| |
|
|
Home |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Live |
|
|
|
|
Join |
|
Collarspace |
|
|
|
|
Dating |
|
|
|
|
News |
|
|
|
|
Glossary |
|
|
|
|
Mobile |
|
|
|
|
Alt |
|
|
|
|
Safety |
|
|
|
|
Toys |
|
|
|
|
Live BDSM |
|
|
|
|
Resources |
|
|
|
|
Welcome |
|
| |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Login |
|
|
 |
|
 |
|
|
|
|
Female Submissive, 41, All over, Nevada
|
Female Submissive, 49, Zanesville, Ohio
|
Female Submissive, 37, portage, Michigan
| | |
|
| Back |
| KPM |
| Directory |
| Interests |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
About CandlesNChains
There is who you are, then there is who you think you ought to be. The two are not static and anyone who tries to hold onto something that has run its course is not authentic or genuine, but someone who refuses to adapt or learn.
When I was younger, I could see both clearly and even keep them separated. I knew exactly how women needed to feel, what they needed to hear, and also what I needed to feel and hear from them. My aim was always to enter their inner core, to build as deep a connection as they allowed while keeping it as light for the both of us as I could. But I also let them dress up in whatever color they thought they ought to be. If she was a domme but I was topping her, I let her play that role. If she was a submissive, but I needed to adore her, I let her play that role. I am sure they knew it, they were likely more perceptive than I was, but they played along in an unwritten agreement
As I grew older, I can no longer do that. Understand the two, sure, understand they are always changing, sure
|
|
|
|
|
Male Dominant, 50, West Palm Beach, Florida
|
Female Submissive, 45, upstate, South Carolina
|
Male Submissive, 24, new delhi
|
Male Dominant, 35, Alberta
| | |
Male Dominant, 41, B.C
|
Male Dominant, 40, Taejeon
|
Male Submissive, 55, Greenwood, South Carolina
|
Male Dominant, 40, Houston, Texas
| | |
Male Switch, 34, ontario, muskoka
|
Male Switch, 60, nova scotia
|
Male Submissive, 42, fenton, Missouri
|
Female Switch, 21, Alberta
| | |
|
|
|
|
