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Female Submissive, 18, Los Angeles, California
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Female Submissive, 23, baltimore, Maryland
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About cayleth
I'm a professional writer and Chief Technology Officer for an impact investment firm. I pride myself on integrity, and a philosophy of constant self-improvement. I write both for the firm that I work for, and on my own time to publish. My goal as a writer is to create something that influences culture and helps to alleviate suffering.
I believe that there is no perfection humanly attainable, and that our purpose in life is to continually strive towards improvement of ourselves in every fashion. The true measure of a person is their drive to improve.
Education and nature are sacred to me. I look to nature to inform my philosophy and view of the universe, in a fractal sense. Education is critical in striving towards self-improvement.
I believe that good communication begins with a lifestyle of integrity and honesty, and is tempered by empathy and diplomacy.
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To me, the heart of BDSM lifestyle is trust. This kind of relationship unfolds like the blooming of a rare and beautiful flower. Each level of trust, and therefore comfort, allows a new level of domination and submission, which in turn facilitates a new level of trust, and so on. Our real strength is the ability to foster and grow this trust quickly, while following consensually determined roles.
Therefore, my style is very much about trust, mutual care, and deepening the relationship that we have step by step through our shared experiences. I value the kind of submissive who is an intelligent, fun, and interesting person, first and foremost, the kind of person who I would really enjoy being around under any circumstances. Then, the goal becomes to achieve the highest level of willing and eager submission, which is a symbol of the deepest possible level of trust and comfort.
My favored types of protocols and duties center on things that deepen and improve our relationship and reinforce our roles in a positive fashion.
I identify strongly with the role of teacher, guide, and caregiver, and I would rather reward good behavior than punish bad behavior, although punishments can be fun too.
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== Results from?http://bdsmtest.org/?==
100% Dominant
95% Owner
93% Daddy/Mommy
92% Master/Mistress
87% Bondage giver
81% Voyeur
77% Primal (Hunter)
76% Exhibitionist
75% Experimentalist
64% Ageplayer
60% Brat tamer
46% Sadist
33% Vanilla
32% Non-monogamist
32% Switch
29% Bondage receiver
19% Degradation giver
16% Pet
15% Masochist
12% Submissive
10% girl/boy
9% Primal (Prey)
6% Slave
4% Brat
0% Degradation receiver
0% All-Rounder |
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