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Female Switch, 49, Hartford, Connecticut
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Male Dominant, 47, clarksburg, West Virginia
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Female Submissive, 39, U.K.
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About Castalian
In the fight between reality and fantasies, we need to help reality. Let’s start with some tough questions:
Why? No growth without understanding and acceptance first: I’ve read the books and challenged myself. You know how stress and power can trigger fears of inadequacy and offsetting behaviors – diversions, not submission. I understand the difference enough to be honest.
Fantasies? An obstacle. They come from me, not you, and fulfillment is doing what you want me to be doing. A kinky mind is one thing (I remember where I am ..), but there should be one and only goal: that you enjoy it. Everything else must go.
Compatibility? Total compatibility is a miracle. Yet, you expect more than compliance: quality. Submission is not an absent look in the eyes, but full engagement. Any fetish can be a burden or a fiery explosion – communication makes the difference. No fears, no protections, no hidden agenda.
Attractions? As someone who think about things, I am attracted to people who want things. I am fascinated by smart and open minded women who live according to their rules - secret rebels. Sensually, I am more sweet than forthright at first, then, once shown the direction, honest and confident.
Serving Men ? Not attracted to men, hence the "straight" check. Yet more than one experience with couples, with equal success as sweet accessory or fiery principal. Intense experiences ...
Limitations ? As a banker, I work ridiculously long hours, travel 150 days a year, and commute between Pittsburgh and Charlotte, with a week a month in Amsterdam. I have a vanilla girlfriend, hence realistcally seeking friends. One can still hope for a miracle.
I don't take the life style discourse too seriously, no offense intended. A very liberal education makes me see pleasure as sane and healthy - no need for any other justification.
Skills? Excellent social skills, vast practical knowledge and experiences of many situations. Once I know what is expected of me, usually can mobilize resources to get things done quickly. And all the usual perks that come with financial success. Spoiling is a legitimate given. Life is short. Besides this, physically fit, emotionally adult, psychologically aware. Classic good looks and attention to detail.
Next? I always love a good conversation, and lazy afternoons. Not always extraordinary moments, also quiet time: you are not there to be pressured. I am. |
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