CandleInTheWind


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	About CandleInTheWind at present I am not looking for anyone to play with. I am here strictly for the profiles and although my profile continues to be here do mot mistake it for a want ad...i have decided to take a break fromm actively playing and decided to concentrate upon my health and emotional well being... am mearly dating vanilla men and those that catch my ad when i am out and about...Good luck to those of you still looking... I MUST BREAK YOUR HEART.......I AM NOW MARRIED...................and as such am no longer looking for a partner in crime or a play partner at this time. I feel as a newly wed it is extremely important to prioritise my relationship with my husband. The found tation must be created....and there for the foundation is being built! I pitty the man as a I am a vivacious Red Head (are there any other kind?). I am very married, I am a sweet, kind, conciderate, and loving submissive LADY. I am one of the rare people that actually knows what make me happiest. I am a 2 time survivor of breast cancer and have recently celebrated the seventh year of remission. If you are intersted in being friends or have any innocent questions/ or need some advice, please drop me a note and i will get back to you. Please tell me about yourself if you haven't written a profile that tells me about you. Have a great day little red

It has been quite some time since i have written in my journal...and quite alot of things have happened since then...

I met Mr Big in the fall of 2007 on a Poker run., I was on my very first poker run (on my very first bike...a 250 rebel....becasue i am a rebel with a cause after all...) and we were friends for quite some time.....he didnt realize that we were really dating, whne a guy asks out a girl repeatedly over a 4 month period and they spend 3-4 evening a week together...i would think they are dating, BUT YOU KNOW MEN!!!

anyhow MR big proposed I said yes...and then the fun began.... tormented wedding plans (tormented due tot he existance of a nusance of an exhusband) but the wedding took off without a hitch, except for the fact that the giggles started the day of the rehersal and didnt stop until i woke up the day afte rthe wedding....

so here it it nearly a year later...and we are both still alive....so maybe it wasa good idea???

it is my hope that you have all been having a great and safe life!

best wishes to you all!

little red

greetings again...I continue to be recovering from my car accident...although i am making strides and im doing a bit better each day i am still not 100% head injuries take time i am told or so i think i was told (its a joke)

I wish you all well in your searches i am not actively searching at the present time due to my physical limitations...

Greetings to you all..;

recovery continues, the right knee is pretty much back to where it was. the ribs are all healed as far as the oral surgeon is concerned the jaw is back to normal (but i am supposed to be careful for the next few months anyhow), My left knee continues to give me greif and angst...Im supposed to start bike lessons in a week and well as all of you who ride know the left knee is the important one!!!

well the scar on my face has essentially healed and faded and is nearly undetectable on th eoutside of course the darned thing had to rope on the inside!! so depending on what is what in the next few months i may be having additional surgery on that to remove the extra tissue that grew from the injured area.

and the concussion is continuing to come along...i continue to have the memory of swiss cheese but well..hey at least i am able to have an excuse for some of my outbursts.... Basically I finally have an excuse to just blurt out the real way i feel rather than just hold it back as i usually do.

thank you all again for the ongoing concern

little red

thank you all once again for you kind words and your concern. It is very nice to know that I am well wished even when i am essentially useless.

I have begun Physical therapy, i damaged a ligament on the one good leg i had...the other is my weak one due to my back injury.

The concussion continues to give me trouble....it seems that the filter that used to work in my brain that kept me from just letting every thought out of my mouth is a bit broken...hence the reason the diagnosis was made...I guess it is a good thing that I am a lady and ordinarily speak as such. Otherwise it may not have been picked up as readily.

the twins were uninjured after all...although my left girl was bruised niether ruptured and although my ribs are sore they are not broken after all.

Recovery it seems will just take good old fasioned time and more time and heating pads and ice as well. I find it amazing that what looked like half my face was torn off is currently barely more than a 3 inch line barely noticeable.....dr coccarro along with dr adler are magicians. Both have their specialties and i woudl highly recommend them to any one that needs specialty work done.

I assume they are even better when they are working on healthy tissues and are just trying to improve what nature has given you rather than repair a problem.

i wish to thatnk the kind gentleman that offered the new car to me if i were to become his...well ummm...as i told him and i have told others...i give it away i dont charge.... I could never in good consciousness accept the gift witht he condition that i would be his.

