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About calmotonic

To all the real genuine honest ones out there !

I NEED A LEATHER GAY/BI MALE


TO GET MY GIMP LEATHERED UP AND RE-STRAINED , YOU WILL BE WELL REWARDED


Looking to correspond with girls and boys into BDSM leather pvc , role play (important)

to be directed by me , to tease , torture and punish my slave . Suck cocks and fuck his

ass , write me

MESSENGER mailto:calmotonic102@yahoo.co.uk


Hurry up re-locating to Perth Austrailia July 2014


-Put this in your profile if you know someone who has survived, struggles with or died of cancer...











From:


This is a short review from BDSM sites to encourage a Domme / Submissive Relationship.
Domination a woman’s view.
In order to dominate him, you have to get into his head before you get into his pants.
Don't ask him, always tell him!!!!!!
A good way to start this is to have a list of possible activities, and have him rate them on a scale of 1-20 or so of his desire for them, don’t forget to write things you want , remember this is about you not him , definitely recommend a cock lock .
Being truly dominant in a relationship is wonderful. You get to order you household as you wish and get to indulge your desires.
Some people are satisfied with straight sex with their hands tied with a necktie, while others require multiple sexual stimuli and far more complex "equipment" - toys, tables, ropes, wheels, etc.
There are as many ways to a dominate / Submissive relationship so you really need to know what your partner wants, doesn't want, is comfortable with, is afraid of, and so forth. A lot of submissive will have great trouble telling you what they want.
For some of them, this is because they don't really KNOW what they want. Some submissive know what they want but feel as if it spoils things if they have to ask for it -- they want the impetus for the scene to come from you, and if they ask for something, then it's as if they're controlling the scene.
What they want is for you to control it. And of course, more than one of these can occur at once. Controlling the pace keeping it slow until he can't take it anymore is always recommended. Slowly slowly we are much better at this than or male counterparts.
I would recommend setting a very strict set of rules for behavior with them on display to remind him and back it up with corporal punishment. Violation of your standard should always lead to punishment and it should be as immediate as possible. This should be real punishment and be completely separate from sexual play. I can’t stress this enough .I would recommend picking a punishment instrument, and only use it for punishment, not for play or you may decide both , either way you have to get your message across
Never use your hand or anything too mild. Fortunately the leather belt has always been very common. One advantage is that you can always have it with you .Thickness and length is key, and despite looks, a narrow belt is far harsher than a wide one. It takes some practice to master but as long as you strike only from between the upper third of his buttocks down to the lower 2/3rds of the backs of his legs (or his upper back, being careful not to hit his neck or lower back) you can strike as hard as you wish and beat him till you are satisfied and he is compliant. Depending on your need for discretion, you can have him install a hook that you can hang it from.

I would recommend binding him firmly and beating firmly until his composure and reserve is completely gone. I would also highly recommend urinating on him after his first beating.
Use of a whip / riding crop / cane is also essential and has wonderful results. Remember this is not a game and feelings don’t matter. There lots of information on this subject so a little research is always worthwhile .Make him kneel and kiss your feet telling you he is sorry for his mistakes and as your inferior I deserved to be punished. Force the issue always

