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Male Dominant, 31, las vegas, Nevada
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Male Dominant, 54
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About ControlSmith
I am looking for a sub to indulge in. Ideally long term, but while I look for that, I am open to casual play and such. I am also interested in online play, provided the sub can show at least some sort of commitment to such play.
I am a single white guy, 6 feet, 250 pounds, short brown hair/brown eyes.
My vanilla interests are an odd mix, I like business, marketing, making money topics. But I'll also watch a comedy or an action movie. Over the last few years I've gotten into anime. For a while I've followed MMA, though a lot less lately. As well as tennis - quite an odd mix :) I also like to go to a beach and swim (though my technique is totally wrong, and so I am pretty terrible)
As far as bdsm goes, I like all of the main stream activities. I enjoy the mental aspect of bdsm, as well as the physical touch (vanilla or bdsm) and so I just love to play with a sub, the specific activity doesn't matter to me. As such I will usually adapt to my sub's interests, and push in that direction.
You need pain? You'll have all the pain you can handle, and delivered in rather creative ways, and I'll enjoy every second of our play. On the flip side, I can also play with a sub who can't stand pain, and I would enjoy my time with someone like that as well.
Some seem to interpret this as me not knowing what I want. But that's wrong. I simply enjoy playing with a sub, and seeing how far she can be pushed. I'll get everything I can out of a sub, and I won't stop playing with her, until I think she gave it everything she had. I suppose I also like to see how many orgasms I can get out of a sub (though quantity isn't everything)
Anyway, I am a strict but caring dom, I like to encourage my sub to achieve her goals in vanilla life, and to be a strong person. I do enjoy having complete control during play (and be able to turn it on in normal interactions as well,) with that said, in vanilla settings I am a pretty laid back and easy going. |
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