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Female Submissive, 36
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Transgender Switch, 48
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Female Submissive, 34, Southern CA, California
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About calicotigress
I want someone honest, trustworthy and considerate, (most times). Not someone looking for a housekeeper or just a female to use. I want one that will love me as much as himself. I think I may also have some dominant traits I may want to explore also. I still primarily identify as submissive, but am really feeling a bit switchy...lol
What I have to offer is love, respect and a chance to share the joy of living with a woman that adores you.
Well, so that is all that is left of the old profile and it is kinda sparse. So Here We Are, living in Sin City , herself, and loving all that it has to offer! My dominant and greatest friend is with me here in Lavish Las Vegas. Settled into a house, driving a luxurious Lincoln Town Car (circa 1990), soaking up some sun and plugging in the music scene.
So as we get busier, would love to meet a submissive for service. And good friends and anything else that might come up. Male or female. Making good friends in the lifestyle here has proven more difficult than I expected. Not that everyone isn't nice but you know, when you click with someone, that kind of deep friendship that requires acceptance and trust and joy when you are with them.
So say Hi if you want to connect with someone a little less than superficially. For me anyway, it is not about the beatings, but about connections. Teasing and laughter counts too!
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Haven't' updated this in a while. Still looking to connect with a submissive male. Mainly seeking a service sub. My dominant and I just moved a year ago and enjoy our new place. Still in Vegas. Good luck to all in your searches!
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well, that submissive pulled a disappearing act too. Why do people have to play such silly games on here? So will return to my search and best of luck to everyone sincerely looking for a partner on here. |
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So I think it is finally summer and 100 degree days. Have been talking on here with a very pleasant submissive male. Hopefully we will meet soon and see what happens then. Wishing everyone the best of luck on here in finding someone compatible. There really are some good people on here. |
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wow, really in the deep freeze here right now! Lots of work for furnace repairman in our neighborhood lately! So right now, Las Vegas is kinda like Michigan without the snow. How are you managing to keep warm? |
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So another new year is upon us! They really seem to fly by lately. |
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Fall is here...Thank god! Summer was pretty tough and our luxurious Lincoln Town Car has no air conditioning! lol But I survived and the fall is wonderful. Warm and Sunny and cool at night. Save some money on that house air conditioning. I think I am becoming acclimated to the heat a bit more too.
I am beginning to venture out and meet new people from this site and another one. Still hoping to find a submissive male to help me explore my dominant feelings and see if that side of me is something I want to try to develop. I don't feel that side is strident and bossy, but more nurturing and occasionally a bit selfish.
I expect to love my submissive and it to turn into a long term mutual relationship. Not exclusive but deep and fulfilling regardless of that. |
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Been awhile since I have written here. Life is still good and I love Las Vegas! So in the spring time a switches thoughts turn to a.... sub to try out her dominant side on. A long term relationship style sub male to help out with the household and make life easier.
Don't hit me up with a list of your fetishes yet till we get to know each other a bit through email. I have to like the "real" you, vanilla and kinky. Kink can be worked out, I think, but I believe the vanilla aspects have to mesh too. |
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Am so enjoying my first winter is Las Vegas! I love the sun and the warm temperatures. No snow to shovel, no windows to scrape, no sliding around a corner from the slush building up! yippee!!
And Vegas has been good to me so far. Have a part time job, my live in is finding work. I get hugs sometimes from friends. Life is very good.
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Still loving Vegas after 2 whole months! The local community has been welcoming, I found a part time job right away, I love my life here so far.
The people here seem very different than those I am used to, more driven, less honest and definitely less open. I sense the energy in this valley and it makes me tense also unless I deliberately relax and breathe deeply.
feel free to say Hi and help me acclimate myself to this desert oasis.
cathy |
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Settling in and finding places to hang out and friends to hang out with. Musicians around here are soooo talented.
But still looking for friends into BDSM. Not necessarily for play, though that may come, but just to be friends with. |
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Well, Here we are! Las Vegas!! Nice and warm but found a house to rent right away. I think I am going to really enjoy living here. |
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New taxes here! Huge heat bills here! Time to go someplace warmer and less taxing! How about Vegas!!???? |
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So survived the winter in Kalamazoo. It is really nice to see all the clean snow as it seems to melt fairly regular and not stick around long enuf to get dirty. I now have a little part time job to keep me busy and am enjoying the town so far.