If you’re going to be a superior female then you have act like one and have the right to whip/cane as and when you choose. You could be enjoying an evening of TV or a having meal, a dominant woman never cooks deprive him with a beating you never need a reason, remove the food. Leave him for about an hour then whipped again on an already sore back and buttocks this hurts, but waiting helpless for your return, knowing what you’re going to do is very unpleasant and humiliating . As they say “why have a dog and bark you “work him hard. You may pop out for a bit of shopping, the sound of the front door slamming really works. Lock him up and ensure he is in pain and leave.
Another punishment is we find grocery shopping a chore; well not anymore you need never go again, oh and send him out in pain or wearing an implement.
You’re actually screwing with his brain; men always want sex, to orgasm and are so inpatient, so control and control.
Remember a motto is....pain teaches obedience and rest assured he will be stubborn ……..but well worth the rewards. Again this is all about you, the quality you want the respect you deserve, never ever give in, he signed the contract.
Another game is for him to feel privileged allowing him come in you and then go down on and lick it out and swallow, and anal humiliation.
The true test of any surrender is another cock. This is the true test the idea of forced bisexuality or cuckold fantasies submitting to another cock in his mouth and then his anus this is a very true test not all can complete, but if he’s serious he will without question.
Enema Story
As I write, my husband is gagged with a ball gag and strapped down on his plastic covered mattress bed taking a large enema. The enema is flowing into him through a butt plug which is secured in place with a rubber restraint. The nice thing about this is that no matter how full he feels I can continue to top up his enema bag. I am happy to do this slowly on a Sunday morning as I like to read the Sunday papers. He has been there for over an hour and has over 3 litres inside him. The handy thing about the plug is that the tube inside it that the enema flows through can be plugged also. This means I will keep the enema inside my husband for as long as I feel like it and while he goes about his duties. The pressure will push down on the plug making him extremely uncomfortable and means I will have to tighten the straps that hold it in place. However, I can simply join his butt plug up to the enema tube again and 'top him up' - perhaps with ice cold water if he disobeys me today. This evening I will instruct him to take his plug out and then I will strap him to his toilet for a while to allow the enema fluid to drain from him. When he's finished and I've allowed him to clean himself up I'm going to dress him for the evening in his black rubber dildo pants with a hole in the front for is penis and testicles - securely caged. Then he can take me somewhere nice for dinner. A dominant wife never cooks!

Typical Contract
Of my own free will, I………………herein known as the slave, hereby grant _________, herein
Known as Mistress, full ownership, care and use the slave's body, mind, income, assets, and
Possessions. The slave will own nothing and will be the sole property of Mistress as of
The _____ day of _________, 2013, at ____:____ am / pm _____,

Until further notice.

This contract is renewable and SHALL BE A WAY OF LIFE, and not a game.

During this first contract the slave will be in a training collar.

A permanent collar will be earned after the initial contract has ended. The slave will not be given a
Permanent slave name until the slave has earned a permanent collar.

The slave does not have right to leave at any time. That is the only freedom the slave
Will have.

If the slave does or takes anything without Mistress’s permission then no food or water and will be punished, caged or shackled naked.

The slave will obey Mistress at all times and will wholeheartedly ensure Mistress’s comfort,
Pleasure and well-being, above all other considerations the slave may have.

The slave will follow Mistress’s orders 100% and will always do as the slave is told.

Mistress may use the slave’s

Mind, service, or body as she sees fits. Mistress may use any assets, income, or possessions that
the slave had or earns while in his collar as she sees fit.

The slave will give all access and the entire slave’s information to Mistress.

The slave agrees that the slave shall derive her own pleasures from accepting the slave’s part in
The relationship described in this document and that the slave will gladly accept the punishment and any pleasures Mistress provides.

The slave renounces all rights to privacy or concealment from Mistress. The slave will answer
Truthfully and completely, to the best of the slave's knowledge, any and all questions Mistress
May ask of the slave. The slave further agrees to confess the slave's desires for Mistress’s
Mistress takes no responsibility in the consequences of the slave's
Failure to disclose desires, even if the slave is unable to communicate.



The slave will strive diligently to re- mould the slave's body, activities habits, actions, and attitudes
In accordance with Mistress’s desires. The slave will seek, to learn how to please Mistress better, and will gracefully accept any criticism in whatever form Mistress chooses

Including hard limits, the slave unconditionally accepts anything Mistress may choose to do
with the slave. Whether as punishment, for Mistress's amusement, or for whatever purpose. No
Matter how painful, unpleasant, or uncomfortable to the slave. This will be performed without question or notice.

Hard Limits will be respected. If the Hard Limits are performed in malicious intent the
Slave will take the punishment and gladly thank his mistress, refusal will further enhance punishment


The slave agrees to take all the experiences as a chance to learn and
Grow, and use them to improve the relationship between Mistress and the slave during the

I…………………………….slave is to be legally owned and punished as the mistress desires I will OBEY ever

Word of the mistress, to carry out all duties to the very best of my ability, her word is final.


