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Hetero Female Submissive, 40,  Near Cville, Virginia
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I am a single female teacher who is looking for a real, vanilla style relationship with a BDSM twist. I am submissive in the bedroom and enjoy fantasies of bondage, RP rape, spankings, and being helpless. To be honest, I have some trouble with giving up control, until trust is established. Outside of the bedroom I would say I am more easy-going then submissive, meaning I am ok with others making decisions but expect to have a say in major decisions.

I am looking for a Dom who is secure in himself, tall, fit, and attractive to me.Somewhere between 30 and 45 years of age, who is looking for an vanilla LTR with a twist.

Relocation is possibly an option. I have lived in New Orleans and loved it, and was in TX for a short while as well. My family is in OH, PA, and DC and we are pretty close knit so I would expect to visit them or have them visit me.

I live near the city of Charlotteville now but dont really consider myself a city girl, more small town or country. I love riding horses, hiking, camping, and kayaking.

I am NOT, NOT, NOT into pain so if whips are your thing we probably wont get along (spanking is ok). I have pics and will send one if I am comfortable with your message, being a teacher I have to be very discrete.

Recently took a test for BDSM- here are the results-

Results from 96 Submissive 95 Rope bunny 69 Primal (Prey) 63 Degradee 57 Brat 53 Vanilla 50 Experimentalist 47 Pet 44 Slave 42 Masochist 37 GirlBoy 22 Switch 16 Voyeur 15 Exhibitionist 9 Dominant 7 Ageplayer 7 Rigger 6 Non-monogamist 6 Primal (Hunter) 5 Degrader 4 MasterMistress 2 Brat tamer 2 DaddyMommy 2 Owner 1 Sadist












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 Submissive Female

 Near Cville 


 Willing to Relocate

 5' 8"

 170 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Mascdom Couples

 Lives For:

 Travel (Beginner)

 Horseback Riding

 Massage (Getting)


 Fine Dining


 Renaissance Faires



 Massage (Giving)

 Science Fiction






 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping (Beginner)


 Coffee Shops  (Beginner)

 Musical Theater (Beginner)

 Shopping (Beginner)


 Dancing (Beginner)

 Hiking (Beginner)

 Martial Arts (Beginner)

 Rafting (Beginner)

 Rollerblading (Beginner)



 Puzzle Games

 Romance Novels




 Clubbing (Beginner)


 Curious About:

 Camping (Beginner)

 Sailing (Beginner)

 Scuba Diving


 Surf Boarding (Beginner)

 Wind Surfing

 Anal Play



 Breast Play




 Local BDSM Community





 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage

 Role Playing



 Speech Restrictions





 1950s Lifestyle






 Foot Worship

 Gas Masks

 Knife Play

 Needle Play

 Public Play




 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
6/9/2007 8:12:13 PM
Ok, just got some new info!  According to a helpful dom on this site I am a bottom not a sub.  Thank you for that info kind sir! 

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