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canedreamer

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Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience it is all about relationships of love and respect. - Wm. Paul Young

I love receiving impact play for any and every reason I can think of. Whether its for his enjoyment, my enjoyment, stress release, or punishment for real life offenses, I crave it all. I thrive from structure and discipline and Im looking for a Dominant interested in giving just that.

Its easy to take your clothes off in front of somebody and let them play with you, maybe even dominate you, but Im looking for somebody that I can bare my soul to. I fully believe that the Domsub relationship is a two way street. The Dom has to be just as willing to bare his soul and trust his submissive just as she has to be willing to bare her soul and trust him. Its not all about one or the other, its about both and the journey they walk together. Of course, theres so much more to it than that but Id rather not turn this into an essay.

I dont believe that impact play should be limited to the butt and Ive never found a part of my body that I dont like being hit (within reason of course, Im pretty sure I wont like being hit in the head). Whether Im over your knee for a beating, touching my toes for 12 of the best, or leaning against the wall for the bath brush, Im happiest when Im receiving impact play. I do prefer harder impact play. If I dont feel it the next day, or have marks to show, then you didnt do your job right, in my opinion. -)

Also, I am a smart ass and speak fluent sarcasm. Of course, this doesnt usually end well for my butt but some lessons are worth learning over and over again.