Every subs first experience with me is different and is based on the questionnaire answers. They may seem similar but they write the stories based on what they remember most.

Daddy warned me that the hardest part for me would be taking the steps from my car to his door. I kept my mind a blank as I approached the doorway leading to my first session and the discovery of what it was truly like to be treated as a submissive.

His voice on the phone guided me from the complex gate to his doorstep. I walked into a very manly-decorated room with a bar, couch and lots of pictures, which was almost a relief for my increasing nervousness. While still on the phone with him, Daddy instructed me to remove all my clothes and place them neatly folded on the sofa. I hung up and set my phone down and did exactly as he instructed with more efficiency than if I had stripped at my doctor's office. From the beginning, I sensed that he would not tolerate delays in my responses. Once naked, I placed the blindfold he provided over my eyes and sat in the wooden chair in the middle of the room. I couldn't help fidgeting with my fingers and toes as I heard him open a door and walk into the room where I was sitting vulnerable, naked, and nervous. 

We had some small talk and I asked him if I could pee. He laughed and even though he was not happy I had not stopped before and gone he agreed to let me. I held out my hands for him to guide me through another room to use the bathroom...with him standing in front of me. I squashed down the embarrassment, peed and stumbled to wash my hands. I then followed his guidance to the middle of another room I guess was the living room. There he told me to hold my arms above my head and remain like that. When asked how I was doing a few moments later, I said that my shoulders felt sore. He never gave me permission to lower them, eventually he asked again and I told him it was starting to hurt. Daddy told me that I could lower my arms if I asked permission which I did with relief. Daddy said that was my first lesson, never be afraid to ask for what you need. He taught me a few of the basic positions a sub should know. I especially liked the position called "display" where I knelt on my elbows and knees and spread my thighs apart as far as they would go without collapsing.  With my ass in the air and pussy on display, I imagined that Daddy or any of his visitors could explore any hole they wished with his permission.

When we went to another area, he had me draped across (face down) a device that felt like a pommel horse or a short massage table. He then connected my arms and feet to the floor with some chain links. I should have felt uneasy at the indignity of lying on this contraption with my legs spread and chained, but I was already aroused from practicing the positions and eager to have Daddy do vile things to my body. I cannot remember what came first: my punishment for failing to follow his instructions during the past couple of weeks or the exploration of my pussy and ass. The punishment consisted of 100 smacks on my bare butt, sometimes with his hand and sometimes with paddles and such. I had to ask him to slow down a few times. The fear of not being able to tolerate the discomfort was as hard to bear as the actual stings from the spanking. I usually adore a soft spanking though I don’t think I like the punishment variety.

After counting out the 100th smack on ass, I felt his finger firmly wiggling inside my pussy, which was wet from the spanking. Daddy made me cum twice by rubbing my g-spot. The first one took me so much by surprise that I had to scramble to ask permission to cum. There was something about how he easily found and rubbed a certain spot inside me that made me crazy. I imagine he is capable of doing this with all his subs. Then he pushed anal beads in my asshole, which made me feel uncomfortably full then became increasingly pleasurable. I thought about asking Daddy to do that to me again but then he said I had pooped a little and I was so mortified I wanted to die!

After cleaning up, next came a very embarrassing episode of being forced to dance, after I dragged my feet for several moments and begging to not have to he raised his voice and said we would sit her the rest of the time until I did. I asked to touch him so that I wouldn't feel so isolated, the warmth of touching his leg made me feel much better. Finally I just pushed myself to do my best awkward gyrating Erkel in the middle of the room. He then asked me if I was strong enough to hold up my own weight. I told him that I couldn't even do pull ups to discourage any thought of having me do gymnastic feats. The next couple of surprises were much more fun. I clambered up his lap and straddled his shoulders so that I was facing the frame on his wall and my pussy was right in his face. He tongue fucked me the way I craved: pushing his tongue into my slick dripping hole and sometimes sucking my clit. After climaxing, I slid on wobbly legs to the floor where I flopped on my back and hoped to rest for a while. Daddy quickly came back from the fridge (from what I could hear) and handed me an ice dildo, which he wanted me to use to make myself cum at least once before it melted. I was still a little aroused from him eating me out so it didn't take me long to cum again and again with the icy dildo in my pussy. Since there was still plenty of it left, he had me put it in my mouth and then my ass. I went crazy with the intense pleasure from the hard, full sensation in my asshole. At one point, I begged Daddy to help me push the dildo harder into my ass. I was made to eat the little piece that were left after I had what I can only describe as bordering on an anal orgasm.