I suppose had i been his to begin with i could accept the gift...because then it truly would be a gift. I am awaiting the car that will replace the one that i had the car accident in....in due time i will find one...or someone will offer a true gift.

I just wanted to let you know as i have been so kindly asked how i am recovering. I thank you all for your concernand those who have been so sweet to ask how i am doing that i have been make great strides in recovery.

the facial stitches have been removed...the scar is not tooo unpleasant mederma and scar guard have been purchased. the doctor says that i am a good healer and is hopful that the scar should be a well healing one ....i'm angry the air bag didnt go off. Im even more greatful that noone else was injured along with me.

The memory issues should resolve shortly or so i am told. concussions are supposed to be self limiting..and well i just am quite disappointed that there were several fund raising events i was to attend this weekend and last weekend and have been unable to attend them because i have to be careful to stay out of the sun with the fresh scars. and have to be even more careful not to jar my jaw anyore than it is....a hairline fracture of the jaw is something that can turn into a total fracture.

i wish he camp pa qua dak bike run well i will be unable to attend as a special guest. I hope to be able to attend the bikes for babies by the time that comes around next week with Dee Shniders group

please go in my absense and offer your support to these worthy causes

little red

It could always be worse.

I was involved in a car wreck on saturday night and am now covered in black and blues that are not good ones.

I have heard about broken jaws....well thank goodness i do not have a full fracture..just a hairline fracture that is still perfectly aligned. so i am supposed to not move my jaw much, eat soft food I have had my face put back together, and managed to keep my teeth.

so Im currently not able to do anything more than just lie here and wait for the swelling from my head to my shins to go away...i sure could use a nice person to rub my aching body. and of course if anyone who happens to have an econimical car laying around I would be ever soo appreciative to speak with you and play lets make a deal...i didnt have collision after all the car was a 1991 the car was only worth about $2500.

the time has come to decide to stay or go and in the words of the song...should i stay or should i go....it has been a very difficult decision..back and forth i went with my decision...should i stay or should i go....

well i decided that although my Iron horsed prince is a great guy...we just arent meant to be and so....I am once again unattached.

RATZ!!! My very first visit to Bike week has been cancelled. This year an injury has caused me to not be able to go...some surgical repair has had been done and an another one awaits me and then a tender recovery .

..rats, I finally get the opportunity and have the cards all in a row to be able to go....and then POOF it has been evaporated with in a week of having it all arranged.....Well I guess that is the price i pay for being the snug lady i am...injuries occur because of the physical abilities i have....

My daddy used to admire just how snug i kept my girl parts...well, snug isn't always a good thing. Although I am thoroughly enjoyed by Big Daddy, when some thing goes wrong.....it goes terribly wrong!

and when one is involved with someone who is weilding a tool that is potential dangerous, an injury may occur even when they do in fact care about you. Imagine if he didn't care? oh I shutter to think about the damage that could have been done!

well Within a month or so, I should be back in the saddle so to speak until then i shall keep kitty rested and alone!

Thanks to you the gents that have been writing and wishing me happiness. I continue to be satiated by the "Iron Horse Prince" I see thus far that he is what i need and want at this point in my life. He embraces me physically and emotionally in a way I have longed to be. He appreciates my hidden quirks and my not so hidden ones...I am a quirky little girl...and he doesn't mind my quirks.

Physically he is more than i can handle i worry that i am not enough for him at times...his response is that he just has to break me in...oh great break me in ...lol

and so thank you for your interest, I do greatly appreciate the kind words and the ongoing attentiveness...at times i feel as though i am the star in my very own "perrils of penelope" sit-com...my life is far from a drama...I am a no drama mama...life is a sitcom...and i am the sizzling redhead (or so i have been told)

It is very nice to have the positive contacts out weighing the mean ones these days...I have been told by many of the "gentlemen" on this site that a "lady" such as myself will have to grow a tough exterior to be able to handle the mean comments that will always come my way....and i guess i never really looked at life the way that some of you explained things to me....

I am a girlscout by nature and i live by the golden rule...well not everyone is a girlscout...there are actually people whose so purpose on life is to begrudge the happiness in someone else's life....i have been told a pretty girl needs to toughen up...I so didnt want to change becasue of the meanies...after all if i change who i am becasue of them..they then win do they not?

well i have been given the repeated advice that either i have to grow a shell and take off the rose colored glasses...or continue to be a target for those who are not in my class...nor worthy of my attention. Evidentally Ladies are a rare class of people...something i was aware of....i just never realized the anomousity that the nonladies have toward ladies..

