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CanUBreakThisDom

Male Submissive, 51, Green Bay, Wisconsin
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About CanUBreakThisDom

Are you a Domme? Are you GOOD?

Are you good enough you break this Dom?

Then you are welcome to this challenge.

The reason for posting this profile is very simple

I made a bet with a Domme I am friends with, that a good enough Domme would be able break any male Dominant to her will and make him willingly want to serve her.



Since she chickened out of my challenge why dont you do it to me by using our friendship as a reasonexcuse, we made a bet



I will create an account on CollarMe, and let any Domme who wishes to try and prove her chops to try and break me to her will.

(if the Domme sounds good enough for me to bother wasting time on her).



Here are the parameters of the bet




A bet is won if, at the end of the process described below, I willingly admit that I would like to serve the Domme who stepped up, as a switchsubslave, of my own volition.



It does not matter to the bet if the Domme is interested in my service to her after the bet (but if she succeeds, and is interested, I am likely to make a fun and challenging sub due to my experience as a Dom. *hint* *hint* ).


It does not matter to the bet if I continue remaining Dominant towards other women or not, as long as I wish to serve that specific Domme. In other words, you arent required to turn me into a sub, but merely into a switch. Makes your job easier )



You get a short period of time (lets say, a week of online contact - emails or chats), and then 1 to 3 sessions of 1 hour to 4 hours long.


You are allowed to use any methods you wish, with 3 rules and one piece of advice


No going beyond my hard limits (No scatpissanimalsother menchildrendrugsalcohol no pain or damage or impact to genitals no lasting marks).
No pain to convince me to see things your way. While it is NOT a hard limit, Im not at all turned on by pain (I tried it), and therefore if torturing me with pain just to make me cry uncle and say I submit to escape the pain is the best you can do, I will be guaranteed to NOT be interested in serving you after that.
We play with a safe word. I have no intention of using it beyond situations mentioned in 1 and 2 above.
Advice Dont bother using purely erotic teasing if you say you will be my sub, you will be allowed sexual access to me at my whim. This may work on some sex starved men, but Im not sex starved. So unless you are ively a level better as a lover compared to my sub (and can prove it), you will simply be wasting your own time and mine.


Other than those 4 points, you can use any other means at your disposal bondage, mindgames, mindfucks, roleplay, using your sexuality to seduce me (just dont rely on that as per advice above), verbal humiliation, anything else you can think of.


If you prefer to team up with other Domme(s), that is permitted. Not sure what that buys you, but no reason to deny you that approach.


I am in NYC. Im willing to travel a reasonable distance to you (lets say 1-1.5 hours from NYC by car or public transport)
If you are located in another part of the world, I dont mind you trying online. But Im not traveling beyond reasonable distance unless you are willing to pay airfare.
I dont care where your tries take place as long as I dont have to host (sorry, Im not letting any Domme whos THAT good near my live-in slave)
No Pro Dommes need apply in Pro capacity. I may be willing to facilitate your FinDom kink by paying a symbolic sum. But in all honesty, I dont need my friends sub enough to pay some exorbitant amount so you can tie me up for no discernible fun to myself.




Whats in it for you, aside from the fun of a unique challenge, and of course bragging rights and a sense of righteous satisfaction in your Mad Skillz if you win?



If I can be broken to want to submit, Id make a great sub. I have good personality, successful career and life, care about my Ds partners, and understand submission better than most subs due to my experience as Dom (a good one, I daresay). I simply dont WANT to submit to anyone now.



 

If you are intensely curious, the terms of the bet between the 2 of us are:

  • The bet lasts 6 months unless I lose earlier by admitting I'd like to serve a (any) Domme.
  • If after 6 months from today, no Domme steps up, or none that step up succeed, I win.
  • My friend has a right to ask for another 6 month extension, but must pay for a profile on an alternate site that is more popular than CM (no offense to CM)
  • If I lose, she gets ownership of my sub she was drooling after for months.
  • If my friend loses, I get her sub. And yes, both her and mine subs are great enough that we wouldn't share them even with a friend, and to take a small risk of losing one's sub to get the others' sub.
    • Yes, I'm aware that it can't possibly be a small risk for both of us :) One of us is way wrong. I know it's my friend :)

 

Also, as part of the bet:

  • my friend has full access to this profile. She can read anything (so don't offer me to help me cheat even if I was somehow inclined to do so, which I'm not)\
  • She is allowed to send emails to anyone she thinks would succeed and make her a winner. So if you get a message signed "Lady Amy", that would be from her :)
  • I'm required to proactively seek possible Dommes myself. E.g. if she finds 5 Dommes in a row who look promising (e.g. they respond to her email with indication of interest), but who I haven't bothered contacting; it's considered that I lost the bet.
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