The second punishment took place in his bedroom. Daddy instructed me to stand facing the wall and chained my wrists above my head. He flogged me for procrastinating in following his orders. He placed a doggy chew toy in my mouth, then with each strike of the flogger I felt like melting into the wall. I teared up a bit but did not cry. After the punishment he held me in his arms Daddy allowed me to rest on his bed and then chained me to it and started to tickle my feet, legs, even my hips that was a bizarrely ticklish area for me. We French kissed which he does really well while he tickled me. 

One of my favorite experiences that night was when he put suction cups on my nipples and pussy. The pressure from the vacuum was uncomfortably intense till I relaxed and started to enjoy the suction on my pussy. When Daddy pulled the vacuum from my pussy and put the vibe on my swollen clit... I've never climaxed so much at one time till I panicked from the intensity and begged him to stop. Before the evening ended, he unchained me lay down on the bed and told me to suck his cock. I knelt by his side and tried to focus on sucking him while he wiggled his fingers in my pussy. My jaw started to hurt and I was afraid I was going to have to stop when he came in my mouth, I struggled to catch all of it and some of it dribbled down my chin and onto his leg. We snuggled on his bed and chatted as though we had done this several times before today. I don’t know why but I feel very comfortable with him

After I used the restroom and washed the toys per Daddy’s instructions, I got dressed (he had brought me my clothes), and followed him back to the room where it all started, still blindfolded. He sat me back down on the wooden chair. “Be good,” he told me, kissed me and left the room. I took off the ankle cuffs I had forgotten about and blindfold and headed back to my car and routine life. I’m so glad that I didn’t let nervousness and fear keep me from experiencing this amazing exploration.

Dom note: Even though many of my subs are much younger than I am, this sub while calling me Daddy is only 2 years younger than I am. Proving every one of all ages can enjoy different things