Signed by Slave, _______________________________. Dated _________________________.


Signed by Mistress, _______________________________Dated _________________________.

The Rules
The female always makes the rules.
The rules are subject to change without prior notice or any arrangements.
No male can possibly know the rules.
If the female suspects there changed immediately.
The female is never wrong and never being questioned.
The female has the right to be anger and upset at any time.
The male remains calm and quiet at all times.
The male is expected to mind read.
The female is ready when she is ready not before and without question.
The male is a slut, that means will take and do anything, that’s what sluts do.
The male should be prepared and ready on command at all times.


Male chores.

  1. Ironing.

  2. Clean & Dusting ( Even when clean )

  3. Hovering

  4. Washing and Drying Dishes.

  5. Laundry.

  6. Car Cleaning Duties.

  7. Cooking

  8. Grocery Shopping.

  9. House Tidy.









Male Punishments
Implements to be used. Canes .Paddle .Leather Belts .Spiked Wheel. Clamps. Cock Lock. Anal toys .Vibrators. Deep Heat. Handcuffs. Leather Harness, Gags masks .Condoms. Rubber sheaths. Gas Mask with tube and air bag. Rubber hood, rubber wear. Pegs. Pain session only with no orgasm. Spunk drinking Spunking cleaning . Spunking licking. Enemas.Drinking own urine and Dommes .
You shall be spoken too softly and always considerate , apologetic in fact for exsisting . This may seem very strange and cringing , and think this is stupid , but I apoligis for this . How can I beat him day in day .

Punishment
1. Quick with no warning and often .
2. Ball Kicking
3. Caning.
4. Whipping./ Hung up / Ball weights /
5. Face Slapping.
6. Clamps
7. Handcuffs / Neck Locks
8. Cock Chastity Locks.
9. Anal Locks.
10. Enema
11. Collar Dragging
12. Nipple Piercing
13. Tattoo
14. Cock Sucking
15. Shaving
16. Write school lines.
17. Manners, May I, please, thank you, what do you think,
18. Toilet Cleaning.
19. Own anal fucking.
20. Locked up at foot of bed, bench, spare room, stockade bench
21. Electric Cock Ball Anal Nipple torture, toes, fingers, ears.
22. Spiked wheel.
23. Anal deep heat with severe poppers tube, strapped to face.
24. Mask and Dildo gag wanking both off.
25. Chat Gay men up.
26. Waxing
27. Harness bondage ankles tied to arms at back on floor.
28. Trampoling.
29. Eye Contact Dis-approval.
30. Forced celibacy
31. http://alt.com/p/fetish.cgi?MAX_COUNT=20&do=search&trlid=fetish_search-2&more=1;q=Mouth%20Spitting http://alt.com/p/fetish.cgi?MAX_COUNT=20&do=search&trlid=fetish_search-2&more=1;q=Mouth%20Spreader%20Gag
32. Serious bondage forced weight loss / Food Deprivation .
33. Overnight training .
34. Obedience Classes
35 . Training lessons .
36. Gay Training lessons .



Dress
PVC Suits
Leather Wear.
Rubber Wear
Masks
Gags
Clamps
Naked in Harnesses
Thigh Boots
Leather Boots
Policeman Uniform
Army Uniform (Wear Out)
Naked with Collar lead and cock lock
Naked with full mask locked away for evening.
Make up / Wigs / nails /


