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Hetero Female Slave, 48,  Ottawa Valley, ON, Canada
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Greetings and good day! Always willing to meet new friends in the lifestyle, always willing to learn new things. Send me a message and say HI, i only bite once i know you better. ;)

i like to read between the lines and see what pops up...?

So saying, something about me perhaps. i love music and play guitar, piano, and a few other instruments with varying degrees of ability. i'm a book-a-holic, reading everything from True Crime to sci-fi and fantasy. i enjoy recreational games with friends, cards, board games... i rarely watch tv. ?i love D&D and have played for a very long time.? Not so fond of online RPG's though they do have their moments, once in a blue moon.? Much preferred the days of MUDs; if You know that that is, ask me for the one i -still- have running. :)

i know who i am, know what i like, eager to learn all there is to learn

Do you have a great sense of the ridiculous? love to burst into song or laughter just because... enjoy driving for no reason listening to tunes or maybe must holding hands and chatting? ?Looking for kink is one thing, but finding the One that clicks on more than just the kink level is really the basis of a great relationship-to-be, don't you think? *grins* ??
i'm the person that goes?on line?and memorizes the countries of the world just because...
?i run a petting zoo and am an animal lover (and no, not -that- much *rofl*) with somewhere around 200 pets of all varieties of feather, fur and scales. i now take some of my critters to fairs and events as a mobile petting zoo, while of course leaving the majority at home for the tours there. ?This means, of course, that unless You have land and can?accommodate?the variety of exotics that i own and care for... kinda need Someone willing to relocate to here.
i'm the person that stops traffic to save a turtle in the middle of the road....
Wiccan country girl living in the woods in the Ottawa Valley with a thing for mythology and all things Vampyr and Gaelic. If you want to know anything else, send a message sayin' hello!

i'm the person that hauls ass out of bed to drive to a friend's house when they need a shoulder...

i procrastinate, stall, leave things to the last minute... but i get 'em done... so did -you- read between the lines? ;)

Not interested in turning on my cam and taking my clothes off for you... the size of my boobs shouldn't have a lot to do with whether a person wants to get to know me better, should it? ;)


And hey, if you get this far, let me say a few more things. *smiles* ?Please don't "txt spk" me. ?We're all adults and we should be able to put grammar, spelling and general writing abilities to use. ?It's a serious pet peeve being asked "how r u". ?Thanks!


Oh, password is "game on"... Laughs. ?So many say they've read a profile and haven't, so... i'm gonna ask, and <---that's the password. *winks*










Last Online:


 Female Slave

 Ottawa Valley, ON 


 5' 4"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Friends Only

 Lives For:


 Role Playing Games

 Singing (Expert)


 Intellectual Discourse




 Horseback Riding

 Scuba Diving



 Electrical Play

 Hair Pulling


 Mental Bondage

 Sensory Deprivation

 Historical Shows


 Online RPGs

 Science Fiction

 Simulation Games


 Karaoke (Expert)


 Tattoos (Beginner)

 Archaeology (Beginner)



 Paranormal (Beginner)


 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music



 Rock Music

 Show Tunes



 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires



 Local BDSM Community

 Knife Play (Beginner)

 Massage (Giving)


 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Role Playing

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Online Chatrooms

 Puzzle Games

 True Crime




 Occultism (Beginner)

 Physics (Beginner)


 Psychology (Beginner)

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Classical Music

 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Opera Music


 Horse Racing




 Masks (Wearing)

 Arcade Games



 Blue Grass



 Curious About:

 Fire Play

 Needle Play



 Massage (Getting)


 Conservative Politics


 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics


 Political Activism



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Journal Entries:
11/6/2017 1:25:32 PM
For anyone messaging me, at the moment the site isn't allowing me to reply.  It just says "that page can't be reached" when i try.  i'm not ignoring people, honest!