Not sure what will happen in the future. It feels funny to rent and not own a home and I am enjoying toying with packing up and moving again. No ties to this state unless it suits me. Well, yeah, my kids and my parents are here, but I am far enuf away that it is just a visit now and then. |
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First snow of the year!! Feeling a need to hibernate but there is just too much fun to be had out in the town. |
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Well, we are finally here! Have been enjoying meeting new people at the munches and trying to find our place in this much larger community. We enjoy seeing the diversity of lifestyles and getting to know some new friends and also finding our way around this great new town!!
Finding so much live Jazz around is a great enjoyment for my partner and I am feeling the energy of so many young people learning and enjoying themselves. It feels like a place of great new beginnings for us in so many ways.
So.. feel free to say HI and get to know me. I love meeting new people and learning new things.
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Well, we went looking around the west side of the state a bit and discovered Kalamazoo! Seems lively, looked at some places to live and I am quite sure that will be our next home starting this summer. We stopped by the local munch and met some people and really felt welcomed. Thank you to everyone there!
so , now to start cleaning out this place. Kids are gone, but their stuff hasn't seemed to leave yet and deciding what to take and what to leave behind has been very tough in some instances. But I will enjoy a lighter load to carry through life when I am done with the last of this! lol
Say Hi, I love to talk with new people. I am having discussions with a new man with submissive tendencies and am looking forward to meeting him soon. I know my partner would love someone to do pony play with... But we are always open to friends and new family. |
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wow, it has been a long time since I have written in this journal. Been deeply in hibernation mode and enjoying the snuggling into a nice warm house.
We are considering relocating in the summertime. We are thinking about a larger town, with potentially more gigs, maybe Lansing or GR. I have run across some intentional housing communities in Lansing and that idea really appeals to me. If there is anyone on here looking, and they are from those communities, feel free to drop me a line with any insights, areas to avoid, things to look for and general tidbits of info that it might help us to have.
In the meantime, life continues, say HI sometime, and take care of yourselves and stay warm. |
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Another birthday has come and gone and I have been reflecting on the joys of my life. My current partner has become more dominant and much more free to be himself lately. It is a wonderful thing to experience and our closeness is strengthening as we journey along this path. I trust the relationship more and more as time goes by. And I think that is the biggest benefit of a long term relationship. Building the trust in that, knowing you will always be connected and becoming more free to be yourself as you realize the fences and boundaries you have built can come down. So as we turn more outward and look around us, we keep an eye out for those subbies that need a bit of direction, a sense of service and a need for appreciation, if not love. Feel free to write and say Hello. Either this profile or our joint profile, ddcoupleisosubs, as we are always looking for friends and companions on our journey. I have no practical experience in owning a male sub. I will put that right up front. So if you are seeking a sexual or masochistic experience, I am not your domme. But if you seek to explore the relationship of D/s with me, Then perhaps you should contact me. I am sure we can learn some interesting things together. |
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wow, it has been a while since I wrote something here. Life is settling in rough edges are being worn off in places. I have talked with some interesting submissive men on here and am enjoying and learning from all of them. Now I am simply waiting for the one that was meant to join the household to show up and make himself known to us. lol
our dream of a larger household may never be fulfilled but to meet new people and make new friends is a wonderful thing. we go to munches and attempt to understand and appreciate others kinks. It certainly is a wide variety of individuals out there. And a great opportunity for learning for me. Life is good!! lol
Say Hi, feel free to write.
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We are heading back down to Indiana tomorrow to see His kids and for a short gig. I am slowly beginning to search for a submissive or slave male to join our household. Not a play partner, not 24/7 to start, not one only in this for the kinky play, but a real submissive man to love and cherish and who will add to the household in many ways. In the beginning I think the vanilla aspects are much more important than the kinky ones. Different kinds of kink can be adjusted to and accommodated in other ways. We desire a poly household. I see it as compatible people loving and caring about each other with all labels kept to a minimum.
? Please feel free to write and let me know your experiences in relationships of this type, both good and bad, and perhaps things I should beware of. And also the things that went really well! I see my training methods as gentle and firm. A means to help everyone grow to their finest potential. With love and caring and joy in the journey.
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We have spent our first christmas together in the frozen north. lol Surviving so far..but I really miss the sunshine. But am otherwise enjoying the journey of our newly together household learning process.?