Caning
Governess is aware that there are many therapeutic benefits to being on the receiving end of a good caning. A very small scientific http://www.theage.com.au/news/World/A-good-caning-takes-some-beating/2005/03/30/1111862460598.html claims that beating on the buttocks with a strong cane is the perfect way to cure everything from depression to alcoholism by releasing the body’s natural “happy chemicals” known as endorphins.
The scientists, headed by biologist http://english.pravda.ru/health/26-03-2005/7950-whipping-0/, claim corporal punishment not only rids people of addictions but also helps overcome depression and suicidal tendencies, the daily Izvestia reported.
The scientists said that when caned, a person’s body will release masses of endorphins, making them happier. The caning, they found, counteracts a lack of enthusiasm for life which they claim is the cause of addictions, suicidal tendencies and psychosomatic disorders.
The scientists, who said they have had positive results with people testing their cane therapy, recommend a standard treatment course of 30 sessions with 60 of the best, delivered on the buttocks by a person of average build.
”Therapy becomes much more efficient when a patient receives the punishment from a person of the opposite sex. The effect is astounding: the patient starts seeing only bright colors in the surrounding world, the heartache disappears, although it will take a certain time for the buttocks to heal, of course,”
Another new http://siberiantimes.com/other/others/features/beating-addiction-out-of-you-literally/ appears to support the principle behind caning as a therapy.
Governess’ research is far less scientific but it would appear to be undeniable that caning discipline can help some people overcome all sorts of issues – from depression, addiction and weight-loss through to guilt that needs to be exorcised!
Caning therapy is best delivered in Domination as a person dressed from a position as a dominatrix to the power of prowess; it is a clinical delivery of a physical treatment. As such, you will be treated with courtesy, consideration and utter professionalism. It is a highly intense treatment which can often be very difficult to endure, crying and indeed screaming may well be part of the experience… Governess will however deliver the full 10 strokes without fail, leading to 20, 30, 40, 50, and 60 strokes.
The male is best place face down and well secured to stop the twist and wriggle of the buttocks and torso .He has to know his place, usually a good cock lock and anal butt plug or dildo secured is an excellent start .A means of biting down is always a good recommendation in the form of a bar gag secured tightly in the males mouth. Genital and anus shaving call also intensify the act of caning
The governess began to warm my ass up with the cane, lashing me with mild velocity. She didn't want to break me, but she wanted this to be a very intense experience. After about 10 lashes she began to pick up speed, whipping my ass and upper thighs with the cane. It stung a lot, but it was tolerable. I felt the blood rushing to my ass as it began to blush in response to her licks. She didn't back down, my ass got no breaks as she continued to smack the cane , as my restrains got tighter against my vulnerable back side. I was almost in tears from the pain, but I was not about to give up.
A recent recipient of The Governess’ caning therapy had this to say:
“I am sure that you remember beating me a few weeks ago. I said I would let you know the result. I think that you enjoyed caning me, I did not enjoy it at all, and it was very painful. I think that you did the trick. If you remember I wanted to get rid of my guilt. I have felt much better since you made me scream. When I got home and looked in the mirror the whole of my arse was welted. I will be returning for another beating but I want to thank you for achieving what you set out to do. I told you I had never been caned before and you certainly did a real professional job.
ART OF CANING
The basic strokes are found in the use of one cane. Such strokes are hit and hold, hit and lift and hit and slide, partial stroke, scoop stroke, tapping and tipping. The more advanced caning strokes which uses two canes, one in each hand or multiple canes are clap stroke and drum stroke.

In warm up of a slave’s body, the best stroke is a soft circular stroke which is known as the scoop stroke, it is by its use and deion a light stroke to which warms up the skin, mostly on the buttocks where the majority of caning is done.

The grip is light, the cane is allowed to vibrate and gently bounce off the buttocks of the slave. This can be alternated with patting or tapping the cane softly on the buttocks as to warm and prepare the skin. When the slave is relaxed and the skin is warmer, a more increased intensity can be used to warm up the skin.

Often times the mistress will use floggers to do the same process however, it really is not necessary to use floggers if the mistress uses a soft hand and stroke, with a progressive layering until the skin becomes pink or warm to the touch.
The slave now that he or she is warmed up can now take caning with far less risk of damage or bruising now that the skin is prepared.
Again style has of itself their intensity. And each style has a variety of intensity of its own because of the distance which increases energy.

