in your pocket then take off to some other city to do the same thing there. You?re not helping us expand anyone?s horizons or promoting the lifestyle to the vanilla community, you?re hurting us. Is it too much to ask to just keep that crap off your profile? If you want to do what you want to do, that?s fine and I?m not trying to judge your life or lifestyle. If that?s the way you want to make your living then so be it. But openly advertising this on a public networking site is just asking some cop to come browsing and though he's going to look at you first, he's also going to be looking at all of us, and judging all of us, cause that?s what cops do, and I for one don't want to be hassled by cops for living my lifestyle, and I?m betting most people on this site feel the same way. If you can't come here and do what you do without openly advertising your services, then maybe you should think about another way to approach it, one that doesn't entail bringing us all down with you.

Finally someone who gets what I?m talking about has done something to combat the crap that people pull online. A couple friends, SaloNH and MissNaria here on CM, have gotten together and created an online BDSM group for New England singles. It?s a group put together to connect singles in the New England BDSM community in an open and respectful way, without the hassle, harassment and bad behavior that a lot of the people that troll around these web sites pull. It?s a place where New England singles of any gender, age, role, or sexual persuasion can connect in a HIGHLY moderated setting. It?s just for singles, so no couples, no poly?s, no cheats, no online players or fakes are going to be allowed to join, and if they get in and prove to be one, they will be booted from the group. I think that?s genius and even though I can?t be a part of it, I think the people who are dong it are doing a great thing and I?m happy to promote it for them. So New England singles out there who are interested in checking it out should either contact SaloNH or MissNaria for more info. I wish them well; it?s a great idea coming from some great people.

OMG!!!!!! Someone out there finally outed one of these online fakes who are using a pornstars photo in their profile. And somehow they did it by rewriting that profile exposing them for who they are, or more importantly by showing who they aren't. Don't know who did it, don't know if you hacked their profile or just got them somehow to give you access to it. But whoever you are, it was CLASSIC!!!!

OK. that's it. I've had more than enough of some of you. If you do not read, if you choose not to read, if you deem yourself too important to read what i have written in my profile. If you approach me soliciting me to be your submissive, your slave, your Domme or your switch. You will be blocked. No passing GO, no claiming your 200 dollars. I'm done being harrassed, barated, insulted, and threatened by people out here because you can't do anything but look at the pretty pictures. You've been warned.

OK, so I know this friends thing is new and everyone is as giddy as schoolgirls to give it a shot, build this monster list of "friends" and show off how cool they are. But here's the thing, I'm the kinda girl that likes to be friends with her friends and to have those friends reflect something about her, just from their presence. If I don't know you either in person or online, or if I just don't like you, then there is no chance you?re going to end up on my friends list and you got even less chance of having me end up on yours. Doesn't matter how Dominant or submissive you think you are, how cute you think you are, or how charming you think you are, its not going to happen. So that being said doesn't sending them to me seem like a complete waste of time? Just a thought.

OK, time for some new rules: Rule 1 - You can't or don't respect that I?m happily collared, you're blocked. Rule 2 - If you disrespect my Master in any way, you're blocked. Rule 3 - If you start ordering me around in ANY e-mail you send me, you?re blocked. Rule 4 - If you are rude, disrespectful, condescending, or just stupid in ANY e-mail you send me, you're blocked. Rule 5 - If I find out/figure out that you?re working 2 or more profiles and contacting me with them, you?re blocked. Honestly, some of you people out here have no idea what D/s is all about. You're here to play games, and I'm not playing. If you can't show respect, you don't deserve respect.

Many out here are curious as to why I haven't filled out my profile with tons of information about myself, or why I haven't gone through the extensive checklist section that collarme provides. There are a couple reasons for this, first being that I don't think anyone can be summed up by a checklist, things are never that black and white. An act you may have enjoyed with one person, you can hate with another, in the end it?s about the person you?re with, not that acts you do.

As to why I haven't filled out my profile with all sorts of information about myself I think that's fairly simple, as my Master says, knowledge is power, and the more information I give of myself, the more likely that I will get people contacting me and telling me what they think I want to hear, instead of just being themselves. You learn more about someone when they know nothing about you, than when they know a lot about you. And yes, for the record I am happily collared and have been so for several years now. And when I say collared, I mean in the real world, not this cyber collared crap that many of you people seem to be into.

