Castalia


Castalian Male Submissive, 42, Allgheny+Gastonia, Pennsylvania	castawaydreame Male Dominant, 47, clarksburg, West Virginia	castamp Female Submissive, 39, U.K.

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	About Castalia Profile updated as of 08/10/2016 NO MEN UNLESS YOU ARE DOMINANT AND INTERESTED IN MENTORING MY OWNER. I ONLY TOP WOMEN. #1 If you're rude or don't read or respect my interests, be very surprised if I acknowledge your existence. I know that's very sexy talk for some of you, but I mean it. I am an extremely kinky, open-minded half of a BDSM-Lifestyle couple in search submissive female for play and friendship - domestic service a plus, but not required. Slave mentality or service-kink-mentality is a wonderful. Must be bisexual. Looking for someone who suits just me, myself or me and my partner, a Dominant, straight Male. So: there are two aspects to my invitation: those women who only want to play with or seek another woman, and those who are interested in playing with the both of us. We are open to exploring a few different permutations of poly, but it really isn't a prerequisite for play or becoming friends. We really like to get to know folks in a vanilla sense before playing. Lots of ways to do this! Munches, vanilla outings, hanging out, etc. It's going to help a lot if you are geeky, nerdy, and Aspie, cuz that's us! If you want to be very involved with me and only a friend to my Dominant, than that is 100% ok. If all you want is friendship, that's spectacular. I need and want all sorts of friends in the lifestyle. We are parents though, you should know that going into this -- and we require discretion and good sense about that. Helps if you don't hate kids, LOL. Our only kid at home is going into high school, so we're not talking ankle biters, but I need folks to know that we're a family, first and foremost, and we protect our kids and our reputations out of sanity and necessity. Ok boring rant over now. Kinky interests: I really love sensuous play, including sensation play and bondage with women, and more intense play like spanking, flogging, crops, wooden spoons, etc., as well as deep D/s activities and energy. If service or protocol is your kink or passion? Boy I'd love to talk to you at least. I love the beauty of it, and am always interested in meeting folks who feel the same. Fetish-wear that I find exciting: latex, pvc, leather, slutty lingerie, whore-ish outfits. 1) being in service to a happy Dom/me is it's own reward. 2) have you ever been grocery shopping with a butt plug and/or chastity device in place? Lends new meaning to service with a smile. 3) Can you even imagine the thrill of the unexpected spank or nipple tweak as you're cooking? I thought you might I have been in a combination of D/s relationships, the BDSM "Scene", House Dominatrix at several clubs, and a believer in Risk Aware Consensual Kink since I was 17. To all the lovelies who now correspond on a regular basis, near and far, who have sent heart-felt, humble and respectful letters, bravo! You make my day. To anyone wondering what happened with my previous owner, you can message me. Karma's a bitch........

I'm back. I don't check my mail or messages on this account very often. You can find me on FetLife as sub_mariana.

Most awesome thing ever:

And this ought to tell you what a sick person I am, since I absolutely, 100% just cracked myself up good with this:

saw on someone's profile, under one of their hard limits:

Clubbing

Um, ok.? And in my mind I am thinking of this poor sub, naked and with collar on, avoiding the clubs of maniacal Harp Seal hunters.

"No, no, please don't club me!? I told you, that's a HARD LIMIT!"

Ahahahaha.? It's just the way collarme's set up. I could probably say "cross-stitching" is a hard limit.?

"No, no way, I have TRAUMA from cross-stitching scenes!"? :: enter Mistress Castalia, cross-stitching needles in hand, cackling wildly ::

Anyway, that's tonight's entertainment, folks. And no, don't worry, I won't chase you with cross-stitch needles. Unless you know how to beg VERY, very well. :-)

Dominantly Yours,

Mistress Castalia

Greetings my pets...

Just wanted to update the journal as I realize that many people look at the date to judge activity on collarme....

At this moment, Master Ron and I are looking for our sub/slave cd/tv/t-girl to round out our little D/s family. We're hoping to find someone for whom service is a kink, someone who really enjoys being at the mercy of two experienced authoritarians. We envision you in bondage, even while scrubbing the floor . Best case scenario would be someone who already likes to cross-dress in latex or other tight and shiny clothes, ideally in Maid attire.

If being a slut in hose, heels, makeup and a wig sounds like fun to you, We'd like to hear from *you*! Those with a slave-orientation are encouraged to apply. We'll tease you and torture you (in a good way of course) while you're cleaning the kitchen (there's a real art to making coffee with hand-cuffs on, trust Me) and you'd better watch out if you're bending over to pick something up off the floor!!