So I guess I shall stand proudly and be the lady that my grandmother always taught me to be...the strength and independant responsibility i possess are not something that need to be compromised...but being nice to everyone...well that is something that can be turned down a little...nice girls come right behind the nice guys and we all know that nice guys finish last.. So i shall strive to buff up the rose collored glasses a bit and look clearly, rather than just blindly follow the thought process of strangers and accept their thinking and ideas as the gospel...

I have a duty to develop my own principles based on my own research....if i just go with someone else's then i am being lazy and not responsible..again i wish to thank you all for the support and the kind words...and yes i will find another picture soon....I will have to ask my buddy the whip master to do me the honor of taking more pictures...to show my personality more...rather than mearly the beauty aspect.

somehow i doubt that will be an issue...i havent encountered any problems in finding someone to take appropriate and enticing picture without havign to actually "pay the photographer" it has been thuse far a mutually benificial situation the gentleman gets to have the fun of taking my photos and he also get to see the photos that he took used on an ongoing basis...and i get to have that special intereaction and recieve a few very enticing photos.

oh Mr whip master!!!!!!lol you know who you are! when you catch some time i would appreciate the time

precious and few are the moments we two and share..

and they are indeed precious...the iron horsed prince and I are still together thank you all for continued interest.....I am honored for the attention, but I do not understand the interest.....

When did the life of a little lady from long island become sooo interesting?? okay so for those of you that are interested...Big Daddy G and i are still seeing each other...I'm not exclusively his, but I am also NOT interviewing other lifestyle men. I am actually trying to do the non fragmented type of relationship.....

I am avidly trying to have 1 man rather than my usual Daddy/dom and a gentleman friend. Is it going to work?? I have no idea, but it is what i am trying to do. I guess it is more a test right now who am interested in, in a day to day relationship rather than strictly a D/s relationship.

Even if i hit it off in a day to day way with someone...it takes a long time for me to develope a trust to be able to give myself over in a psychological way...i can bottom...but i just do not routinely do it....why have a vanilla version of a "one night stand" when i can wait and see if we are on the same wave length...then see if we are on a physically equal playing field??

well i do hope that i have answered any of the questions that you all are wondering... Yes I am still taken in a various number of ways...and i am still untaken in others, but i am willing to wait to see if those in my life can fullfil my needs and wants! So no I cannot accept any other offers right now....

have a great day
red

the weather is cooling do you have a bed warmer? It is my hope that everyone finds a special someone to keep warm through the chilly nights.

I continue to see my special someone, and continue to return home each night to warm my own bed. I realize that it may not be a common occurance but it is my belief to not bring home anyone that i am not sure that i will want in my future until death do us part.

I wish you all warmest in the body mind and spirit!

red

I must ad a little something here. I am uninterested in modeling for anyone that i do not know. I have my photographer of choice he knows who he is....he's the tops. :)

So why would i want to deal with those who arent known to me who may or maynot be trustworthy and secure with my pictures...if i have pictures published...I get paid each and every time they are used or transmitted! That is what happens when you are a model.

In regard to my recreactional photos, they are a different story and well those are personal and confidential...should those become published the distributer would be subject to legal action. No recreational photos have ever been given permission to be distributed and since i am not a public persona i am entitled to my privacy!

thank you for your attention! and have a nice day

little red

and today is a nice day..the snow the snow the snow! I couldnt believe the snow that fell upon us this morning. And out to the land of nod went I....It is a long trip to go where the waters are so beautiful that even the dolphins want to stay!

It is said when you stop looking he will find you.

I am found. Who would have thought that this little lady's prince would ride in on an Iron horse? Perhaps the reason that my rose colored glasses were so badly scratched was so that when my prince came his armour would not be so blinding to my eye?

So i wish to let you all know as of now, I am no longer considering any offers, good luck to you all.
little red

some decisions are difficult...and others...not so much...and so the decision to go back with someone that couldnt keep his women in line was not a very difficult one.

So no this little lady is not going back to the one that didnt appreciate the relationship we had. And so although i am not actively "cruising" for a DOMINANT i will concider one that is above all respectful, honest and fits in with my other limits as described in my profile..

