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Hetero Male Switch, 38,  Ithaca, New York
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I'm a guy who is lonely and even though I'm willing to try many things once (kink or otherwise), right now.. I just want creature comfort. Snuggles and fun. This might not get me too many hits, but it is just honest.











Last Online:


 Male Switch


 New York

 6' 4"

 292 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women


 Lives For:


 Breast Play




 Amusement Parks

 Bar Hopping

 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining


 Museums (Beginner)

 Renaissance Faires





 Martial Arts (Beginner)

 Ultimate Frisbee

 Massage (Getting) (Beginner)


 Horror Movies


 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction

 Cooking (Expert)

 Singing (Beginner)




 Paranormal (Beginner)

 Writing (Beginner)

 Electronica / EDM

 Buddhism (Beginner)

 Kabbalah (Beginner)

 Basketball (Beginner)



 Art Galleries (Beginner)


 Fishing (Beginner)

 Gambling (Beginner)




 Climbing (Beginner)

 Horseback Riding (Beginner)

 Pilates (Beginner)

 Rollerblading (Beginner)

 Running (Beginner)

 Tai-Chi (Beginner)

 Walking (Expert)

 Anal Play (Beginner)

 Foot Worship

 Hair Pulling

 Knife Play (Beginner)

 Massage (Giving)

 Spanking (Beginner)

 Tickling (Beginner)

 Watersports (Beginner)

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Chess (Beginner)

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows (Beginner)

 Online Chatrooms (Beginner)

 Puzzle Games (Beginner)

 Simulation Games

 Sitcoms (Beginner)

 Web Surfing



 Drawing (Beginner)

 Gardening (Beginner)

 Meditation (Beginner)

 Online Auctions (Beginner)

 Sculpting (Beginner)



 Astronomy (Beginner)

 Blogging (Beginner)

 Chemistry (Beginner)

 Intellectual Discourse (Beginner)



 Poetry (Beginner)


 Goth Lifestyle

 Polyamory (Beginner)

 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music

 New Age Music



 Rock Music



 Feng Shui


 Badminton (Beginner)


 Going to the Opera

 Weightlifting (Beginner)

 Newspapers (Beginner)

 Romance Novels

 True Crime (Beginner)

 TV Sports (Beginner)



 Curious About:

 Clubbing (Beginner)




 Scuba Diving

 Skate Boarding


 Surf Boarding

 Wind Surfing




 Body Worship


 Canes and Crops

 Electrical Play



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Genital Punishment

 Local BDSM Community

 Domestic Service

 Fire Play


 Gas Masks





 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical Play

 Mental Bondage


 Needle Play

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation

 Speech Restrictions


 Theatrical Scenes

 Vacuum Stimulation


 Wax play







 Soap Making

 Libertarian Politics

 Lifestyle BDSM (Beginner)









 Street Hockey





 TV News

 Conservative Politics





 Housework Service

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Journal Entries:
9/2/2012 11:42:30 PM

It seems incredibly hard to get started in the lifestyle.  I've had friends, but I could never quite get in the mood or whatever.  I am looking, but it seems 1000 miles away right now.  Is there any help?

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