We'll administer corporal discipline when it suits Us because we're both sadists :-) We'll help you with your make-up then make you kneel and service us both.

We'll relish the collar and cuffs We lock onto your neck, wrists and ankles and it will be handy for when We restrain you later ;-)

We'll ridicule you gently for having your cock straining at the fabric of your panties and let you know how much your arousal pleases us. You may or may *not* get to have anything done about it, so get used to the idea ;-)

Expect that We'll enjoy your humilation (not degradation!) and have high expectations for service of all kinds. We want a happy shiny house *and* a happy shiny sissy :-D

If you belong on your knees looking up adoringly at those who truly deserve worship and devotion, quit wasting time and get in touch. We're waiting! And not too patiently at that.... :-)

Mistress Castalia &
Master Ron

I just had three impossible tries with the private chat...wouldn't go through. Dealing w/CM today has been ABSOLUTELY maddening.

~ me

FOILED BY PROXY SERVER!
I was just trying to email someone and it sent my email about a zillion times, freaking me out and angering the other person.? be aware that this can happen!!!

~ me

CHAT REQUESTS:?
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? Just a little reminder, my little pets: Mistress Castalia does not accept chat requests as a rule, and one should not take umbrage at such a thing. Mistress is busy...would you not rather I return your email??
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Mistress Castalia

::sigh:: Greetings sweet sissies, cds and pets of all sorts... I just got through another 40 emails... ironically, those who have been eliminated from consideration probably won't read this any time soon, and you all _will_.? Figures, I suppose.?

To get an idea of the scale of what is going on here, know that there are approximately 30 supplicants under serious consideration.?

That is not to say that there are not those who are more preferred than others. Younger, more fit, intelligent, creative, *extremely* submissive cd types have an advantage.

An exception to this is the switch who can be made to use sub #1's ass for my amusement and arousal.? I would dearly love to see sub #1's mouth around the right cock, believe me...switches must remember that they might be dom relative to sub #1 (not difficult, believe me!) but NEVER dom to me.

Well, I've reached the saturation point with the mail again this afternoon. Perhaps more tonight.

Don't forget, sweeties, letters with photos trump those without.....

Dominantly yours,

Mistress Castalia

Good morning my pretties!! ::sip:: You know, it's amazing to me the number of people who deactivate their profiles while waiting for a first or second response from me.? My guess is that people regularly give up hope from the recurring experience of disappointment on this site.?

I *know* some of you have waited a while to progress. Please note that time passes beyond my control frequently, and I have a full time job, family and a partner, sub #1. It seems to me that a fair number of folks online (not just on this site, either!) spend a great deal of time _online_ and their world becomes very, very small.?

I can tell you that I was deeply absorbed at first by the amount of information and vectors for contact online when I first emerged years ago. It was shocking to me! I spent a lot of time reaching out. Eventually, it did lose its charm as my real time activities finally dominated my time more than my virtual activities.? So I'm not online as much.? This much can be discerned when you check the last time I was online!?

I do apologize for the wait, again. But remember, this is the price that is paid when dealing with a real person, someone who really exists behind the profile, not a sham.? Every person's mail is answered.? I don't haughtily hit the delete button or scoff at the letters of those less experienced.? That's not dominance, that's just EGO!? And that crap is a dime a dozen. You can and do run into spoiled, egotistical brats (who may or may not call themselves Dom/mes) every day: online, berating service people at restaurants, barking orders at you at work.?

Well folks, that's not me. I'm a real human being...I'm also superior to most of the human race, brilliant, worthy of devotion, worship, unstinting service and of course, love.?

I'm the real deal. Those who are patient will be rewarded.

Dominantly yours,

Mistress Castalia

Guiltily I admit having been kept away from my email duties by the holiday weekend and unexpected houseguests.? Thank you all again for being so patient!?

Also, my GOD - IKEA furniture is wonderfully cheap, terrifically designed, but POOR sub #1, he had to wrestle with less than attentive *manufacturing* and that took a *whole* lot of time, believe it or not.?

So, we had our distractions this weekend.? But this should be a good, focused week, as sub #1 has worked so hard on the house and Mistress Castalia can get to her email now.

And HOUSEGUESTS! Yikes! They need attention, of course...now that the house is quieter, Mistress can concentrate again :-)

Be good little sissies and wait; there's only one of me, and she doesn't get enough sleep as it is! :-)?