This is the story of my first session with my Dom who I met online. It started off with us having a little over a week of conversation via email and talking via text and on the phone. Normally Sir takes at least two weeks to get to know his potential subs but I have a very unique situation and Sir was kind enough to speed things up for me. On the day we were to finally meet I had to take the bus to him as I do not drive. Even though Sir is not that far away the bus ride took over 2 hours and gave me plenty of time to think about what I was about to do. My sister told me that what Sir requested of me (not meeting first) was wrong but after talking to him I felt nervous but not scared. I got to his house around 9pm, I was a few minutes late but I was told that was OK because I couldn’t control the bus schedule. As I was walking up to his front door I was going through so many emotions, knowing I would be blindfolded through the whole session was a little unnerving. As I walked into an almost pitch-black room, he told me to sit on the chair in the middle of the room and put the blindfold on. I was having a little bit of trouble keeping the blindfold on, I couldn’t figure out how to tighten it which became somewhat comical, so Sir kindly helped me adjust it. My heart was pounding and then Sir came from behind me and placed his hand over my chest, which was very comforting as we talked and went over the rules. I was only to speak unless spoken too unless I had a question then I was to ask it properly. I was never to say No but was free to use my safe word if I felt I wanted to quit or “yellow” if I was in some sort of unbearable pain, key word being unbearable. I was starting to feel more relaxed and content like it had been when we talked over the phone. Sir has this way about him, very strong and intense and always making you feel safe and better about yourself and whatever situation you are in, just listening to his voice can make all your cares drift away. After we talked for a little bit and my heart stopped pounding so hard, he grabbed my hands and led me to another room in his house where he then started taking pictures and this was also the first time he recorded me. He asked me my full name and why I was there if I understood that I was going to be punished and that if things went well that all my curiosities about being a sub would be answered. Sir then slowly undressed me and whispered things in my ear that made my pussy drip with desire. He lightly touched my tiny nipples, which sent shock waves through my body, and before I knew what was happening he was kissing me and I thought I might faint there was so much emotion. Sir led me again to another room where I was tied up to some kind of bench or table. He explained to me I was going to get part of my punishment for the many things I had failed to do on during the time leading up to out first meeting, things like not sending the requested pictures, not calling at certain times, failing to say Sir, not reading certain required things etc. Sir is a very educated man and he does not like excuses or apologies. If you fail to do something don’t say you are sorry just explain why you didn’t finish on time and explain when you will finish and hope that the punishment won’t be too severe. I made mistakes and now I was going to suffer the consequences. I was lying there on my stomach naked and cold strapped down and I was told I was to receive 100 swats with his hand.  Every time his hand came in contact with my butt I was to count out loud the number of how many I had already received. It hurt but was also very sexual, as he was spanking me he was telling me that I was going to learn to be a good sub and then I wouldn’t get such harsh punishments, he would grab my hair and pull my head back as he spanked me and I was so confused because I was so turned on but it was also starting to sting all the while my pussy was throbbing, I think I am a bit of a masochist! After the punishment was over and my ass was still stinging he started touching the area around my pussy as I was still tied down, his fingers slowly started spreading my lips and he gently slid them inside… I was in heaven on earth. He uses his body parts very well, it started with one finger and then I think ended with three being pressed against my G spot (I didn’t know what that was while he was doing it) I kept thinking I was going to pee and begging him to stop but he promised me I wasn’t going to and even if I did it would be ok. I don’t know what he did but he made me squirt for the first time ever in my life J!  As I collapsed on the bench from the pleasure he slowly started rubbing my ass and before I knew what was happening he slid in ass beads.  Sir then slid what he later told me was a dildo into my pussy, which was not an ordinary dildo (you just have to experience it). Between that and the beads and Sirs dexterity I came again. I have never had more than one orgasm in a night in my life and here we were not more than an hour or so into this session and I already had a squirting multiple orgasm and a double penetration one! I was unhooked from the bench and made to dance in I believe the living room. They were both country songs, which Sir had downloaded for me because he knew I was a fan of that kind of music. When the songs finished and I was completely embarrassed because I can’t dance he laid me on the floor and we began to kiss passionately. He then showed me a few of the positions I would be learning if I choose to continue as his sub after some explanation about it and more about the rules he had been having me read Sir left the room and came back with something from the kitchen he had me masturbate for him with an ice dildo and when I came I was to eat it what was left. He told me if I didn’t cum before it all melted I couldn’t have any more orgasms that night. While I was masturbating Sir was pinching my nipples and putting nipple clamps on as well as kissing my neck. Sir loves to make out and lucky for me he seems to know how to kiss pretty well. After I came from the ice dildo and had a little pussy popsicle from what was left, we relaxed for a minute I was led to another part of his house, where I was chained to the wall to receive a flogging. Again I was to count to 100 out loud as he flogged my upper back and with a different flog, my butt. I knew I had been a bad girl and because I felt I had let Sir down I was crying. He unchained me when we finished and I sobbed as he held me in his arms and told me it was going to be OK.  Sir then took me to the bathroom and told me to shower and to clean the toys we had used so far that night as well as make sure the bathroom was spotless. Not even five minutes later he returned to the bathroom with my cell phone, my sister, who was freaking out and worried wanted to know I was ok even though I had already spoken to her before she kept calling and texting like a lunatic. I got on the phone while I was in the shower with shampoo in my hair and blindfolded again, trying to calm her down and assure her I was ok.  She kept saying she was going to call the police and I could tell Sir was getting angry and wondering if I was worth the trouble. After I hung up with her after promising to call our mother at 5am (I am in my early 20’s and I get treated like a child) I finished my shower and then cleaned everything up, and called my mother I was taken to his room and laid down on the bed and we started to make out, I was shivering because his room was so cold and I think he liked my nipples were so hard. As Sir started to play with my pussy again by pushing my legs back behind my ears very forcibly and began to finger fuck me hard and tell me what a dirty little slut I was, he started to eat my pussy and I think I came once or twice more. Eventually Sir grabbed me by the back of my head and forced it between his legs, as I started to suck his cock he kept pushing down until I was doing it to his liking and then he relaxed and let me take over, I enjoyed licking his balls and shaft, but he had a lot of pre-cum and it was weird how slippery he was. As Sir was about to cum I knew I wouldn’t be able to swallow it all. But he tricked me and he didn’t scream he was cumming so I swallowed most of it before I realized he had cum, it didn’t taste bad I am just not very good with bodily fluids. Then it was time for bed and because I had done so well, Sir let me sleep on the bed with him. I love to cuddle so I became what Sir calls a spider monkey because I completely wrapped myself around him, I wanted to fuck him but Sir said no because it would be to intense for me to handle for the first session and because I wasn’t on the pill. I was happy he still let me cuddle with him. Before we fell asleep Sir allowed me to take off the blindfold and look at him, I was so happy to see his beautiful eyes and smile. J Sir gave me more kisses and we fell asleep cuddling.  The next morning I had woken up to my sister blowing up my phone because she was already in front of his place wanting to pick me up. With Sirs permission I got dressed and actually spent a few minutes admiring the marks Sir had left on my ass. Sir then walked me to the front door and we kissed good-bye for a few minutes.

