Contessadark


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	About Contessadark "One must not confuse stubbornness and inflexibility for Dominance. Those qualities traditionally belong to an animal known as a Jackass." Contessa You can also find me on Twitter and on Wordpress through my kink and alt friendly counselling service, Bent not Broken. Care to join the Dark side? https://twitter.com/BentnotBroken4 http://bentnotbrokenblog.wordpress.com/ I'm always open to input. Are there topics you would like to see me tackle? I am still considering applications for cleaning and service oriented subs. It will be a regular commitment. There will be no promise of play though once the sub has proven to be trustworthy and dedicated that may evolve. There will be no expectation of sex or sexual contact. I am seeking exactly what I state. At no point and in no way is there a subtext that reads "I will stick your mop up your ass after you are done with it and paint your testicles with bleach if I find streaks on my windows" What?..wait...Oh, for the sake of kittens everywhere...STOP TOUCHING YOURSELF! Never let it be said that I do not have a sense of humour ;) Thank you to all who have extended a welcome. It's been a lovely transition. Now on to business... PLEASE NOTE THESE STATEMENTS AS CRITICAL FOR A RESPONSE FROM ME.... 1) I'M TIRED OF GETTING E-MAILS WITHOUT PHOTOS. I UNDERSTAND AND RESPECT PRIVACY. IT'S FAIR IF YOU HAVE NONE AVAILABLE FOR PUBLIC CONSUMPTION, BUT YOU'RE LIKELIHOOD OF GETTING A REPLY FROM ME WITHOUT A PICTURE IS POOR UNLESS YOU CAN PUT OSCAR WILDE TO SHAME WITH YOUR WIT AND CHARM. I WANT TO SEE WHO I'M DEALING WITH. I no longer enter into online arrangements. Largely I find that by the end of a session I have finger cramps from so much typing while getting little more back than "Thank you Contessa".. ugh... it's not really my preference in a D/s relationship. Surprise, surprise. If you do not use the Title Contessa to address me if you're approaching as a sub. I'll know you haven't read this far. Not Mistress, Miss, Ma'am or Madam. NO. NO. NO. You will call me Contessa. That is the only acceptable Title. I'm in the health care field (hence my high comfort level with certain scenarios). The dark side of my identity can be summed up this way: Hedonist, artist, subversive, one possessed of gracious and sophisticated corruption wrapped in sensuality, yet bound by iron clad principles. I am the walking contradiction that indulges all and none. I refute passion so that I might distill it. I deny want so I can better define need. I resist intrusion so that I can gauge weaknesses. I am evasive so I can find boundaries. I am impossible, untameable but not because I flee or fight, but because I consume and withstand...because everything you throw at me is information I will not ignore. As a Domina, my priority is safety, I spend much of my time working in a hospital and I have no intention of contributing to any additional burden on my co-workers. This is followed closely by self-realization. I refuse to be topped from the bottom. Try and manipulate me and you'll quickly find yourself talking to air. I do not believe in egotism except as an opportunity for delusion. I am always open to the personal expression and the intrinsic identity of the person involved in submitting to me. I believe in the necessity of communication. Sex is secondary to conscience in all things. It is always an interesting moment when that consideration is removed entirely. Does it change the path, the experience of the submissive? Does it transform the power exchange? Absolutely. Engage the mind and the body will follow. Engage the body and the mind is abandoned.

New blog post is up!

http://bentnotbrokenblog.wordpress.com/2013/07/28/god-shes-so-successful-and-i-could-just-kill-her/

I think I'm getting to like the Twitter, it's a bit of a surprise for me. https://twitter.com/BentnotBroken4

Do others find it worth while?

Another new entry for my blog

http://bentnotbrokenblog.wordpress.com/2013/06/02/craigslist-sex-or-how-to-ask-for-the-sex-you-want/

And I'm giving this Twitter thing a try, let's see how it goes...

Wow, isn't wordpress a blast?

So Bent not Broken is finally coming together. Business cards have been printed, office space is looking good, paypal is open and my first blog is up. If you're interested in what I have to say and what services I offer, feel free to inquire. My first post isn't kink specific, but it does touch on the challenges of being a deviant in society.

http://bentnotbrokenblog.wordpress.com/2013/04/06/the-superstition-of-rules/

let me know what you think! Or send me some tips on formatting if you think the page could look better.

cheers!

Contessa

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