The strokes however create different sensations. The scoop stroke is gentle and thuds like, with similar sensation much like a light spanking. The thicker the cane the more thuds it produces and the thinner the more sting it produces. In the use of taps, this energy is sent forward chiefly by the wrist and not from the forearm or shoulder. The tap sensation is much like a insect bite and goes away quickly unless, the Master rapidly taps as to pile one on top of the other which goes from a bite to sting and pain.
The hit and hold stroke, is one strike of the cane but not lifting the cane for approximately three to five seconds. This stroke keeps the sensation of impact going longer as the compression of the impact sight keeps the nerve and sensory bundles of the skin under the impression that the impact still exists. Thus, the sensation stays and lingers, as well as the heat or burning sensation.

The hit and lift, is again one stroke to the target area but is immediately lifted, again found predominantly in American style of caning, to which the impact is made with immediate relief. The cane lifted, the impact site then radiates the sensation and dissipates through the body. If standing it dissipates at the hip, if in English it dissipates outward from the entire body from within.

The hit and slide stroke is often over looked by many, as it has to be more closely observed and taught to point out the deliberate motion of this stroke.
Once the cane strikes the slave, the Mistress holds the cane to the body but also slides the cane to them in a smooth motion within a fraction of the conclusion of the hit. This motion or slide, upon a well warmed skin of the slave will give the sensation of burn or sting with the additional sensation of being torn or having their skin pulled as if it was thread being pulled through fabric.
This hit and slide stroke is wonderful should you have a textured cane or the body of a riding crop that has been recycled into a cane.

The partial stroke, which has been vastly been mislabelled as a tip stroke or tipping, is a stroke entirely different and very much an independent stroke with an independent purpose.
Partial strokes are often and with purpose and design to be designated to one portion of the body to which cannot be fully impacted by other strokes.
Partial strokes are used to strike between the shoulder blade and spine, on those skinny slaves that have no meat or muscle to take a full stroke across their back. This stroke is also designed to impact one section, such as one buttock cheek and not the other or to impact one thigh, one breast / chest and not the other.

This partial stroke is perfect for those individuals to whom are bruised on one cheek and not the other, or if they have brands or tattoos in the process of healing as well as to bypass piercing
The cane’s angle is at a degree as only touch the designated area with approximately three to seven inches of the tip of the cane.
The partial stroke is also used in caning male genitals lightly as not to break the skin or to bruise the testicles, or anal entrance.

Since most canes are made of natural and breathing fibers, genital juices will absorb into the cane. It is suggested if you have no canes to dedicate to that one slave and to their genitals, you use plastic wrap or cling wrap to cover over the genitals be it male or female, as to be a barrier between the cane and them. It can be thin plastic as long as it is flexible and ideal if it is clear as to view the effects of caning that area.

Now, in the proper tipping stroke, only the very tip of the cane is used. Just as if one was to write or erase with the pencil, the true ends of the cane are used.
Depending on the cane, some are made with smooth or rounded ends or with squared or bevelled ends and if one is lucky, will have a cane with both types of edges on one cane.
In the tipping stroke, it is with the end that a stroke is used much like tapping a light switch off. These tipping strokes are very light and are rhythmic and again require a mistress to use a soft and allow the cane to vibrate.

Men who have their nipples exposed get a pleasurable sensation as well that travels to their genitals as well. If totally relaxed and able to allow the sensation flow may also have erections, some cases will have pre cum and some may have a small orgasm.
As we all know, there are individuals who try and move and wiggle no matter what, this should be restricted to the absolute minimum. A good hour intensifying the restraints will lead to the pleasure. In the case of caning or any other impact play, the mistress must make it clear, that once the cane starts forward or any other whip or paddle, it lands where it lands, they will be struck where ever. It is with this understanding the slave must control themselves and stay close as possible in the position and if out of position it is “shame on them” and there will be no apology from the Mistress.
After a scene, it is hoped that the Mistress checks the slave’s body over as to attend to any injuries that have occurred.
For an exceptionally sadistic Mistress to apply to her slave there is an additional means to add pain to the caning experience.

Known as “figging” it is a old English caning tradition, to which a fresh ginger root is peeled into the shape of a cone, then insert into the rectum of the slave and allow it to stay there approximately 10 minutes, to allow the burning sensation to mount to painful levels, then begin the caning.

