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Female Submissive, 45, upstate, South Carolina
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Male Submissive, 55, Greenwood, South Carolina
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Female Submissive, 38, Tampa, Florida
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About Candy11333
Interpersonal Hierarchy Expectation
Every sub has basis criteria that she feels a Dominant should possess and early on in the relationship she bases a person's position in their dynamic solely on perception and the limited information they have about the Dominant. In order for the sub continue to perceive that person as Dominant, He must be able to continue to perform up to the sub's expectation of what it means to be Dominant (sexually, physically, mentally, morally. Spiritually, financially, etc.)
Often it is hard for Alphas to find companionship because so many Dominants can't or don't want to be under the kind of constant pressure that relationships with an Alpha sub entails.
Dominance .. Having or striving for control or influence over another and (or) as having privileged access to restricted resources. The Alpha "sub" has a very high self worth and feels that granting access to her resources is a privilege for those that are worthy and not a right by title.
This is why some Dominants respect, long for and require this very rare commodity.
There are those who appreciate the challenge that is an "Alpha" woman because the "challenge" keeps them on their toes, keeps them sharpening up their game and keeps then motivated to be better. When you are discontent with mediocrity and want the best out of life, you are likely going to seek a partner who encouraged that and pushed you towards greatness. What better woman to do that than a woman on a similar path and track as you?
Don't dismiss her as being hard to deal with because clearly many of us are not capable of submission, but we seek it and crave it |
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