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Hetero Male Dominant, 40,  Northants, United Kingdom
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  I am a Dominant male who is in search of someone very very special. I need a submissive who has a very high drive for play, a very honest, kind and loving nature. Someone who knows that this works at its very best when the people involved actually share an emotional bond whether that be that of deep friendship or of honest love. The lady in question will be capable of communicating fully and not just within the D/s boundaries but actually within all aspects of life. What does she get in return? Well, for one she gets honesty, openness, a wickedly creative mind and someone who is very protecting without being smothering, oh and she will also get to be regularly aware of the true meaning of the word "Mine". Hair pulling, spanking, use of implements, clamps and sensory deprivation come as standard, that look that says "come here" is earned.












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 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 Willing to Relocate

 6' 2"

 240 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female


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 Curious About:


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Journal Entries:
7/15/2010 9:59:06 AM
Ever just have one of those completely inexplicable down days? What do you do to pick up?

7/14/2010 8:49:58 AM
So a new week and new adventures to be had, so far what have I learned? Well, I have learned that there is always more to learn about a friend than you could ever imagine. I have been busily enjoying finding out some of the little things that make up a person I already find charming, it has passed the time and given me a more rounded appreciation of said soul. What else? Well it's time for me to hit the trail again and find myself at a foreign munch, this time leicester MMM and with rather more people I know already than the last. That said the M42 munch had a lot to recommend it including the birthday hug. 

6/30/2010 3:01:09 PM
What have I learnt?

Well in the last few years I have made a lot of real life friends, had some failed relationships and learnt a few things. Most of all I have learned that limits chage and the boundaries shift as the nature of inquisitiveness takes hold. The power of "what if...."

Maybe I was made by Honda :0)

4/23/2009 7:50:39 AM
Ok well here goes. I suppose I am what you might call a non conformist, not so much in an obvious way but I have always prided myself on being objective and strong enough to make my own decisions whether right or wrong. I have a very strong belief system by which I mean not theological but practical right and wrong issues. I firmly believe that people should have the strength of character to understand themselves and to be able to tolerate others. I believe that anything consentual between adults of the same species is their business and only their business.

I love women, their diversity, their bodies and most of all their minds. I accept that men and women often see things in a different light but i respect a woman able to challenge my beliefs and discourse effectively. I prize intelligence and not only through pure intellect but through action and character also. I try not to judge people though I openly admit there are sections of society I cannot comprehend or hope to enlighten.

My moral compass is unusual though I believe strongly in a sense of ethics and fairness in everything I try to do, I acknowledge I am never to be canonised. I am comfortable with myself (despite the hair loss of my age) and love others to be as comfortable in their own minds and bodies. Currently in a complicated situation that I am working to resolve satisfactorily, I am at the moment looking primarily for friends though if that should become more I am not averse to considering something of a different nature.

I am very oral and very visual in my prime stimulations though the greatest of all stimulants is a similar mind. I love to learn new tricks and to be able to fully satisfy a woman on a physical level as well as an emotional one. I acknowledge my imperfections and embrace them as fundamental to my whole.

Humour is a very attractive thing to me and the cruder the better. I value wit and word play higly. I love a woman who is not afraid to be a woman yet doesn't always feel the need to look perfect before leaving the house. I am very conscious of time and always try to factor in as much spare time as I need to never be late for an appointment.

I am tactile and adore spontaneity. I have an interest in all sort of things sexual and life oriented that I obviously can't discuss in this limited section so feel free to say hi. At the risk of this becoming a me me me session for which I heartily apologise. Physically I have no "type" as previously stated I love all women (everyone has at least one attractive piece in my eyes whether this be the obvious feminine parts, eyes or brain and getting to know all of these is important.) I believe in trust as I feel trust is all important in maintaining both an intellectual and a physical relationship to its ultimate peak. I am an open book with no fears of revealing too much just as happy to rant about speed cameras as to have a discussion on the perfect blow job.

If any of this strikes a chord then feel free to say hello, if it sounds a little pompous then, once more, sorry. Oh and if brutal honesty isn't required please tell me as my filter is set to tell the whole truth by default and i am not here to offend anyone.

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