 My first session with Sir was something one can only experience in order to feel all the different emotions I can’t put it all into words. Good and bad, but mainly good, Sir is completely in control and very loving. I will never have another first session and I am glad I choose Sir. I look forward to another session; I am hoping he want’s to continue with me.

At this time I will tell you my photograph and video policy. Any pictures or video of yourself with nudity or expressed nudity in them that are taken by me or you give to me will only ever be seen by myself or you from the day they are taken till the day I die unless you give express consent to allow them to be seen by others. (example, you want a girlfriend to see them) All my pictures and video are kept on a private server only I have access to. If I do not enter a password once every 7 day the pictures, all that I have will slowly be destroyed within 24 hours. So even upon my death in 60 years etc. no one but myself will ever see them.

I do this because I am what one might be called a picture whore. I love photography in it's many shapes and forms and I value the trust placed with me by those that I take pictures of or am given pictures of. To lose that trust is like loosing life itself as my belief is that if I were to ever slip up and casually show someone another persons picture that that person would somehow find out and then everyone would know and I would not be allowed to do what I enjoy.

Bottom line. Anything I have of you containing nudity or implied nudity is safe with me forever. So feel safe.
Please also understand that if you send me items that you took and are giving them out to everyone I can gaurentee what you sent me won't be sent out by me or shown to anyone else by me but I cannot speak for the other people you sent it to. Hence why I ask anything you take for me you delete once I have gotten it.

