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About CANDENTE
I am a hedonist. That sounds like an introduction at 12-step meeting. I'm not sure i really belong on this site. I can't identify with "Dom", "owned", "Master/Mistress", or any similar terms. They all seem too "Gothic" for me. I am not passing judgement; I have "real-life" friends that associate these title with their personalty. It's just not "me". I've lived in many places, throughout the world, and been exposed to many cultures. Our society (the U.S.) is one of the most repressive and intolerant of individualism of any, though it is supposed to be the very foundation of why this country was founded! I have never bowed to peer pressure and I'm a non-conformist. "Lone wolf" would be a descriptor for me. I had no idea, when I was in my formative years, as a child, that my "role playing" with a female friend, always as the "leader' or "in command", my fascination with seeing and feeling nylon on a woman's legs, watching a female friend "strip" to show me her naked body, and many others, would form the basis for many of the things that excite me, today. My entire life and career has been associated with a male-dominated profession. Respect and authority came with the position, but respect as a leader had to be earned. I am now retired and financially-independent. "Authority" has no meaning or purpose in my life, today; seeking "pleasure" for myself, by pleasing others, is my driving force. As a child, I hated "bullies" and often sought means to "teach them a lesson". Not like the terms of this lifestyle, such as "Master", probably stem from my subconscious reference to "bully". I am a realist; people assume "roles" because there is someone who wants to lead or follow them and they, willingly, do. Whether it is part of their personality or their "alter ego" is no concern of mine. I enjoy the freedom of expression and uninhibited atmosphere of this lifestyle and others. My participation in them has led me to conclude that I enjoy, and I'm most excited by, one-on-one "relationships" with females. I like being kinky, exploring and sharing the fetishes I enjoy (and curious about), with a woman. From an early age, "feminine" females have always fascinated me, with their beauty, their nature and instincts of caring, for others. Women consider me intelligent, extremely sensuous, charming, chivalrous, manly, yet, caring, empathetic and desiring to please them. Understanding a woman and knowing what she desires most, is how I learn to please them. That seems to imply I'm subservient, but mutual pleasure and respect are the fundamentals of this or any other group or lifestyle. Though I may be spanking a woman or tying her, it is to please her, because that's what she desires. I'm only able to do that to her because she's allowed me. You're probably saying "duh; that's what it's all about". The way I think and feel is not a "lifestyle"; it's my personality. Sharing the most intimate details of a woman's life, with her, forms an "invisible bond" between us, that will last forever. My life is not a quest for "scenes" or "play"; it's a perpetual journey of exploration. I've spent a lifetime admiring women, discerning their desires and learning to please them. I have always adored and been sexually excited by women who are sensuous, feminine and who enjoy dressing to appeal to a man's visual sense. Their sacrifice of putting on makeup, shaving their legs and wearing tortuous stilettos, to make themselves sexually appealing and desirable, makes me appreciate them more. That "appreciation" and my desires transcends marital "boundaries"; whether she's single or "attached" does not matter. I respect and understand the need for discretion, as it applies to her "situation", her innermost desires and feelings and what we share, together. If we want to be happy, we must learn to love ourselves and do what makes us happy. Only then, can we love others, unconditionally, and give them reasons to be happy. Fetishes, is what this site is all about and, by definition, anything that heightens sexual satisfaction. I have a very long list of them, but don't let that scare you away; they are extensions of my imagination. creativity and things that excite me. The combination of your pleasure, emotional and physical , and our sexual excitement and satisfaction, is my one true fetish! |
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