CalmBStorm

Next year will mark the end of my first decade in the lifestyle and I am looking for someone to help me celebrate the occasion.

My dominant streak is just that: a streak, it is not my essential nature. I'm into using it to have fun, not into living it 24/7.

Sex and play are very important in my life. I have a high sex drive and I crave play often (especially impact). The psychological elements of submission are as important to me as the actual spanking. You should have a similar libido and desire to play. Did I mention often?

I am an active individual with a wide range of interests. When I am not working I might be off Hiking, Sailing or attending Classic Car Rallies. I mostly watch European Cinema but very little television. I read rather more than is good for me, books, magazines and, more recently, the internet. I enjoy architecture, both classic and modern and often have to be asked to leave Art Galleries as they are about to close. The radio in my automobile is usually tuned to NPR and if I am listening to music it might equally be Verdi's Macbeth or Tori Amos and the best two performances I attended in the last year were a concert by Jann Arden at The Kniting Factory and The Kronos Quartet at The Santa Cruz Civic Center.

I am somewhat unusual in this day and age having never been married, although I have had several long-term relationships, with the last one ending over a year ago. So, there are no lunatic ex-wives, no kids and so no college to pay for, no alimony problems and I am proudly master of my own destiny.

I am in search of a young lady, sub or switch, (but not a slave), who can be either bisexual or straight and who is looking for a committed relationship with allowances for either or both parties to play should they choose. We will not be your classic d/s couple, collared and leather clad; that side of our life will be behind closed doors and for us alone or with close friends. I am not into fetish wear and cannot read enforced capitalization i.e. M/me without cracking up. And I do crack up a lot, as I enjoy life in all of its wonderful facets. My last two relationships in this lifestyle have been with ladies who were respectively 16 and 29 years younger than I but I refuse to put age limits on the ladies who might be interested in me, all I ask is that you are presentable, intelligent and are equally capable of discussing the books of Thomas Pynchon and Toni Bentley.

I have a fairly high level public profile in my real life and so I am unable to post images of myself until we have exchanged messages and emails and are ready to meet and for this unfortunate fact, please accept my apologies. But, unless you are expecting either Brad Pitt or Jude Law, I can guarantee that you will not be disappointed.

"The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it."
Oscar Wilde (1854-1900)