2/4/2012 7:34:25 AM

New tattoo last night!!  Excellent work @ Expressions tattoo in Vaudreuil, QC. :)


On another note... for those who want to ask me for my cell # to chat.  Chat!  As in, actually dial the phone and speak to me.  i'm starting to think everyone on this site is hiding a significant other, they're so scared to actually dial a phone and talk. *lol*


...or... wait... that's right *sigh* i'm -intimidating-.  ;)  Cheers!

9/25/2011 10:44:39 PM

In the past few months I have been called intimidating.  More frequently that I would imagine, if I could imagine myself being intimidating in the first place.  The reasons for this "intimidating" me are varied, and rather off the wall... I have been given these reasons, for example:  too cheerful, too friendly, too honest, too intelligent... I've been in the lifestyle "too long" and know "too much"... Seriously?

6/15/2011 1:38:57 AM

An observation.  So many of the profiles on here say "at least say hi, if you look at the profile" or "ladies, if we guys say hi, least you can do is respond with a polite "no thanks" instead of deleting unread"... how about, "Always enjoy making new friends, so don't be shy, say hello."


So saying... in the last week my friendly "hey, hope your day is a good one" (though lengthier, usually) greetings have been deleted unread, ignored, blocked... Not like I'm rude, or explicit, in my messages.... oh, wait... maybe i should be?  Drop any semblance of literacy and proper grammar, spelling, manners, and just get XXX-rated?


It's frustrating, even to connect and make some friends in the lifestyle.  From all one reads, this is the guys complaint; the women shying away and not responding to simple friendly emails.  Well, chalk one up, the men seem to behave the same way. </observation>

12/3/2010 6:34:04 PM
Got my next tattoo done, this one was chosen by my daughter.  She chose placement, and type (rats), and of course her name and birthdate.  Ouch. ;)

9/2/2010 12:27:30 AM
Thought i would upload a few new pics of new critters in my family.  My Eyelash viper, Poison Ivy, and the new African crested porcupine named Bukhali. 

2/22/2010 3:43:12 PM
Got my results today on a wildlife rehabilitation course i took in November. 97%, woo! It's official, i can now rescue the little devils i've been rescuing already for years, but legally. Very excited, thought i'd share. :)

6/18/2009 8:29:44 PM
Got my new tattoo done on Tuesday night... added a picture here. :)

6/3/2009 12:51:59 AM
Edit June 18:  His body was found and the family has had a memorial service as of today. Thank you again for all the warm thoughts and prayers.
Sunday night a young man, my cousin, went canoeing with 3 friends... and didn't return.  The whole family is still waiting while rescuers comb the river and surrounding forests for him and his friend who didn't come back; 2 of the 4 made it to shore after their canoe capsized.

Thanks to all my friends here who are praying for his safe return.

5/14/2009 11:12:01 PM
Opening day is here! 10 hours away and - surprise surprise - I still haven't finished everything there is to finish. Including the sign that says "Renovating, please bear with us".

On the up side, it's a long weekend and the media blitz has resulted in a huge surge of interest, so here's hoping! Cross your fingers for me.

3/19/2009 8:46:15 PM
Finally home again! Took them 9... nine... weeks to get the house back in order.  Just in time for spring!

1/18/2009 7:19:09 PM
Currently living in a motel while the insurance people send disaster services into my home to eliminate a mold infestation. Yay.  Seems a new roof is in order come spring as well, Happy New year.

10/21/2008 10:51:49 AM
Some people wonder why I don't reply to emails on occasion even after reading them.  Perhaps if I read something that made a modicum of sense, and not "I am Master 4 U, slave! this is right one!"

Yes, well... The English language may be one of the more difficult to grasp, some say the most difficult to learn actually, there are still some guidelines that one should be capable of following, wouldn't you think?

And not that I am adverse to making friends of all shapes, sexes, sizes, and proclivities I do wonder sometimes at the number of messages I get from male submissives asking me to get out my whip. *chuckle*

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