controllingone4u

As of 4:30 PM on 4/26/14, slave Jessica of Largo FL has accepted my offer to train and work with her long term plus to help her in her transition to becoming the best slave possible in service to my needs.

As my handle implies, I seek control of your mind and body for my desires because when you control the mind then you have the ability to control the sub or slave thus the ownership becomes complete after collaring. Yes I prefer a slave but any subs with slave tendencies will also be considered especially those who would consider becoming a slave in time. I tolerate no games or lies. If you are not able to prove you are real to me via web cam and phone then do not bother me at all as I can and will do both as I have 10 years of experiences in this way of life and on this site full of those who make necessary to search for a needle in this haystack.

You should be willing to relocate within a eight to thirteen weeks after we establish a rapport needed if possible. See below for further requirements regarding this.

I believe in in person meetings several times before anyone moves into my home on a permanent basis. Thees meetings include visits by each to the other's area. I believe it is my job to come see you where you are first and if this is an issue hen move on. I believe in web cam chats, phone conversations and in person meetings - only caveat to this is if you can afford to relocate yourself without my help or visit without my help otherwise - I am capable of proving I am real online and in person so I expect no less of others.

I am one that enjoys hypnosis, absolute control, breast and/or clit torture, flogging, wax play, vibrators, caning, spanking, suspension and so much more. I love bondage as it is part of the control after gaining control of the mind. Bondage is more than physical - it is also mental. Physical restraints can be broken or cut where the mental bonds can be kept intact and used as a means of control. As far as my perverted mind goes, I love the feminine figure stripped of any clothing both mentally and physically along with them desiring to please openly no matter the situation. A word or a glance or an expression means a lot.

My favorite means of control is post hypnotic suggestion and mind control. I am a respecter of limits discussed up front. I love making a submissive beg and crave what she needs so I know she truly wants it. I love torture so yes I am sadistic but also know that it is important to read a submissive to learn needs.

To me there is no separation of the vanilla and BDSM. Yes kids can be a apart of a lifestyle home and not in the lifestyle but the dominant and submissive part of the relationship is always there along with the respect each shows for the other.

I am educated plus run a business and you must be willing to follow my rules or experience the pain I shall inflict to encourage your absolute obedience. My education consist of an honors degree in Psychology plus a Master's in Business Communications online.

I expect you as a slave or sub with slave tendencies to be in fairly good shape, preference to Asian or Hispanic, have a good figure or be willing to be molded into the figure I desire without question, drug and disease free, highly sexual and willing to explore anything but permanent harm or death and scat. Activities of mutual interest in both the vanilla world and BDSM realm must always be open to discussion and expansion while staying legal. To me my tone of voice should not have to change and a submissive should always stay submissive in every way no matter the situation. I feel there are so many interpretations in the lifestyle that I would be amiss not to state that just because I am perverted does not mean I am not always dominant. To me discipline is needed at times and must be administered to keep control. I am quite dominant but prefers not to discipline but reward. I adapt to the needs of a sub or slave which is totally different from all others on this site. I do not get into more than is in my profile immediately until I learn the person.

This home does not offer a free ride and expect you to take care of your bills and provide an income in the home of some type to help defray the cost of ownership whether that is on food stamps or a specialized career you have training in. I work and expect no less of you if you are a part of this home and no I am not after your money or possessions just your devotion and service while in the home. What you come in here with material possession wise is yours when you leave and money wise too less the cost to feed you and the cost of providing a home for you. If such is unacceptable to you then move on as I can no longer afford to have those who seek a free ride at my expense.

Among my 10 years experience, I have owned a slave twice and a sub once but I was not successful in finding that right one. I am into Ultimate Submission and absolute control as you know from above. I have my own chest of toys with floggers, vibrators, clamps, books, paddles, and so much more. You should want to explore anything and have a very open mind with few limits.

For those who think a list of accomplishments validates someone - here is another - 2 marriages (almost 10 years and almost 3 years), 2 divorces, and single parent for 11 years while working and going to school.

To earn a collar of consideration from me, you have to be able to follow my rules plainly listed here in this profile and pass the test I will give you in person regarding your abilities as a sub or slave (this is done in real time not online). To earn a real collar you must prove yourself worthy of it by serving without question as a collar has significance in my world and means much the same as a wedding ring does in the vanilla world we live in (this does not happen the day you walk in the door but after 6 months to a year of loyal service). Do not try or test me nor try to get around these rules or else you will be dismissed without regard.

If you have bills when you come into this relationship they are your bills not mine so do not expect me to pay them just I as I do not expect you to pay my debts for school or the home or doctors or credit cards or insurance or repair bills or any other possible bill. Also do not ask me to pay a bill where you currently are or to buy you off of another person or to pay for a repair bill on your vehicle.

I send no money blindly to anyone -- collarme, western union and money gram all suggest that you do not send money to those who you have not met in person and actually know