Dominantly yours,?

Mistress Castalia?

:::sip:::

Greetings Pets!?

Your Mistress Castalia is back in action now, after a very demanding week fraught with physical challenges. Damned ragweed!?

The process of consideration continues...with some notes.? With the rare exceptions of a sub in Canada and some who already travel the U.S. frequently, I really must say that I can't consider long-distance supplicants.? I myself do not have the wherewithal currently to travel to meet others, nor can I host others for 24/7 live-in arrangements.? We simply do not have space in our home.? I have enjoyed corresponding briefly with the international candidates, but by and large, it would be a frustration to all, in *most* cases to expect anything to come of it.?

Also, if you have a hard limit that you will not consider any same-sex activity (as a male slave or sub) then I am not the right Mistress for you.? If you have had only fantasies of such, then I am not the one, either.? I cannot spend time being your introduction to bi-sexuality under the premise that you will "do anything to please" me.? By and large, while this is a pleasant fantasy, real roadblocks are encountered in the execution of a scene if you have misgivings about being sexual with another man.?

To be clear: preference will be given to bright, articulate, androgynous, bisexual, cross-dressing, *service oriented* slaves and subs.? If you have a problem with surrender, then this is not for you.? Young, creative, intelligent subs who can hold their own in a conversation about things important to me in the vanilla world, step to the front of the line, please!

Well, off to start another day...at least the humid weather has left us....?

Dominantly yours,?

Mistress Castalia

Hello my pets, and welcome to the weekend.?

Mistress Castalia really must apologize for being such a recluse this week!? Between having a migraine, family members being sick and now, this weekend, a houseguest (more family!) your Mistress has barely had time to breathe....

So kudos to all of you who have been waiting so patiently...you know who you are :-)

Hopefully this weekend brings an end to the mail back-log, and a beginning in earnest to round two of consideration.

A bit of inside information as to how this all works for the new and wet-behind the ears...

1) I receive your email and respond relatively immediately to let you know I've gotten it.?

2) When I get to your request (as it comes up in the queue, essentially - everyone is treated equally to begin with) I evaluate it as either being worthy of consideration at all or not.? If I deem it worth our time to continue, I send a letter with some questions and requests, a sort of probationary first assignment.

3) When I receive that letter, it goes into an electronic folder here, with a copy of your profile and picture.

4) As I said, round two will consist of the side by side comparison of all files.? I use a scoring system devised to evaluate each supplicant's compatibility.

Supplicants are rated on everything from experience, desires, manners, intelligence...and very importantly, whether or not they are interested in play with sub #1.

I'm still at the point where I am compiling supplicants' files.?

Don't let the word "files" freak you out.?

One submissive wrote back, worried as hell, saying, "What do you MEAN....'FILES'????"

I assured the poor trembling creature that I was NOT the FBI.? I just need everything nice and organized.

Well, folks, back to mail.? Right now I have a house full of sleeping people, including sub #1...who valiantly went to the home of a mutual friend last night to comfort her at a hard time.? I don't know what time he came home, since I was asleep long before he came back.? I love my devoted girly-girl man....

Dominantly yours,

Mistress Castalia

Wow! How'd we get to Wednesday night so fast???

Dear pets, your Mistress Castalia was really out of commission today! A migraine stopped me in my tracks, and I did nothing but sleep all day long.??

In the end, what a wonderful thing, to catch up on rest! But I'm really sad I had to be so ill to get the sleep!?

So I got a little behind on mail... but did get to some tonight....?

So, on to a topic I find fascinating:?

power dynamics when playing with more than one submissive at once! This is really very interesting...on the surface, perhaps you're thinking, what does it matter...both of us (or more) are submitting to you, what's to contemplate? Ah, yes, you would, of course, be totally submissive to me, attending to every need and pleasure I dictate... that goes without saying....?

But, here's a wrinkle you don't hear discussed much: what about the power dynamics between both ( or more ) subs?! One will certainly be more submissive than the other. I think I like it that way, anyway. When it comes to forced bi, it's more fun to make the most subbie one use his mouth on the other, less subbie one....?

But the most subbie one is probably (in my experience) the one who likes accepting anal penetration the most... so it gets very interesting.?

Incidentally, I'm finding a lot of male subs who have had some fantasies about bisexuality or playing with another sub but who need "coaxing." Well, I don't mind coaxing someone who will warm to what is going on...but without real experience, sometimes its hard to tell what is a hard limit, and what is a soft limit.?

