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cantgetenough28

I am well-educated and have a professional degree. In my everday life I am a strong, independent, assertive woman. Which is why I am looking for someone I can be the exact opposite with behind closed doors.

I am NOT looking to be owned, to join a household, or for a 24/7 relationship. My sole desire in life will never be to serve you. I have a life of my own. I am NOT a pornstar. I will not swallow your cum as I have no desire to die young of an STD. Welcome to reality.

I am into pain and humiliation. I love spankings and nipple torture. I like being controlled and degraded, such as with eye contact and speech restrictions, or being made to crawl, eat off the floor, beg, or having to stand in a corner when I'm naughty. I'd like to be tied up and spanked so I can feel helpless, unable to escape or protect my poor ass. I'd like someone who can be both fun and playful, and other times serious and intense.

My belief is that words don't hurt. Indeed, words can add a lot to a feeling of humiliation or powerlessness, which I enjoy. That being said, do NOT refer to yourself as "Daddy." I don't want to sleep with my father any more than you want to sleep with your mother. And if you do want to sleep with your mother, get therapy, it's called an Oedipus Complex.

Safety is a must; hard limits and safewords must be respected. If you mention the word "rape" I will assume you are criminal and I hope you rot in prison. That being said, let's have some fun.

7/23/2013 6:05:30 PM

Need suggestions for how to do my corner time tonight.  Please specify what (if anything) I should be wearing, exactly how I should be positioned (the devil is in the details), time (up to 30 minutes), and any other requirements.  

 

I will respond to your message if your suggestion is accepted and will give a detailed report after it is done.  If I get more than one good suggestion, I will do them over several days.  

 

Suggestions will be rejected if dangerous to my health or completely unrealistic.

 

No, I will not post pictures as proof.  My word is bond.  

 

 

7/20/2013 9:36:29 AM

Humiliation Task:

 

I am a worthless, dumb cunt and I deserve to be punished. I am a dirty, filthy bitch. I am a useless painslut. I am a naughty whore. I am not allowed to cum until I have been sufficiently punished. Therefore, I beg to please be punished. I should be forced to write or type lines until my hands and fingers are aching. I should be forced to paddle my fat ass until it is bright red. I should be forced to wear clamps on my nipples until they are sore and throbbing. I should be forced to stand naked in the corner like a naughty little girl. I should be punished in many different ways until I have learned my lesson and redeemed myself. I beg to be punished severely for being such a worthless, dumb cunt. 

7/7/2013 7:14:28 PM

Found a few website that allow people to create line typing tasks.  A sentence, a number of repetitions, maybe timed.  Extra lines for mistakes.  Attempts at completion can be monitored.  Very excited by this.  Wondering if anyone is familiar with linepunishment or writeforme sites and would like to create tasks for me?  Must be reasonable as far as timing or number of lines.  Degrading sentences are welcome.

7/27/2011 3:59:38 PM

Sending me a message telling me that you disagree with my opinions will not get you a response.  Nor will patronizing me. 

No one is forcing you to read my profile or my journal entries.  If you disagree with me, move on to the next profile.  Don't waste time writing a message that will be promptly deleted. 

 

Have a nice day. 

 

11/22/2009 7:06:17 PM
I can't emphasize this enough - don't even ask me if I'm into "rape play."  There is nothing fun, exciting, or remotely arousing about rape!  If you ever met a woman who had actually been raped, you would realize that mere suggestion of "rape play" is incredibly offensive.  If what you mean is rough sex - then describe it that way.  If you mention "rape play" to me, that will likely be the end of our conversation. 
PS - If you are aroused at the thought of raping a woman, seek therapy immediately. 
8/14/2009 6:58:46 PM
You strip me and tie me face down to the bed.  You begin paddling my ass.  You order me to count each stroke, "One Sir, Two Sir..."  Eventually, i am begging you for mercy.  Instead of mercy, you switch to the cane.  You laugh as i continue begging. 

How badly do i really want you to stop?  You ask me.  You taunt me.  You force me to offer you a trade.  Spare my ass and torture something else instead.  Anything else.  But you want more details.  You want to humiliate me by making me craft my own torture and beg for it.  How much do i really want it?  How far am i willing to go? 
1/17/2009 6:19:29 PM
Had a couple of fun get togethers in the past few months.  Still hoping for some more.  I just loved getting a nice hard spanking that left my poor ass bruised for days to come.  Nothing like sitting on a long train ride to work and feeling just a little sore the entire time.  Then all day at work I have my constant reminder of the naughty games I played; and a secret that no one at the office would dare guess.  It's enough to keep me horny and wet through the whole day.  :) 
8/30/2008 8:43:01 PM
Been away from the site for a little and just returned to a ton of messages.  I wish more people would do the courtesy of sending a pic; especially since I have one posted for the world to see.  Fair is fair.
Of course, I always find myself wondering about the possibility of stumbling onto a familiar but unexecpted face on a site like this.  Running into that shy quiet person from the back of my old high school english class.  Imagining them equally shocked to find me here.  People I know in my vanilla life are often surprised when they learn the type of music I listen to.  Imagine the response if they learned about this side of me.  :) 
3/2/2008 7:31:30 PM
Wow, finding the right dom has turned out to be a harder task than expected.  Some suggestions if you are thinking of contacting me:
If you are old enough to be my father - don't bother.
If you are living more than a car ride away - don't bother. 
If you are looking for a slave to add to your household - don't bother. 
If you are just looking for someone to send you dirty pictures - don't bother.

I'm not judging, mind you.  I'm just trying to save us both the trouble by letting you know now that those things don't interest me.  But I wish you the best of luck in your hunting. 
1/28/2008 2:39:20 PM
Good grief, why is finding the right person so difficult?  Did the women's lib movement really confuse men that much?  We don't all want a sensitive, touchy-feely, paternal guy.  Some of us want a real man.  A man who is afraid to cry unless a relative just died.  A man who won't ask if I'm okay every five seconds.  I am a woman of the 21st century; if I'm not okay with something, trust me, I'll let you know.  My feelings aren't easily hurt; but I am easily bored.  I don't want to spend half an hour discussing my feelings with you.  I have girlfriends for that.  Are there no true sadists left? 
DarkMisstress
 
 Age: 38
 Port Orchard, Washington