The root looses its burning powers in approximately 20 minutes, so it is usually removed and a new root is inserted into the anus with the root being a bit bigger. Caning then is restarted and when ending the caning the root is removed and after care is given.

As with anything, not all people are able to take the intensity of such a traditional caning to a intensity however, should a person be able to handle such, instead of using cream or chemicals the use of a ginger root, which is a natural product may not cause the chemical burns which often concerns many in the scene.

Upon completion of the caning session the Mistress – Slave relationship becomes more intense and painful to the slave, this is the time to step up the domination duties, the cleaning, working your slave harder, and of course, cock locked and anal lock and restrained for the night, as you’ve earned a well deserved rest.


-Put this in your profile if you know someone who has survived, struggles with or died of cancer...



Domination a womans view .

 

In order to dominate him, you have to get into his head before you get into his pants.

Don't ask him, always tell him !!!!!!

 

A good way to start this is to have a list of possible activities, and have him rate them on a scale of 1-20 or so of his desire for them, don’t forget to write things you want , remember this is about you not him , definitely recommend a cock lock .

 

Being truly dominant in a relationship is wonderful. You get to order you household as you wish and get to indulge your desires.

 

Some people are satisfied with straight sex with their hands tied with a necktie, while others require multiple sexual stimulus and far more complex "equipment" - toys, tables, ropes, wheels, etc.

 

There are as many ways to do Dominate / Submissive relationship so you really need to know what your partner wants, doesn't want, is comfortable with, is afraid of, and so forth. A lot of submissives will have great trouble telling you what they want.

 

For some of them, this is because they don't really KNOW what they want. Some submissives know what they want but feel as if it spoils things if they have to ask for it -- they want the impetus for the scene to come from you, and if they ask for something, then it's as if _they're_ controlling the scene.

 

What they want is for _you_ to control it. And of course, more than one of these can occur at once. Controlling the pace keeping it slow until he can't take it any more , then lock him up and leave him for a while . Your actually screwing with his brain , men always want to cum . Control and stop him us girls find that so easy , but difficult for a man .

 

I would recommend setting a very strict set of rules for behavior and back it up with corporal punishment. Violation of your standard should always lead to punishment and it should be as immediate as possible. This should be real punishment and be completely separate from sexual play. I would recommend picking a punishment instrument, and only use it for punishment, not for play .

 

Never use your hand or anything too mild. Fortunately the leather belt has always been very common. One advantage is that you can always have it with you .Thickness and length is key, and despite looks, a narrow belt is far more harsh than a wide one. It takes some practice to master but as long as you strike only from between the upper third of his buttocks down to the lower 2/3rds of the backs of his legs (or his upper back, being carefull not to hit his neck or lower back) you can strike as hard as you wish and beat him till you are satisfied and he is compliant. Depending on your need for discretion, you can have him install a hook that you can hang it from.


I would recommend binding him firmly and beating firmly until his composure and reserve is completely gone. I would also highly recommend urinating on him after his first beating .

 

Use of a whip and/or a riding crop and it is really painful but has wondeful results . Remember this is not a game and feelings don’t matter . Make him kneel and kiss your feet telling you he is sorry for his  mistakes and as her inferior I deserved to be punished.

 

If your going to be a superior female then you have the right to whip/cane as and when you choose.You could be enjoying an evening of TV or a having meal , a dominant woman never cooks deprive him with a beating you never need a reason, remove the food . Leave him somewhere for about an hour then whipped again on an already sore back, this hurts, but waiting helplessy for your return, knowing what your going to do is very unpleasant and humilating . As they say “ why have a dog and bark yourself “ .

 

Remember a motto is....pain teaches obedience and rest assured he will be stubborn ……..but well worth the rewards . Again this is all about you , the quality you want the respect you deserve , never ever give in , he signed the contract .

Forcing him come in you and then go down on you and lick it out and swallow .

Another good test is a cane on bare bottom bondage down very tight so there is no wiggle or escape . it

 

The idea of forced bisexuality or cuckold fantasies submit to another cock in his mouth and then his anus this is a very true test not all can complete , but if he,s serious he will without question .