I encourage subs to really consider this...there's a real difference between thinking about doing it and actually doing it...I take great care not to move anyone too quickly, but I think deep down the sub has to be willing to surrender to going there.?

Well, that's all for tonight...still mending after the monster migraine, but your Mistress will be back in the saddle again soon....?

PONY PLAY ANYONE? Ride 'em cow-girl! Hmmm spurs??

Dominantly yours,?

Mistress Castalia

Mondays.? Can't really think of much about Mondays that Mistress likes. There's *sort* of a "new lease on life" feeling about Mondays, that perhaps a fresh start might make certain aspects of one's job less onerous, but not much!

All in all, I think I'd enjoy Mondays more if I were independantly wealthy.? Sleeping late hasn't been in Mistress Castalia's personal lexicon in a long time, which again has its advantages.? Dawn is a lovely thing, less thronged than evening's twilight, quieter, with more repose.? I'd still rather be sleeping though.

CORRESPONDENCE UPDATE:

Well, my pretties, we're down to only about 60+ letters of backlog.? We're getting there!

Again, congrats to those who "made the cut" this weekend - if you're still waiting for a response, it's probably simply because your letter to me is more recent.

Well, that's all your sleepy Mistress has time for today....

Bon voyage for the week!? A special hello, Buon Giorno and Kalimera to my Italian and Greek supplicants :-)

Dominantly yours,

Mistress Castalia

:::sip:::? Ah, coffee!? Being too tired and in need of caffeine to grind the coffee beans this morning (and not wanting to torture sub #1 with the sound of the grinder), I'm having some cheap Puerto Ricano espresso type coffee.? Not bad.? It works, that's for sure!? Even if I have to go back every three words to correct my spelling because I'm still sleepy....

So, time for another little mini-rant.? I promise you all, I'm not at all unreasonable...and I have every right to get medieval on some asses on this site.... Unless we've established some rapport, we've gone back and forth with *several* emails, it's HIGHLY unusual for me to say yes to a chat.? You have to be uber respectful (uber - look it up, it's a German word) and/or absolutely compelling to me for me to say yes.? Notable exceptions are international candidates for training, as we're a bit less likely to talk on the phone or see each other in person anytime soon.? Also, the time difference means that intersecting is more difficult.

If you live in the Northeast, haven't completed your assignments as asked, don't address me at the very LEAST as Ma'am, don't even dream of asking for a chat.? If you're sending me emails saying, "Hi, it's me again," be prepared for my ire.? That's tacky, childish, selfish and stupid.? Yup, it is.

I can say that because 75% of applicants do *not* act this way.? Do they have more common sense?? More emotional intelligence?? More experience in BDSM?? Are they more submissive?? The answer is yes.? All of the above.

With 10-20 new emails a day, how much do you think it really takes to be eliminated from consideration?? I'm not being at all cheeky.? No one does what I do, as far as I can tell, answering every email.

So keep your submissive desires in check, stop topping from the bottom, and wait your turn, already!? Those of you with these impulse control issues should really double check to see if you're really not switches.

Which is not to say there's a thing wrong at all with being a switch.? Not at all.? But submissive men are polite, patient, respectful people.? They do not view the Domme as a commodity to be "accessed" because having a profile on collarme.com makes the Domme seem accessible.

Can you imagine going up to a Domme at a play party, club or event, interrupting her already-in-progress conversation with another person, saying, repeatedly, "Hi, it's me again, wanna chat?"? Can you imagine the withering glance and hearty laugh you might get?

The online interface is not an excuse to behave like an idiot.? Though by the same token, if you're brain-dead and rude, I don't suppose the online interface is going to help that, either!

Ok, enough Mean Castalia.? Maybe in a bit I'll post the alluring, nice Castalia....

Congrats to subs (very few, I assure you) who have made such good progress.? You know who you are :-)

And remember, not all candidates are suitable for 24/7, slave for life, etc.? Some of you will make excellent play-mates for Mistress and her sub.? Others of you I want to lasso and annex you into my little D/s family. :-)

Onward with the day!

Dominantly yours,

Mistress Castalia

Good morning, my pretties!? An issue has been coming up over and over again in my answering of inquiries, regarding those submissives who are married.

I do not take on submissives or slaves who are married. Period.

Why?

