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Hetero Female Submissive, 52,  Houston, Texas
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Im ultimately looking for a complete relationship with one man that encompasses both vanilla and lifestyle activities. Im looking for my best friend, partner in crime, and master or daddy.

I like a variety of activities including gym, UFC, beach at midnight, Symphony, live music, theatre, museums, zoo, park, and sports bars.

My lifestyle activities generally vary by the person Im with. I do have limits and expect that they will be respected.

The man for me is one that will take the time to get to know me. To date me and spend time with me. Im not interested in a man that wants me to chase him or wants to take ownership of me after date 1.

Please be HWP, within reasonable distance, and within reasonable age .












 Submissive Female



 5' 0"

 145 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male


 Lives For:

 Body Art

 Intellectual Discourse


 Movies (Expert)

 Renaissance Faires


 Walking (Expert)

 TV News (Expert)




 Buddhism (Beginner)

 Skiing (Beginner)


 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries (Beginner)


 Coffee Shops (Expert)

 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera (Beginner)


 Musical Theater


 Camping (Beginner)


 Martial Arts (Beginner)




 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)


 Political Activism (Beginner)



 Lifestyle BDSM



 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Nineties Music

 Agnosticism (Beginner)


 Body Building


 Horse Racing

 Ice Hockey




 Curious About:





 Garage Sales


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Journal Entries:
12/16/2022 4:13:22 PM


7/26/2022 5:46:52 AM

Camping... I'm such a fan of camping.  I wish I could put up a tent, have wifi,  have a little wood stove, and live somewhere all year.  

I think I'll try camping in the Pacific Northwest  this year.  😍

7/19/2022 4:23:19 AM

When a person shows you who they really are, believe them the first time.  Everyone makes mistakes.  Some people show their true identity in times of relationship tension.  That lack of remorse, the name calling, the failure to mend, the failure to work towards solutions, and the distance, these are all truth telling at its best.  Believe them when they show you who you really are. 

Now, is that the person you wanted to marry/spend your life with?

7/17/2022 5:25:53 AM

It feels nearly impossible some days to find the person who is right for you.  I know its possible.  I know I can find a dom. I know I can find love.  I know I can find an amazing partner. What I can't find is that in one person.  If I say that I need a dom, don't roll up on me not being a dom. I don't need a white knight.  I need a dom. I need a man. I need love and friendship.  WITH A DOMINANT MAN!

12/16/2021 5:43:15 AM

YES!!!  THE JOURNAL IS BACK.  {#emotions_dlg.laughing}

3/22/2016 10:07:41 AM
How can a man expect me to know if I want to be with him or not, if he won't give me the opportunity to spend time with him?   

10/22/2015 2:16:03 PM
Can you write a complete sentence? 

10/7/2015 5:27:44 AM
I cringe every time I hear someone say "firstly" and "secondly".  

9/16/2015 7:08:45 PM
If you don't have time for someone in your life, please don't act like you do.

8/27/2015 6:37:28 PM
I absolutely will not deal with a man who cannot give me the same common courtesy he expects in return. Actions speak louder than words. You really need to back up what you say.

5/11/2015 2:35:41 PM
If you don't even give a fuck to ask me how my day went or how I am...go fuck yourself. There is no time in my day for a self-centered prick.

5/6/2015 9:06:40 PM
WTF is wrong with today's man? Have you all lost your fucking minds?

4/6/2015 4:34:59 PM
I just want a man that fucks me like a $2 whore, make me suck his dick like a $1 whore, and buys me flowers. Is that too much to ask?

3/29/2014 3:37:32 PM, please stop getting so hung up. A typo in a phone number. Its an accident people. Be a little more forgiving.

1/29/2014 8:22:52 AM

You can't make, and keep, a connection with someone if you don't make time for them.  Sometimes, even when you hit it off with another, one of you doesn't have, or make, the time and the connection suddenly fades away.  If you have a connection and want to stay connected, you should really keep up some type of ongoing contact.  

If you make time to be online every day and don't talk to him/her, that seems like a message that you are not interested anymore.  You can't blame the other person for moving on.  :)

10/19/2008 12:57:12 PM

OMG....dinner again! How about a walk in the park? It's more personal, costs less money, AND it's healthy. Save dinner for date 3!

There is nothing less creative than sharing a necessary function with another person and calling it a date. I am growing tired of eating with someone and calling it 1) a date , 2) a way to get to know a person, and 3) a good measure of how you will get along.

There are so many other activities two people can share that will allow them to learn about each other and decide if date number two is possible.

Try a park, museum, the zoo???

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