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Female Submissive, 23, Roanoke, Virginia
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Male Dominant, 55, Ann Arbor, Michigan
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Female Submissive, 44
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About CordeAlamode
Decided to try this site again.
Profile under major construction. I will add stuff as I think of things.
I am willing to talk to anyone as long as you are not vulgar or overly lewd.
Don't be vague or misleading in your messages. I don't have the patience for it. If you are looking for something like say... sex. Say sex. Not any of those "cute" bullshit code names you think are clever. You aren't going to get any sex from me but at least we wont waste our time.
We will have to talk and get to know each other before I am willing to meet anyone in person.
The flogger in my picture(s) is called The Tear of the Goddess. She is the first decorative flogger I made for myself.
What/Who I'm looking for:
I am mostly looking for play mates willing to practice rope slinging, and some impact play within the Richmond area. Both tying and being tied. Both hitting and being hit. Of course all play is negotiable. This will not involve sex of any kind.
I make floggers I would like to occasionally test out. They are not professional, but they look pretty and hurt. That's all that matters to me at the moment.
I am single and poly (the ethical kind). So, if something amazing happens I'll definitely let it, but I am not actively looking for a steady d/s, m/s, d/l, or vanilla-ish romantic relationship. Just friendships if they naturally occur. I'm not the best unicorn candidate for a heteronormative closed couple. So, don't even bring it up if you are looking for your one and only "other" woman for a closed triad. I am not the person for that.
Kink about me:
I am not new. I have been participating in the "lifestyle" for about 7ish years. Splitting my time between being a sub, a slave (1.5 years), and a dom. I am listed as a switch for good reason. I don't plan on going the slave route again. I don't think there is anyone who can make me tame enough for that mess again.
I am curious about the D/l dynamic. It seems like it might be a good thing for me. I am more of a middle than a little. My "little" characteristics are more ingrained in my personality than they are from regression or roleplay. It's part of who I am. I just happen to like (adult themed) coloring books, snuggles, crazy straws, and someone else brushing my hair for me. I haven't decided on the onsies yet...Being a giant panda sounds nice though... Not sure if I want to explore that just yet.
I frequent Fallout in Richmond. I occasionally get up to Alexandria/Springfield areas and some parts of MD for events. I am in Fredericksburg at least twice a month for board game meetups with my kinky friends. (Want to join us? Let me know. It's typically held at Game Vault or one of our houses.) I like to learn all I can so the events could be for just about anything as long as its not water sports...
Vanilla stuff:
I am heavily into art and games. Anywhere from traditional paper and pencil to soap making. (Making floggers is an art too.) I play mostly video and board games (Not the family Monopoly type of games.), but I love CAH too. I also love to read. I have a personal library of about 800+ books including manga but not including my audio books.
I am pansexual with experience driven preferences. Or Demisexual. I care about personality and how you treat me. I have no good reason to care about what you physically look like including your genitals.
I am a very voluptuous woman. I love my body.
--My weight isn't listed because I honestly don't know how much I weigh right now.
I do not drink, smoke, or do drugs of any kind. I consider caffeine and marijuana drugs. I am not "420" friendly at all. I do not have long term relationships other than friendships with tobacco smokers. If you are an asshole in the morning before you get your coffee fix we will not have a good time. I don't care if you drink alcohol in moderation. Don't call me at 3 in the morning drunk unless you need a ride home. You will also owe me 1 gallon of Blue Bell ice cream as your penance. That shit is expensive. I am serious.
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I have found a steady play partner. So, while we are working out our dynamics I wont be meeting anyone else for play. I am still willing to meet people for various things. If your purpose in contracting me is to get to know each other enough to play; just know that it wont happen for a while. |
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Just a note. I'm OCD about checking messages. I don't like that red highlight on the side bar. That does mean that sometimes I will check my message and not respond right away. Like say if I check my messages on my phone I wont respond back since this site likes to act weird when I am typing on the cell phone key board. Or I wont respond because I am too tired or not in the correct mood to respond as thoroughly as I'd like. So, if you haven't heard from me in a while and you are reasonably sure I didn't block you or something... That is why. |
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