Well, honestly, dear subbies, it took a while to arrive at this conclusion.? Many years, actually.? It was a combination of experience in BDSM and Polyamory, frankly.? It is my supposition that anyone who is married who engages in extra-marital dalliances is actually a part of a Poly-Triad (or Poly Multiple of some stripe.)? The problem is, so is their unknowing spouse!

Though I am more of a R.A.C.K. fan than S.S.C., there is a core there which is of utmost importance: Consensuality.? If one is to play consensually, *all* parties must be able to give their consent.? And because it's well nigh impossible for me to verify the consent of the other spouse, usually a wife, without an in-person meeting and records check, it becomes much too cumbersome to accomplish.? And usually the sub admits that the spouse does not know and will not be informed anyway.

So there you have it.? It can work, but unless the contact was initiated in person by both spouses, I won't do it.? Examples of this include an introduction at a BDSM club, the Fetish Flea, a TES event, etc.?

I know this is enormously disappointing to many, and recently to myself!? I had a letter from an experienced, respectful and kind-hearted submissive who would otherwise have been a good match, but I just couldn't do it.? Believe me, I was a little heart-broken.? But I do believe I made the right decision.

That's all your Mistress has time for this morning.? Good progress is being made with the mail and responses, and some of you will be very pleased and relieved shortly, if you're not already.

Stay tuned, my pretties :-)

Dominantly yours,

Mistress Castalia

Tired, tired, tired, tired!!!? Will be back online later, wrestling the mail pile into submission.....

Mistress Castalia

:::ah, coffee::: Another busy day for your Mistress Castalia. Too many things to be done, not enough time in which to do them, of course. Compliments to all who are proceeding through the process of consideration properly. I am quick to point out to you how you are doing, so those of your who have followed directions properly know who you are.

Those of you who have been impatient or rude are also painfully aware of that, as well. There are files set up on approximately 15 of you, and approximately 5 have been eliminated as being unsuitable or because of their behavior.

Once again, if you have not heard back from me yet, it's because there are many people ahead of you who also wish to be gotten back to, and I am being as fair to them as I shall be to you. Also, my pretties, I work! I can't spend all day long doing this. My replies are carefully considered and I don't just hit the delete button.

Most of you also know that I usually can't accept chat requests, as it is far too time consuming.

So bravo to those who can follow directions and behave with proper deference and respect, and to those who have been eliminated for rudeness or impatience, I can't say I didn't warn you! To those who have been eliminated as unsuitable but who have behaved well, best wishes to you. It may not be easy to find someone worthwhile to serve, but in the end, the subs/slaves who follow protocol for that Domme will win out.

Have an excellent day, all!

Dominantly yours,

Mistress Castalia

Happiness is furniture moved and laundry done, yippee!!!? sub #1 is (as always) busting his cute girly butt around the house.... ::sigh:: That means the world to me....

Now folks, especially new subs/slaves just now contacting me for the first time, please remember about the wait time for a response!

Those of you who have been waiting, you'll hear from me soon - just as some of you know!

Time to take a break from all this!? Raise your hands out there, those of you wanting to be my cross-dressed secretary!? I always wanted to bend a secretary over a desk... hmmmm :-)

Dominantly yours,

Mistress Castalia

Ah!? Profile approved.? I'll get back to mail this evening.? Later my pretties!!? M.C.

Okie dokie, folks, I just updated my profile in depth, but now its pending approval.? It will go through eventually.

Mistress Catalia

:grr:? I think collarme didn't upload my last journal entry.? that happened on 8/16 also.

M.C.

::sssip:: Good morning my lovelies...this entry shall be quick one, as the day calls, much to do (far too much for this Mistress and submissive #1 to accomplish...thank goodness quite a few of you are progressing well in your correspondence!)

Projects around the house remain to be done, things Mistress feels *really* ought to be done before the Fall sets in in earnest...and little every day things that submissive #1 *and* Mistress Castalia spend too much time on....After all, who can *play* when there's dust bunnies to be gotten after and laundry to be done?

Mistress must confess she spends part of every day in a reverie thinking about having one or more of you joining submissive #1, each of you clad either in nothing or something sexy or sweet (or both! French maids and little girl frocks are fun to watch people mop the floor in, certainly!) taking care of the house...some of you will end up being made to touch each other, some will not...you'll all end up in situations which will bring some degree of humiliation (mild to well, not mild!) to please me.

There will be ordinary times, too, my pretties...what I mean by this is that Mistress Castalia also enjoys watching a movie with her pet(s) at her feet.? This lap of mine is a good place to rest your head after you've been a good sub....

