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Switch Couple, 45, Lexington, South Carolina
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Male Dominant, 34, Columbia, South Carolina
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Female Submissive, 49, Jacksonville, Florida
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About carolinabondage1
This profile will need to be a work in progress. As I think of things that I feel are important..I will jot them down here. Maybe some of my thoughts and ideas will help you get to know me better.
1. I do not accept chat requests. If you want to carry on a conversation..please send me a msg through the site. I will respond to all msgs.
2. I am in North Carolina. If you are not sure where that is..its on the east coast of the states. I am in the same time zone as New York City. With that being said....if you live in another country...you probably don't have much chance of a relationship with me. I am real time. I just do not do the cyber thing.
If you live more than an hour away from me...then please be willing to travel. I do not have any intentions of moving any time soon.
3. You will be treated with respect by me. I ask only that you treat me the same.
4. If you would like to see a picture of me or if you would like my yahoo messenger ID, then please send your picture first or your ID first. All messages sent to me will receive a response.
5. Please do not send me nude photos of yourself or anyone else. A g-rated shot is all that is required. The picture does need to include your face.
6. I have no hang ups about race, body size, religious preferences, or sexuality. If I can connect with you then that is the only thing that is important to me.
7. I am a technically a switch.I began the lifestyle as a Domme and later was trained in slavery. This means I can be either role however I do excercise my own rules regarding "switching" and these are just personal rules for me. It does not mean that everyone I come in contact with must abide by the rules I live my life by. I just found what works for me best. The way I determine if I am Domme or slave with someone is how I feel once I start to get to know someone. When you start talking and getting to know the other person, you can usually tell whether you would top this person, submit to this person, or if they would just make a great friend. That is the way I go about things. Just because someone tells me they are a Dom, does not necessarily mean that I will let them top me. It might be that we just end up being good friends and good friends are always nice to have.
8. Please do not ask me what I am looking for. No one can answer a question like that. Obviously I have not found exactly what I am looking for because I am still looking. Let's be honest. All of us here on this site will know what we are looking for when we find it and make that connection with someone else.
9. Just because I am bisexual and always have been doesn't mean that I want to sleep with your current submissive, sleep with one of your friends, take erotic photos with another girl, appear in a porn movie, perform with another girl for you and your buddies, nor does it mean that I am addicted to sex. I get turned on by women just like I get turned on by men. Im not all about color, body shape, or age, but I do need to connect on some level with a woman before I lay down with her. It takes a little more than the fact that "You know this girl...".
10. If you believe that this lifestyle is about sex or if you think because you demand sex and that makes you a Dominant then please know that I am not the girl for you.
The best way to get to know me is to talk to me. Intrigue me. An intelligent conversation is a huge turn on for me.
Hopefully some of these thoughts will help you out in getting to know me a bit better.
I look forward to talking with you. |
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Do you ever have one of those days where you know that the only thing that will make it better is about 300 needles piercing your flesh???  Maybe it is just me...
Where have all the Daddy's gone anyway????  |
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I came across a profile tonight of a Dominant Male. It made me laugh even though I was slightly offended at the lack of respect for the lifestyle. This gentleman said he only had one real life experience with a submissive partner. Well, that is fine. Everyone has to start somewhere and here is just as good as any but what threw me for a loop was the fact that he called himself "Master*****". I will leave out the name because I feel pretty certain he isn't the only one claiming this on here. If you have only had one real life experience, no real training, just internet and some reading material...then Im really not thinking you should call yourself "Master". Let's leave that pretigous title to those who have earned it. The Men who have earned it know exactly what I mean by "earning your title". Some people fuss over those of us that take this so seriously. They are the very ones who get hurt. Just some thoughts to ponder over...feel free to leave me your thoughts as well. |
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Today is my birthday!!!  I'm old now...lol, but that's ok. I made it through one of the toughest  years in my life and I am grateful.  Sometimes, it is just enough to say thank you.  |
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A study at the University of South New Zealand finds people involved in BDSM are happier than those who lead a vanilla lifestyle. Here is the story below. Please lv any comments.
PEOPLE WHO ARE INTO BONDAGE . . . REALLY AREN'T TOTAL FREAKS
This study took place in Australia . . . but it seems like the results would hold true here as well.
New research from the University of New South Wales found that people who enjoy bondage and S&M are NOT total freaks. In fact . . . they might be more sexually healthy than the rest of us.
According to the researchers, "People with interests [such as bondage and S&M] have long been seen by medicine and the law as, at best, damaged and in need of therapy and, at worst, dangerous and in need of legal regulation.
"[But] our findings support the idea that bondage and discipline and sadomasochism is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a certain minority."
And get this . . . according to the study, people who get down with bondage and S&M might actually be happier with who they are than the rest of us, because they've had to face the fact that they're into something unusual . . . and they're OK with that. (Australian)
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