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I am MUCH more Daddy than Master, if One must have a title. You may have all the loving laptime and cuddles you crave, but when you are a bad girl, you will get the spanking you deserve.
A true relationship blossoms from nuturing, respect, trust, and caring. If you need to be forced to be a sweet girl, then you probably are NOT one. I'm all about allowing and nurturing you to be the best little flower you can be, ever better than you thought. What exactly is the point of wasting time trying to grow a beautiful daffodil from a dandylion?
You have many parts each of whom craves special attention in their own way. Your inside little girl, your naughty slut part, and that dynamic woman all MUST have their time and the freedom to "pop out" and BE who they are to the fullest and to be completely appreciated as a part of who you are. You are NOT just one of them.
Each relationship HAS to be different. It's the fulfillment of individual needs with the strengths of another. You can not be YOU by being crammed into someone else's box. Submission is the most tender gift to be given. It is far too easily taken lightly and abused. Addressing the physical, sexual, emotional, mental, and spiritual needs of another is a HUGE responsibility which hinges upon deep mutual respect, honesty, commitment, honor, and understanding.
I have particular strengths of character mentally and spiritually. I do NOT have all the right answers for every one and for all time, nor do I wish to. I see balance in all. Each finds its definition and and its completion in its opposite. All opposites meld together to create a whole. So it is in a D/s relationship ... neither one existing without the other and both honoring the contribution of the other.
Self-esteem is all important. We are not all wired the same ... the goal is to be the BEST of who you were created to be.
We all have many facets. Some we display readily, for we have learned they are generally socially acceptable. Others we hide under denial or guilt because those parts of us are "bad" or "naughty" or "not grown up". They are not. Those are parts of us, too. They need an environment of acceptance and respect to be what they were meant to be. THEN we become whole.
I have a vast respect for the creative, imaginative, artistic mind and spirit. Those and intelligence are valuable gifts. If frequent pain is one of your needs, may you find fulfillment somewhere else. But if you know you need a spanking, maybe even before Daddy does, you may present yourself for your punishment, and it's OK if that brings arousal.
I am not for everyone, but neither are you. We can explore how our opposites attract.
May you find precisely what your heart craves,
Thomas |
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“Persons thankful for little things are certain to be ones with much to be thankful for.”
~Frank Clark |
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CM chat does not work for me at all. YIM does ..... newmproved |
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I have heard of some sad faces because I did not recoginize chat invites. It seems they rarely if ever work with my computer setup for some unknown reason. I may be easily reached on Yahoo messenger, where my screen name is newmproved. I ignore no one of purpose ... we each have something worth sharing. |
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A few things I failed to say in my profile, which ended up being fairly philosohical --
I am single and unattached (my wife of 15 yrs died of cancer at age 34 a little over 5 yrs ago).
I am drug and disease free and intend to stay that way. I smoke but don't drink at all, but it doesn't bother me if other folks enjoy a few drinks.
I am financially responsible, have a job, pay my bills, own my own townhouse.
I am educated with a couple of advanced degrees, but that does not make me intellectually superior .... each of us has our own enlightenment.
I am highly spiritual without being religious at all. I am willing to share what I have learned, but my way is but one of many, not the only way.
I am a nuturer/teacher/daddy by nature. I encourage growth, but I can not MAKE it happen. I would prefer to love you into a more complete awareness and appreciation of yourself than try to force you into it.
Trust is the single most important issue in a relationship, and the one which grows most slowly. We will talk a long time about all kinds of things before we ever begin to define our relationship.
Strength comes from character, not from proclamation. |
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