Just when you think that the people out here couldn't get any worse, they do. What's the deal with the cyber pimps out here looking for tricks? I mean honestly, does anyone really aspire to be a prostitute? Do you guys really think thats a career track that most women sit around waxing poeticly about getting into? "My i really wish i could get into prostitution, where's my pimp in shining armor who's going to take me away from my highly fullfilling professional life and will bring me into the very rewarding life of a prostitute?" Please, grow up. ANY PIMPS/WANNABE PIMPS/DELUSIONAL PIMPS THAT E-MAIL ME WILL BE REPORTED IMMEDIATLY AND THEN BLOCKED!

YEA!!!!!! HE"S BACK!!!!!!

List of things that may be fun for you, but aren't very good, or smart, or right, for me:

1 - Becoming a sex toy for some couple. - May be fun for you, but not very smart on my part. i have a little bit more self respect than that. u want a sex toy, buy a dildo.

2 - Joining someone's crazy stable/family/Manson cult - May be good for you to add to your stable, and may be good for your already inflated ego. But i have no need for support from a family, i already have one. and i've yet to meet a person who deserves a harem. If i need help i'll try 12 steps before i try 12 sisters. i have 2 sisters, believe me, thats enough.

3 - Becoming part of someone's Gorian wet dream. - U may get off on your sci fi/Dungeons and Dragons thing, but i don't. I'm very glad you think i look like Princess Leah in Return of the Jedi, but i don't care. I also skip the Star Trek conventions as well.

4 - Approaching me with congrats for the Red Sox/Patriots/Celtics/Boston College. - Don't give me any congrats, i didn't do anything, or particularly care for that matter. Believe me, live near Fenway Park for a couple years, you'd hate the Red Sox too. Sorry boys, sports references are lost on me, and definetly not the key to my heart.

It figures, i finally find one a person out here i'm genuinely interested in chatting with, and he's leaving the country. GRRRRRRRR Travel safe Sir and come home soon.

OK, now I'm getting a bit pissed off with some of you folks. Somehow, some of you think that because I'm comfortable with my body, this means I'm desperatly looking for something out here. Listen, I'm very sorry if some of you can't understand that someone who is comfortable in their own skin isn't doing so for your benifit. Its not about you. If you can't handle my sexuality in a photo, how do you think you can handle it in the real world? If you get all hot and bothered from a photo, how can you handle a club or party? Understand, I'm not here for you, I'm here for me, and part of who I am is my sexuality. If you can't handle that, its your problem, not mine. But don't lay a guilt trip on me because your not getting what you want from me. You may want to look at yourselves for the problem instead of blaming me because you can't handle the outcome.

   My goodness! I hadn't planned to comment on anything, or anyone, until I had an idea of how this place works. I think I got that idea a little sooner than I had imagined, so time for me to open my mouth.

   My first thought? That some people need to know their limitations. Of the hundreds (yes hundreds...... in one day) of those who were so kind to e-mail me, only 10 to 15 were anywhere near my age. On the other end of the spectrum we top out at the ripe old age of 77yo. eeewwww Think smart people, if your the age of lets say, my dad, its not going to happen....... ever. Regardless of how charming you think you are.

   Next thought. That some of you have been watching TOO much porn for your own good. Porn's ok i suppose, serves a purpose. But its not something one should base their style as a dominant on. Think about it.

   Believe it or not, I actually have a happy, and fulfilling life. One that I have no intention on leaving for some dominant who lives half way across the country, or halfway around the world. For anyone. I'm happy here in Boston, my life is here, this is my scene, and if your not local, and in local I mean in my state, or one of the states that share a border with Massachusetts, I'm not going to respond to you. And for the record, if your "visiting" Boston, don't bother to tell me, I don't care.

   As I said in my profile, I'm not new to the lifestyle, I'm really not here searching for a thing, and I'm no ones sucker. I'm just checking this place out, I've heard some things and I wanted to see it for myself. Thats all. If you can't live with that. Well thats your burden to bear, not mine.

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