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My Master will be relocating to me. Not sure how long we will stay in this area, but always glad to make new friends in the lifestyle. We are happy to learn new things.?
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I have found the most incredible dominant man and am exploring a new relationship with him. If our love continues to grow stronger, we hope someday to add to our family with others that share our outlook on life. For now, he is a long drive away and we hope to merge households in the future. ?? He brings out submissive things in my that I had no clue about. And isn't that what a good dom does when he finds his submissive?
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college student just headed off back to college after Easter weekend at home.? Life goes back to quiet and peaceful.? The little old lady with her cats...someone..please save me from this life I envision!? lol |
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catching up on all the mail and bills and news in the town. refreshed the college students bank account,? talking with the few friends I have left in town..and wishing I was elsewhere.? Finally? finding some closure in the long term relationship that ended in december.? So, life is still good.? And I am always one step closer to that last passionate relationship I desire.? Content in the meantime to enjoy the experiences that come, revel? in? the laughter at the? oddities in the world and love the people in my life right now. ? ? I enjoy talking with people. feel free to write and we can get to know each other.? |
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Back in the cold. Look at that dang snow...brrrr.? wish someone was warming me up tonight.? So completed another journey to the southwest.? Michigan is harder to? come back to every time.? I am grateful for the chance to travel and my cats are glad to see me home.? But where is my dominant man ?? The one that misses me as much as I miss him? |
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tonight will be my last night in Sedona before? beginning the trip home to Mich. It is always hard to leave since this place feels like home for me. I make the trip out here a few times a year. Someday, I will move to AZ or NM. Looked around a little this trip. Trying to find the fit. Although, I do think with the right dominant that would be an easy choice. lol? We will see what life brings in the future, as always.?
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well, spent today shopping in Quartzsite. Was a good day for that..warm and sunny. Spending the night in Blythe..since I have never been to California, thought it might be fun to at least go into the state a little bit. then? will start heading back toward Sedona. Spend a few days there and head home....eeewww back to the snow and cold. I do love to travel...lol
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Heading for Tucson today. Hope to meet up with some friends. I love the country out here and the people seem to be my type of people. Hopefully get to relocate here in time.
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Visiting a friend in New Mexico. We worked together for the better part of 10 years. Already we have had a "discussion" lol not unusual for us. He is vanilla and simply a good friend. But it has me thinking about how important long term friendships are to me. And about how it is "rolling with the changes" to keep them alive and interesting. So why can't I do this with other kinds of relationships? Is it some aspect of the power exchange that I get needy or something? More things to ponder on this trip across the Southwest.?
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Heading off to visit Arizona again. I love the Southwest, it feels so much like a place I belong. Visiting there is a fine thing. I am meeting many wonderful people through my travels and on here. Thanks to everyone, as I learn and grow and understand more of what I require all the time.?
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while visiting a friend in Indiana? last week, we went to a? munch. I very much enjoyed meeting the? people there and was amazed at the large amount of? groups available? to be involved with.?? Thank you all for wecoming me and? I wanted to say I enjoyed it. |
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My daughter and I went to Florida over the christmas holidays. She is growing up nicely and we had a really enjoyable? time together.? heading off to Az again, hopefully February.? |
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Wow,? It's? been a while since I wrote anything in here.?? I don't show up here all the time now.? Beginning to settle in to the aloneness. Sure seems? a lot easier.? And winter is here. Hibernation time!? lol |
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It has been suggested to me that I change my profile from joining a poly household.? So please let me explain my idea of a poly household. It is not joining another couple as a third.? It is not a polygamous relationship.? I would actually consider some day? to? join in a polyamorus household.? With many subs and slaves and switches and doms.? Or I would like a dom of? my own. ??? You know, I do understand polyamory. I have done that in the past and I know some of its pitfalls for me. I know that it isn't the "typical" BDSM model held up by dominants looking to use women, but if I only get half a man, why should he expect all of me? That may sound harsh, but I am not a doormat and I am entitled to lay out what I want at this point. ???? I am now expecting to wait a very long time to find what I am seeking. And I now understand the profiles that say they would rather be alone than in a relationship that no longer works for them. I want to worship a man I adore. I want to be able to trust him with my life. I have tried things in the past that did not work for me. And I draw on that experience when I say no. It is not a judgement on the other person, only on myself. ??? ohh..the frustration is showing, isn't it?? lol But life is still good and it will all work out as it needs too. ????? Cathy
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