That's all we've time for this morning...keep being patient if I have not yet responded to your email...I got through about 25 emails last night!

Dominantly yours,

Mistress Castalia

CORRESPONDENCE UPDATE:? ok.? There are 65 of you all in the queue to whom I need to respond.? Desperate pleas for attention will NOT expedite my response.? Unlike other Dommes, I actually do read and respond to ALL my mail.? It might take me a long time to do so, as I am not giving 99% of you the brush off, even those of you who live far away.? BUT PLEASE - quite a few of you are acting like little BABIES!!!!! LOL.? Which is not necessarily BAD in the right CONTEXT.? Mistress Castalia has been known to play Mommy to some ultra sissies, of course... but this is not a scene, Mistress Castalia does have to get up, go to work, etc., until a) she wins LOTTO, b) she finds a way on her own to be independantly wealthy (a goal, but it's not happenin' Monday at 6:45 am) or until someone generously makes it so she does not have to work.? That last comment is tongue in cheek, folks - I'm not some cyber Domme requiring tribute!? In the mean time, my lovelies, be patient!? There will be time enough for some of you to be SAMmy and get smacked!? I promise :-)? And now here's where I thank all of you who have acted responsibly, respectfully and patiently.? You know who you are!? YOU will get my attention first.? Now run and play, kiddies!!? Yikes! ;-)? Dominantly yours,? Mistress Castalia

DSL was down last night.? Way behind in correspondence.? I hate MONDAYS!? Patience, my pretties, patience!? :-)

UGGGGGGGH!!!? Mistress Castalia nearly melted yesterday!!!? I really can't stand it when it's THAT hot.? I do love summer, actually.? I even love places like Greece, Italy and New Orleans, but um, HELLO, there'd better be the Adriatic in front of me or the French Quarter all around me if it's going to be THAT bloody hot!? Hartford is not my idea of worthwhile locales in that context....Well another busy day for Mistress Castalia and submissive #1 is on tap...thank GOD for air conditioning in sub #1's car!!!? Well, off to get ready to go....mmm coffee from IKEA, yesss!!? :-)? Is there anything IKEA *doesn't* make that I need?? LOL...

Hello my lovelies!? I really had hoped to get to responding to a lot more mail, but if there's one thing I dislike, it is sending mail back to people that is less than personal, and right now there's just so much of it, your Mistress Castalia is a little overwhelmed!? Add to that a very busy day coming up (actually a busy weekend!) and well, I just wanted to warn the sincere masses who are corresponding with me that follow up will come, I promise, but maybe not today.? Tonight I may be visiting a friend overnight who ::gasp:: may not have an internet connection, so its possible there may be a bit of a traffic jam in Mistress Castalia's mail box...and for that I am sorry.? It is my intention to respond to each inquiry in a reasonable fashion, given my very busy schedule.? For new supplicants, please note, you will get a speedier response with maximum information about yourself and a photo.? Stay cool my little subbies and sissies!!? And oh, raise your hands in a show of collective disgust if you're freaking out about gas prices!!? Now Mistress' car *really* needs a tune-up...who can afford poor gas mileage anymore, good lord!? ;-)? ~ Yours in strength and power, Mistress Castalia

::aaah::: coffee!!? submissive #1 is sleeping right now, butt plug in place...and I'll be off to work soon, unfortunately.? Just got internet access back up at home after moving, and I'd love to stay home and play all day, especially answering all the interesting mail that's come in in the last 24 hours... but alas, the paycheck calls.? I also wish I was getting a massage and a pedicure today or this weekend, but this weekend looks ridiculously busy.? What Mistress Castalia really needs is a submissive well-trained in massage!? Any cross-dressing sissies who know how to put on nail polish, well, suffice it to say, you'll be popular!? And gentlemen callers, you who are sending all the emails, take note...if you wake up in the morning and you're picking the NY Times off the front porch, you have just increased your chances at interaction with me and with beautiful, long-haired slight of body submissive #1.? If you can't spell correctly as a rule, please take care to at least TRY.? Few things will turn me on and please me as much as the following: INTELLIGENCE (AND/OR EDUCATION), SURRENDER, RESPECT and quite simply, AN OPEN MIND.?

Mistress Castalia's favorite foreign country to which to travel:? hmm this might be a tie between England and Greece....

Song going through Mistress Castalia's head: Peter Murphy's entire album called Cascade

Yikes, time to get ready...watch this space for updates!

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