The Dom/sub relationship is a complex one requiring a serious commitment to honest and open communication, and the practice of learned responsibilities for the care and protection of each person’s well being, psychological, physical, sexual, social, and emotional health. You can protect both you and your Dom’s participation through the use of selected safe words (like ‘yellow’) and gestures (such as tight hand holds, wiggling of a limb, or opening of a hand). Don’t ever be afraid to use them or think that you are not supposed to - especially if you are in your first experience. Expect to be tested by your Dom so that you are made aware of your limitations for your sake and his.
There is allot to learn, to develop and to discover in this type of lifestyle: its traditions, customs, fashion, speech, etiquette, play, and practices which may include bondage, discipline, punishment, guidance, surrender, control, pain, aftercare, sensation, sensuality, sexuality, spiritualism, respect, warmth, passion and love. It is recommended that each person learns as much as they can throughout whatever avenues are available (never being afraid to ask about anything you are even the slightest bit curious or concerned about): similarly interested friends, presenters and experts you get a chance to meet, books and magazines on related subjects including those who are against the lifestyle, groups in your area who offer educational classes, play parties, and conferences, any related fictional books of erotica and fantasy, academic books on theatre, scene play and props, Internet websites and FAQ’s (frequently asked questions), first-aid classes, fetish fashion outlets and those who carry leather, BDSM toys and tools of the lifestyle. Failure to learn the proper use of the toys and tools of the lifestyle can result in serious injury - so be careful.
Each rule involves a multitude of meanings and different styles for unique and personal application. Work with them. Read each one, ponder the possibilities, look seriously at the images they create inside you and allow what you feel from each one to come into full bloom, get away from them, and then come back and work on them again until you have put together the ones that will become your mindset from which to live by, to seek out the Dom you crave to serve and to please and to love, or to become stronger and more committed to the one that you have and with whom to share of yourself through your creative application of them.
Consider these rules a part of, what will become your crash course about the Dom/sub relationship and lifestyle, but realize they are not conclusive, nor the only way to enter and to experience it, for there is more to learn then from the rules that are listed here.
Begin slowly and trust of each other’s responsibilities, knowledge and skills towards the level of control and the ensubment you crave. Spend time communicating and negotiating your first few sessions with your Dom and especially before you commit yourself to a shared lifestyle. Take the time to experience trial periods of commitment to a Dom: a weekend, a week, a month, and a few months. Always have time periods where you can drop out of submission, as if a third person, to discuss what is occurring between you and your Dom and how to move forward in meeting each other’s needs. Know that you can always leave - for no sub should live in a lifestyle out of fear for one’s life. The best of Dom’s will have an open door, unless you, by Him, is seen as one who is no longer wanted as his sub
Consider tests for blood and sexually transmitted diseases should you engage in usage where blood, urine and semen will be sexually or orally exchanged.
Engage in your role-play or lifestyle safely. Your life may depend on these tests and practices. Don’t be afraid to speak to your doctor, clinic or hospital about your need for these tests or about the results of your play from which you may suffer - they’ve seen and heard more than you might imagine. Keep in mind that what you communicate with your doctor is confidential (unless you live in those states where marks on your body may be mistaken for the results of acts of Domestic violence), and that the more you can communicate about what you have received - the better of care they will be able to provide you. You do not have to explain exactly why the tests are necessary - just that you and a partner will be engaging in sex where you feel such tests are necessary for your safety.
It is highly recommended that the use of drugs including alcohol not be used during any part of a Dom/sub relationship or at play parties where activity requires careful and well thought out planning and execution such as in bondage, being pierced, punished, disciplined,
Keep a journal for yourself to work through what you are feeling as you progress towards and through the relationship you want and are in. Don’t be afraid to hear yourself through your writing. Let it flow like the freedom you feel when you are in your sub space. Share only what you wish or what you are allowed. Expect to receive assignments on what you experience so that you both learn what to work on and how to progress. Don’t be afraid to share your journal with your Dom, but do ask if you can have a private one should you want it.
Select a place in a household where you feel comfortable in a kneeling position while nude. The kneeling position should be performed as follows:
Kneel attentively, toes curled forward, ankles touching or at least as close together as possible, thighs touching, hands placed on top of the thighs with palms down and fingers spread apart, the inside of your arms pushing your breasts towards the middle of the chest with breasts in front of the arms, the back arched to push the breasts forward and to give the torso good curvature. If this position is difficult for you to achieve, then select a nude position of your choosing whereby you feel a sense of submission as if honorable to be in such a position whereby your form, as if secretly displayed, could induce the touch of a Dom’s eyes upon you and gain the envy of those females who may be present.
Place the rules at a level where you can read them without having to change your position.
Remain in your position for a few minutes and then begin reading the rules out loud in a kind of held back tone as if to do so quietly in a confessional manner. Try not to resist what you are feeling and let your thoughts run wild.
Spend several weeks reading the rules, at least once a day, in this manner.
Read each rule out loud, in whole or in part. Work with it until you find you can identify with
Keep in the mind the rules are not in any particular order. This is done on purpose since a sub must be able to adapt her behavior and creative spirit to fit the surprises, changes, and challenges that will occur in the lifestyle she has with her Dom.
Remember: you are not required to memorize them word for word, but you will be expected to know of their context when questioned by your Dom. A hesitant response or an incorrect one could get you disciplined in part for not remembering, but more for not staying focused on how you are to behave. After you have been disciplined the correct and acceptable response in reference to the rule should be told to you so that you will remember it the next time.
It is strongly suggested that you, with his permission, read the rules in an acceptable position, nude, at least once a day. Failure to do so without an acceptable cause or reason and you are likely to get punished upon your next meeting with your Dom.
You may record the rules for playback for use any place where you need to hear them.

Basic sub Rules

1. I will serve, worship. obey and please my Dom in any way he requests it.

2. Above all else my primary focus shall be to please my Dom, hoping that he finds me pleasing in all that I do, whether I am in his presence or not. My Dom knows of my potential, learning more about me in each day I am with Him. He trusts that I will act in accordance with what he perceives of my potential - he knows what is best for me and how important it is that I set a good example for other females who may be present around me.

