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Male Dominant, 35, Gold Coast
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Male Dominant, 25, UK
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About controlingDom
I want to meet a submissive Ebony Lady for a long term D/s relationship and possible marriage. My ex is African American so I do know the ins and outs of an interracial union. The dynamics of our D/s relationship will be one of secrecy in our day to day social environment and to our friends, unless we both decide to seek friends in the lifestyle. However, I will not share my submissive with anyone nor do I want more than one sub, so if multiple partners is a kink of yours then no need to email me. Also, no pain sluts need reply. To the world we will be regarded as a "normal" loving couple.
What I seek:
A Lady. She should be intelligent, caring, loyal, respectiful, trustworthy, sincere and honest. Of course, I do understand that respect and trust must be earned and is not freely given just because I say that I am a Dom. She should not be materialistic and base her self-esteem on having outlandish material possessions. She should be willing to try and understand the deeper meanings in life, rejoicing and being physiologically fulfilled by her knowledge and understanding. She will be able to love and be loved, both in the physical and emotional sense. She will enjoy sex and like having it often but will know the difference between sex and making love. In the bedroom and behind closed doors the relationship will be 80% D/s but at times we will be equal partners. Her needs will always be met and her opinion, desires, and wants will be heard and considered. But the final decision will always be mine, this she must accept as her way of life. I will control the direction and pace of the relationship both in the bedroom and out.
What she can expect:
To always be treated with respect, love and loyalty as a reward for her submission to me. She will be protected, encouraged, supported and trusted. She will receive complete honesty and fidelity. She will be made to feel safe and secure. However, any transgressions or betrayed trust will result in disciplinary action. At times, in the bedroom, she will be nothing more than my sexual object existing for my pleasure. But at the end of the day when all is said and done she will know in her heart that she is loved and is a Lady...MY lady.
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