 

Enema Story

As I write, my husband is gagged with a ball gag and strapped down on his plastic covered mattress bed taking a large enema. The enema is flowing into him through a butt plug which is secured in place with a rubber restraint. The nice thing about this is that no matter how full he feels I can continue to top up his enema bag. I am happy to do this slowly on a Sunday morning as I like to read the Sunday papers. He has been there for over an hour and has over 3 litres inside him. The handy thing about the plug is that the tube inside it that the enema flows through can be plugged also. This means I will keep the enema inside my husband for as long as I feel like it and while he goes about his duties. The pressure will push down on the plug making him extremely uncomfortable and means I will have to tighten the straps that hold it in place. However, I can simply join his butt plug up to the enema tube again and 'top him up' - perhaps with ice cold water if he disobeys me today. This evening I will instruct him to take his plug out and then I will strap him to his toilet for a while to allow the enema fluid to drain from him. When he's finished and I've allowed him to clean himself up I'm going to dress him for the evening in his black rubber dildo pants with a hole in the front for is penis and testicles - securely caged. Then he can take me somewhere nice for dinner. A dominant wife never cooks!

 

Typical Contract

 

Of my own free will, I………………herein known as the slave, hereby grant _________, herein

known as Mistress, full ownership, care and use the slave's body, mind, income, assets, and

possessions. The slave will own nothing and will be the sole property of Mistress as of

The _____ day of _________, 2013, at ____:____ am / pm _____,

 

Until further notice .

 

This contract is renewable and SHALL BE A WAY OF LIFE , and not a game .

 

During this first contract the slave will be in a training collar.

 

A permanent collar will be earned after the initial contract has ended. The slave will not be given a

permanent slave name until the slave has earned a permanent collar.

 

The slave does not have right to leave at anytime. That is the only freedom the slave

will have.

 

If the slave does or takes anything without Mistress’s permission then no food or water and will be punished ,caged or shackled naked .

 

The slave will obey Mistress at all times and will wholeheartedly ensure Mistress’s comfort,

pleasure and well-being, above all other considerations the slave may have.

 

The slave will follow Mistress’s orders 100% and will always do as the slave is told.

 

Mistress may use the slave’s

 

Mind, service, or body as she sees fits. Mistress may use any assets, income, or possessions that

the slave had or earns while in her collar as she sees fit. The slave will give all access and all the

slave’s information to Mistress.

 

The slave agrees that the slave shall derive her own pleasures from accepting the slave’s part in

the relationship described in this document and that the slave will gladly accept the punishment and any pleasures Mistress provides .

 

The slave renounces all rights to privacy or concealment from Mistress. The slave will answer

truthfully and completely, to the best of the slave's knowledge, any and all questions Mistress

may ask of the slave. The slave further agrees to confess the slave's desires for Mistress’s

Mistress takes no responsibility in the consequences of the slave's

failure to disclose desires, even if the slave is unable to communicate .

 

 

 

The slave will strive diligently to re- mold the slave's body, activities habits, actions, and attitudes

in accordance with Mistress’s desires. The slave will seek, to learn how to please Mistress better, and will gracefully accept any criticism in whatever form Mistress chooses

 

Including hard limits, the slave unconditionally accepts anything Mistress may choose to do

with the slave. Whether as punishment, for Mistress's amusement, or for whatever purpose. No

matter how painful, unpleasant, or uncomfortable to the slave.This will be performed without question or notice .

 

Hard Limits will be respected. If the Hard Limits are preformed in malicious intent the

slave will take the punishment and gladly thank his mistress , refusal will further enhance punishment

 

 

The slave agrees to take all the experiences as a chance to learn and

grow, and use them to improve the relationship between Mistress and the slave during the

 

I…………………………….slave is to be legally owned and punished as the mistress desire,s I will OBEY ever  

 

word of the mistress , to carry out all duties to the very best of my ability , her word is final .

 

 

Signed by Slave , _______________________________. Dated _________________________.

 

 

Signed by Mistress , _______________________________Dated _________________________.

 

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