3. To receive pleasure I must earn it.

4. I trust my Dom: his responsibilities, his skills, his hunger and needs, and his concern for my safety, my emotional, psychological, social, sexual, and physical health.

5. I will ask my Dom for permission to satisfy whatever sexual need I have before acting on it.

6. My body and mind belong to my Dom.

7. I must always give thanks to my Dom for all I am given immediately after receiving what he has given me, for such things are gifts or privileges granted to me by Him.

8. I must be both specific and explicit in my speech.

9. I will not say I am sorry for mistakes I make instead I will correct them to the best of my ability and make sure they do not happen again.

10. I will not hesitate when responding to my Dom. my focus is important to my growth.

11. I will thank my Dom for the discipline and punishments I receive, specifying what I received and expressing the reason as to why I was given them.

12. I am always in submission to my Dom whether he is present or not, ready to please Him at anytime, in any place, under any circumstances, regardless of who may be present. For the opportunity to submit and to please is by far more important and satisfying than any other pursuit. I trust my Dom will keep me safe, protecting his reputation and mine in the presence of others, as he examines my ability to present myself to Him and to others in a subtle manner when required to protect our lifestyle from those who may not understand, nor support, as long as our behavior is not in anyway misrepresented nor misinterpreted by those who may be afar. I am to set, once again, a good example, ready to explain my position to others when required to do so. My lifestyle is a part of a growing culture for which I must never forget that I am an integral part.

13. All my choices shall be based upon whether or not they will please my Dom.

14. When I am not in the presence of my Dom and I have choices to make - I will perform them to the best of my abilities and within the boundaries and guidance he has allowed me.

15. I shall wear the Jewelry my Dom gives me with pride for it signifies my devotion to Him.

16. When the cock of my Dom is put into my cunt and I am directed to suck it - I will do so vigorously as long as I am required to do so. My hands shall be placed on the tops of my thighs, behind my neck or held at the base of my back so that during the sucking I can use my whole body to display my hunger to my Dom.

17. My Dom’s cum must never go to waste. In rare and privileged cases I may wear my Dom’s cum on my body, sometimes after massaging it into my skin. Cum is a gift from my Dom and it is an honor to receive it. The eating of my Dom’s cum will sometimes be counted as one of my meals for that day.

18. My head will be bowed and I will not look into my Dom’s eyes unless requested to do so.

19. I must wear clothing that is pleasing to my Dom based on the activity in which we are engaging.

20. When I remove clothing from my body it must be folded neatly and placed where my Dom requests it.

21. I shall be naked in front of my Dom unless he requests otherwise.

22. My entire body except for the hair on my head must be kept completely shaved or waxed smooth and clean so that nothing of me is hidden from view. Unless my Dom chooses for me to have hair in certain places.

23. I must never cut the hair on my head without my Dom’s permission.

24. My pussy and ass must be thoroughly washed and of a good aroma at all times, but especially before serving my Dom.

25. When in the presence of my Dom, and not doing a task he has requested, pleasuring him or on free time I will go to the place he has selected until he needs me. I will remain in the position he has chosen for me.

26. There can be no greater suffering I can feel then when my Dom is not pleased with me.
27. Whenever Dom speaks, even when I am speaking, I am to immediately become silent so I may be able to listen intensely to what he has to say. I must never interrupt Him unless he has shown me how to communicate with Him, if I need to. I must ask first for his permission to speak.

28. The opportunity to please my Dom is very important to me and I will take every chance to seek out such opportunities to do so to the best of my abilities and in accordance to how I have been taught or allowed to do so.

29. I choose willingly to be with my Dom.

30. I am my Dom’s greatest treasure

31. I will learn all the positions my Dom wants to teach me to the best of my abilities and will be prepared to take such positions when required and to display myself in a manner through them that he, and others who may be present, will find most pleasing.

32. I must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Dom. Such pleasure must be seen as a privilege so that I do not take advantage of it.

33. The safe word chosen by me can be spoken at any time. . If I am not able to verbalize it - I trust my Dom will show me how I can express it. Safe words are for my protection as well as his.

34. I must confess to my Dom when I have been naughty so that he may decide if such violations require me to be disciplined.