2007 will be a fine year for self discovery and self development. My reconstruction has fully repaired, and i am happy with the results and i havent had a complaint about the results.

a call came intoday, from one i never would have ever asked for nor expected...i have some New Years thinking to do....

do i go backward to one that couldnt keep his actions in check and able to keep his women in line? or do i move on without him?

a quandry

Last night i could hardly get to sleep at all...

I actually met a nice guy...one that showed up on time, well groomed, and didnt try to get me into bed with in 15 minutes...okay within a half hour...but I will look past that one..,,.lol

It may or may not be a match, but it at least gives me hope that there are actual gentlemen out there still.

A special someone joined me for cookies and milk and well, alas, absolutely no chemistry at all! Poor bugger couldnt even carry on a conversaion....and above all else...liquor eh not a good thing if one cannot handle the stuff!

I realize i may be very well be a non drinker to the Nth degree but well if one is on the verge of intoxicated, wouldn't it be better to call and make an excuse and say they cannot get together?

I am a nondrinker not becasue of a Bill W issue but becasue i just never been a drinker! and so I really do not have much tolerance for people that are totally toasted! Eeeek and trying make a first impression under the influence, definately not a good idea! and so another one bites the dust.

Just as i wouldnt wear my fishnet stockings to a job interview, yes i realize that people fantasize about a naughty night nurse particularly a red headed one, well it just wouldnt be the right thing to do...so i guess the lesson i am trying to teach today is first meetings are essentially that. They are the only time you have to make a first impression...and well you wouldnt go to a job interview drunk or nearly there...dont show up to a first meet drunk either!

the stockings are hung by teh chimney with care...but well i do hope that St nick is careful I hate runs in my stockings!!! and just what is he going to put in them?? fishnets dont hold all that much!

wishing you all a very merry christmas....and a happy new year....I will be spending the holidays with a special someone and perhaps there may be news on the horzon for the new year!

Little Red says:

the test of courage is not fighting back when the mood strikes...It is the graceful and complete acknowledgement of a problem.....accepting the necessary facts ....and changing to deal with what ever the situation arises, regardless of your personal feelings.

It is far easier to have a knee jerk reaction....it takes a great deal of maturity and class to put forth effort and thought when contemplating a problem!

have a great day

I happend upon the following and i believe that it should serve well for me too think about when i recieve such nusance in the future:

The most rewarding compliment is an insult from the ill-informed!

the following was recieved in my mailbox...I do not appreciate such annoyances and would appreciate anyone who would endeavor to write to me in this tone to just hit the delete key rather than the enter key and just have agreat day! :

Duh its spelled

"Sacrilege"
And I love you so called christians. Good catholics don't get divorced or have premarital sex. Even Christ was tolerant of other religions but if you were that good catholic girl you claim to be you would know.
And if you would like my hairdressers number she will attest to the fact that I dont know nor have I ever dyed my hair. And my waist is but 6 inches larger than yours and i am 6 inches tallers so join the club bay. And ahem mines ALL natural.

It seems that I have angered someone..by describing them to a T I don't know what this wench's problem is. I believe that last time I checked, as AMERICANS, It is my first amendment right to write what i please. It is not my issue that something I wrote displeases someone...It is my responsibility to be to my ownself be true!

and so I believe it is sacrelige...what ever the spelling!!! to call anyone a GODDESS...although I wouldn't mind calling you a demon I do not feel that calling anyone a God is an acceptable thing! It is MY belief..I said i was not religious but that I have my religious beliefs...I never said i was a good catholic.or christian..just that i have my religious beliefs...I didn't say that i would do anything about you doing as you see fit in your life...I JUST AM ENTITLED TO DO AS I SEE FIT!

So want to know what me the lapsed catholic is going to do?? Im going to tell you this: I do hope that you just have a nice day...and oh yeah, DRIVE SAFELY! that's what I'm going to do to you because I do not agree with you...I'm going to tell you to have a nice day and to drive safely! Oh and sprinkle a bit of holy water too...Im sure it couldnt hurt much...or will it?? hahahahaha

The Keys to Your Heart

You are attracted to good manners and elegance.

In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored.

You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change.

You would be forced to break up with someone who was ruthless, cold-blooded, and sarcastic.

Your ideal relationship is lasting. You want a relationship that looks to the future... one you can grow with.

Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.

You think of marriage something you've always wanted... though you haven't really thought about it.

In this moment, you think of love as commitment. Love only works when both people are totally devoted.

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