35. I must tell my Dom if I have had an orgasm without his permission.

36. My Dom cares for me and will respect my limits until we have both chosen to move beyond them.

37. I will endure whatever discipline my Dom gives me so I can become a better sub for Him.

38. I will never touch my breasts, nipples, pussy or clit with my hands or sex toys in any manner where I could experience sexual or sensual pleasure without permission.

39. I must never show disrespect towards my Dom in any way – no matter where I am - in his presence or not.

40. The needs of my Dom must always come first before my own.

41. I am allowed to suggest ways to further my training.

42. I must always respond fully both physically and verbally to whatever my Dom does with me, unless restricted to do so.

43. The only clothing I will buy and wear will be those items, which are befitting of my place. I will never wear clothing that would embarrass my Dom or myself.

44. I may, at times, offer various parts of my body to my Dom in hopes he will take pleasure in using them in whatever ways he wishes.

45. It is important for me to eat plenty of carbohydrates, proteins and vitamins in the foods and fluids I am permitted to choose to nourish my body and mind, and to exercise my body regularly, as permitted by my Dom, to increase my physical strength, to keep my limbs as flexible as possible, and to maintain or improve my figure so I may be able to endure my Dom’s use of me however intense and for however long a period is required by Him. I want to be of a healthy and sound mind and body, free as possible of any personal limitations, when pleasing my Dom.

46. I will remove my clothing immediately after entering the household.

47. I will always sleep nude - kneeling first before I enter my bed and kneeling first as soon as I get out of my bed - for it is a great privilege to have a bed to sleep on.
48.
I must never tighten my body when being punished or receiving pain.

49. I will always listen with a strong interest in whatever my Dom has to say during my training.

50. When I take a shower I can do so the way I like to, but when I have finished washing I must rinse my entire body with only cold water for not less than 1 full minute. I am not to try to cover my body with my arms and hands thereafter. I may use a towel to dry off, but in my Dom’s house - only he shall be allowed to dry me unless he allows otherwise.

51. When I walk, run, sit, stand, kneel, reach out, speak, or listen - I will do so in an attentive manner, and with confidence and pride hoping other females around me will feel my projection upon them, that my performance is found admirable, that they would seek to emulate me without any of their insecurities or self-conscious thoughts holding them back. I want to set the best example of proper female behavior.

52. When standing still I shall do so with my feet and legs together, my hands held behind my back and my head bowed down. I will remain silent in the way Dom has taught me.

53. I shall proudly wear his mark of ownership upon me wherever he chooses to place it.

54. When sitting I shall sit up straight with my legs together and my palms down on the top of my thighs.

55. I will not speak to others without my Dom’s permission except to say to them that they will have to speak to my Dom first. This is especially important at play parties.

56. I shall when being punished count off the strikes against my flesh.

57. Privacy is a privilege - even to have it when I need to use the bathroom. I must ask for it and accept my Dom’s decision even when I am denied of it.

58. As a sub I shall assist my Dom in the setting of a scene.

59. As a sub I shall offer parts of my body to those elected by my Dom for their pleasure. I will also offer myself to those who wish to use me for a demonstration or to experiment on.

60. As a sub I shall perform chores about my Dom’s house as requested asking for details on how he would specifically like it done.

61. When I have been given permission to play with myself I shall do so however my Dom instructs me. I will play with myself in this manner even not in his presence.

62. I will periodically examine my whole life and look for how it has changed as a result of my relationship to my Dom. I will speak to my Dom about those areas where there have been improvements and those areas where I feel uncomfortable, insecure, or unsure of what direction I should take, how I should behave, or how I can behave in a manner that is different than how I have been behaving in the past.

63. I will not be passive in serving my Dom. I will aggressively participate in my exchange with Him.

64. I will not date others, form a relationship with others or engage in sexual activities with others without my Dom’s permission.

65. The money I earn, should I be allowed a career, or put to work, where I am paid for my responsibilities, is mine to keep. However, I can and will ask my Dom how I should spend or save it first. I may present ways to Him for his approval. I will accept the responsibilities he gives me in the handling of my finances. It is important to my Dom that I learn to handle money wisely so, if needed; I can reach my goals or be ready for any emergency where finances may be required for resolution.

66. I will wash and take care of any sex toys my Dom uses.

67. I will never wear thongs as I know my Dom hates them.

68. I shall make sure I am always on some kind of birth control.

69. I understand my Dom has the final say.